Help with my profile

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  MsSuperFoxy

  11 years ago

  No dick pics as profile pic...that's a good start. A validation...good start. and you have NOT used the words NSA in your profile. Well done!! You're a Sagittarius... same as me, so I give you 4 out of 5 stars. FOXY

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  19ian81

  11 years ago

  Thank you superFoxxy wish you were a little closer to me

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I can't really see anything wrong . You seem to have ticked all the right boxes with your blurb (but twice you've written "must" instead of "much") . You've got a Validation that backs up what you've written . The only problem is that you're a Saggitarian , but that can't be helped ... ;) A few more Pics would help (be wary of bathroom Selfies). Best of luck & Happy Hunting . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You've had some success but not as much as you'd like??? Bahahahaha Who are we Aladdin ??? You do realise Aladdin was a thief right??? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  MsSuperFoxy

  11 years ago

  In your opening line it says you're a "BUSY" man. I read that and thought how's this man going to make time for the ladies? What it is saying to me, is cause you're too "busy" with work and study etc I would be a schedule. I would pass straight away. "Busy" = unavailable to me. I look for someone who can make time to spend with me. Women want to hear that. Maybe just remove that opening sentence?? Good luck and hope you find what your looking for. FOXY xx

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I am a bit pedantic but then I am a photographer. don't pull faces or be in that clown party boy thing. try to get some better pictures also no LOL in your profile apart from that you seem to be doing just fine, from the validation you got. your just to close to Rockingham...where are you ugg boots

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  *giggling*... S'nP

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Hi 19Ian81 I think your pics are fine, you show the element of fun with that tie, and a selfie thrown in all great. Saying your busy is a bit of a turn off. You may be busy but don't say that. It's obvious you have a life and have found new things about enjoying life. That's great! Good luckEnjoyChillRelax all good BSX

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Have been on RHP for a while with mixed results. I do t no what I am doing wrong if anything. I always say no thanks if I dont want to meet or think they are compatible. I am always honest and up front with everyone. Please help its doing my head in.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I see only one massive unmistakable and decieving aspect of your profile ???? You say you want to let your hair down !! Baahahahahahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Openly_Curious

  11 years ago

  Personally I'm always wary of anyone who makes promises / assurances about how they'll make others feel fabulous in some way. You can't guarantee that another person won't be unsatisfied. You can guarantee that you'll do your best to make sure they're not unsatisfied, but you can't guarantee satisfaction. A slight but rather important distinction. Someone who guarantees their best effort suggests someone who is going to be attuned to whoever they're with, whereas someone who guarantees satisfaction actually sounds like a person who is so convinced of their amazingness that they will miss cues about when they're not hitting the mark. A bit more attention to grammar, spelling and punctuation wouldn't go astray. Pluses: mentioning that you can go from soft to wild according to who you are with; that you know what you want but have some flexibility in it; having a validation; and that it's written in a way that sounds like you're having a conversation.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I'll be leaving this site soon. I write to people who I match with and get nothing back leading me to the conclusion that even though they preach to be different, woman are just as shallow as us red blooded males. I'm not saying looks are important, because they aren't. I go for personality above all. But an attraction is nice. But you follow the rules and write things about yourself, be clear with what you want and you still get nothing. I don't look it but I am really adventurous person, especially sexually and don't have many boundaries as I'm open to new and exciting things. I believe my profile is good enough, I have private photos available, and I believe I have outlined what I want but still, to no avail except one very polite lady who has been replying to my messages. Things will need to change soon but I don't like my chances.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'Theseeker01' I believe my profile is good enough, I have private photos available, and I believe I have outlined what I want but still, to no avail except one very polite lady who has been replying to my messages. Things will need to change soon but I don't like my chances. Things will need to change? Which things, the site, the shallowness of all the women? Or perhaps your approach? Sorry to hear it's not working for you here, but you're just another man blaming things on others. I believe it's rude not to reply to messages myself, but obviously your emails aren't what the get the women you are interested in going. I think you're profile is ok, but you have a couple of "Ask me"s in there, and plenty of women here will move on from your profile because of them. Just read the forums. "Ask me" is seen by a lot of people as you hiding something for a reason. "Ask me" for height could mean you're 5'1... The fact that you're bi may work against you (again, there are topis on this), though for me personally it would give you an advantage. It's great you have a face pic, kudos, though a slightly happier looking one would appeal to me more. Or perhaps more than one. As I've never received a message from you I can't comment on those, but I'd love to see an example (here or in private) if you're interested in honest opinions. Ball's in your court.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I'm new here any tips to help me validate my profile will be nice ..thanks in advance

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