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Her First MMF - help required

December 04 2021

So.... My partner and I have been together for a while and from the get go we spoke about threesomes, when we have sex we talk about it, when I’m away we text about.. it’s always never too far away from our thoughts. We had always said we would do it when we go on holidays as you know you’ll never see them again blah blah blah.. -Enter Covid- Obviously Covid has been harsh on us all, let alone going overseas for a naughty holiday.. so I said screw it, let’s have some fun., I have had them with previous partners, she hasn’t and she loves the idea and the thought but I think is very cautious and wary of having another join us in our home state, I’ve said to her let’s ease into it, possibly go to a swingers club to just watch, if more happens then so be it but just go introduce her to it all.. I love the idea of someone watching us, seeing a guy masturbating to my partner fuck me is literally the ultimate for me. And then if she is comfortable with them watching they can slowly join us. She loves the thought of him having a wank whilst she sucks my dick him suddenly licking her from behind and eventually fucking her.. but it all seems to be with her never looking at him.. perhaps she, but I’d say not, possibly wary of too much of a sexual connection, again no idea.. so I suggested a blindfold.. she wouldn’t know who or what or how many and that got her really excited and I think may possibly get her over the line.. she said she wanted me to film it but obviously not include their faces etc.. anyone have any suggestions?? I know she loves the idea and I know she wants to do it but I can see there are some hesitations and wanted some thoughts, maybe those who have done the same.

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MsSuperFoxy

3 years ago

If she's hesitant, don't do it till she is ready. She will know and will tell you. Trust and communication is the key. She needs to feel safe and secure. Ms Foxy

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Phoenx2020

3 years ago

There’s a Great club in Belmont perfect to gradually , where You can look around, watch what’s happening if you want to sneak of for one fun u can either locked away to yourselves or in areas where One or more can watch but I was the same when I first went not knowing what it was like once inside, happy to answer any questions privately if u prefer , also depending ur schedule Sunday’s are often quite and perfect to get a feel of places

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Gingerninja12

3 years ago

I would love to come watch your mrs fuck you no expectations on joining in I just get of on watching I’m respectful of boundaries and discrete

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teamaj2

3 years ago

Burswood Play , your post resonates with me . My husband told me from the moment I met him his desires to explore etc . It seemed exciting , I was curious but I wasn’t sure I could actually go through with it . He waited 10 years for it to finally come to fruition . We were always fantasising about it , it aroused us but there was hesitation. We talked and talked and talked about scenarios, jealousies, boundaries, issues that may arise etc etc . We didn’t want exploration to ruin our relationship. You cannot possibly cover all situations or feelings that may arise during play , attending events or afterwards . Once again good , open , honest communication is a must and patience . I understand her hesitation on so many levels . We had a hotel getaway planned in the city we live in . As luck would have it , we ( I) connected with a M on chat . My husband likes me to do all online communication, to see if I am comfortable. He reads all communications and has 100% input to all decisions. Long story short , we met in a city bar . The conversation flowed etc etc . We invited him back to our room. My husband , even when we were back at the room , constantly checked in with me , asking if I was okay to proceed . He never coerced me or made me feel any pressure to proceed . It went well . It was relaxed , fun and certainly a good , positive experience to begin with . We did attend an event a few months after that , in a relaxed bar environment. We were both terribly nervous and the nerves are always there when we met anyone or in past have been to an event . Events can be nerve wracking as you never know who will be there . If you see anyone there you know , will it impact on your ‘real life ‘ etc . In short - Never pressure your partner . Let her proceed at her own pace . The lines of communication must be open , honest and respectful at all times . She needs to know you 100% have her back. Always listen to your partners concerns even if you don’t agree or understand them . They are her feelings and they are valid . Reassurance is different to coercion . Have a safe word . That may sound cliched but she or you may feel uncomfortable at some point . All meet ups , events will be different . Even if attending the same event or seeing the same person more than once . Wants , wish lists and boundaries are changeable . You need to communicate if one of you wishes to ‘move the goal posts ‘. Hopefully the wait will prove worth it . Good luck . Ax

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MsSuperFoxy

3 years ago

After rereading your original post again, Fantasy (discussing) and reality are two different things. IMO: Blindfolding: Wait till she gives you the consent and go ahead. At the moment it may get her off talking about it. Reality is, she's not there. Blindfolding her and placing her in such a vulnerable postion and secretly bringing others in without her knowledge, will NOT get "her over the line". That's just shithouse! Blindfolding takes a lot of trust. I mean a lot. I know from first hand experiences and know who my Ninjas are and fully vet them prior. You can suggest everything under the sun, reality is she's just not there with you. Ms Foxy

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nightingale8

3 years ago

Just a thought, why don’t you get him to wear a tasteful mask? If an anonymous male is what she wants why not 😁

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HungCougarHunter

3 years ago

Your profile states you are single 🤔

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Sawadee

3 years ago

I read your post several times just to get the right picture. The thing that stands out most ' is the fact that as much as your wife desires all the things you mention . She doesnt want to see the faces of those enjoying her and vice versa. In other words ' lets forfill our fantasy and walk away back to reality. Nothing wrong with that ' as it is her fantasy and i hope that one day she will forfill that fantasy. Bottom line is ' is she really ready ? May l suggest you both start looking for a guy she feels attracted too , arrange to meet at a neutral location and see if you all click , several times if required , Let her know its all up to her and without pressure.. l wrote about my / our experience in another recent post .. " guys and bulls " that explains the positive outcome we experience... Anyway ' good luck with whatever you decide..

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myprincess

3 years ago

Hi me and my wife want to come down for our first time and give it a go. I tried messaging and calling the number but I got no response. Is there another way to get an invite?

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Aqilii

3 years ago

Hey there I love your idea I'm interested

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Aqilii

3 years ago

Please message me

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