Help with profile review and intro message

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  im thinking you cant have been any good ,,,,else those successes would be back for more ,,,get real n stop speaking of woman as if they were notches on your bedhead ,,,,,

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  😉 well I like your profile. Couple of minor tweaks, the upper case 'no drama' twice kind of shouted at us lol I think it goes without saying no-one wants drama, maybe change it to a quick bit about your situation. You're married, most women will want to know if you're in an open relationship and/or playing with your wife's knowledge. But here's what I love. For a start, even though I'm in shape, some curves but not overly curvy, by you having that at the top, it says to me you appreciate and love the woman's body, in all it's forms, well maybe not all, but that combined with wanting ongoing, for me is a huge tick, and makes me more relaxed, because it suggests you probably won't be wanting to kick me to the kerb and move on to the next one, if it was a successful meet, good connection and all that, it would be nice to do it again. Exactly what I look for, you tick a lot of boxes, and since I'm not looking for a husband, a good there. One thing I will say on that, aside from the moral dilemma for many women, there is the danger of being abused by an angry wife. That concerns me and you would need to convince me your wife wouldn't come to find me lol 😀😇 Also love that you mention your corporate life, tells me you have your shit together, I don't, at least one of us would have 😂😂😂 Final note, we sometimes get busy with life and here, as you would, and sometimes we need a second prompt by way of a second message or flirt, not always my intention not to reply, depends on the day/week, sometimes rarely look at messages, so being the train wreck that I am, a gentle slap lol to remind me to hurry up and reply 😉

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  a gentle comment 'a few successes but that has quietened down'. And you think that is bragging about notches on the bed post?? Jeez having a bad day are we? 👎

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  NO DRAMA - really? Reads like a bit of a personal services advert... and you want NO DRAMA. Review how you say things as well as what you say. Also as BMB said, you appear to talking like women as notches. Perhaps you are the drama? KH

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I personally would have concerns about you being married and your profile not indicating the status of 'open or otherwise' relationship. Personally I wouldn't go any further with your profile on that alone, even though I'm married, I'm in an open relationship :) This is going to sound terrible and it's not normally what I do but you stating that being available 'for weekends with ample warning' screams 'I need enough time to plan the lie to my wife'. As some feedback, I would make some statement about the married and playing part. It saves people time and messsage ... be upfront and let people potentially interested decide based on 'honest and true information' on your profile. Mary x

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Not sure what was offensive with my post to merit your comment. I wasn't insinuating anything at all; not that I'm the best porn star in the world nor did I set off to disrespect women. But hey opinions are like noses, everybody has one. Thanks for sharing yours!! Quoting 'blackmagicblonde' ,,,get real n stop speaking of woman as if they were notches on your bedhead ,,,,,

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Great insight from a woman's perspective. Your suggestions have been well noted and the tweaks would be made. Thanks for taking the time to share.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Appreciate the feedback. I'm glad I asked for help as your suggestions have really brought out points I never would have thought about. For instance, my needing notice on the weekend was purely due to work and/or sporting activities but I understand how that can be misconstrued sd 'I need enough time to plan the lie to my wife'. When I first joined, I was advised to state the relationship status and then explain when asked in private messages but I realise explaining upfront saves everybody some time. Thanks

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  You are after intelligent women - so a question. Do you think intelligent women will go after a man in his thirties who is still saying he loves eating and pounding? It's hilarious! Haha. Perhaps a more mature turn of phrase will garner you more success.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Agree with the married comments above. It takes a lot of effort being with someone who is cheating so you need to be extra special and treat women well - not as an easy pounding experience. Hahaha.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Thanks KillerHeelz for the feedback. I'll review and revise accordingly to reflect all the suggestions. Regarding what BMB thought, maybe if she'd considered English is not even my first language and the intent behind my post, may be just may be she would have arrived at a different conclusion. I wasn't disrespecting women by thinking they were notches (had to Google what that meant), neither did I set off to brag. But I respect both your opinions. Apologies to her and any who might have been offended. Meant no disrespect or malice.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  one for my special list 😏

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