M56 F45
His and Her pictures
August 15 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
of the RHP singlemale couple....they hide behind a photo of a woman,may be their wife,former wife or a random pic. The ''wife'' is never available to chat online or speak on the phone,often asleep,working or doing the dishes. On the other hand there are genuine lovely people here OPs .x Hugs H
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
Lots of real couples do it. Fucked if I know why...
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Zsuza69
12 years ago
we have quite a few pics of her and only a couple of him why is this????Because he is mostly behind the camera lolBut know what you mean.
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Zsuza69
12 years ago
we have quite a few pics of her and only a couple of him why is this????Because he is mostly behind the camera lolBut know what you mean.
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RHP User
12 years ago
thanks Hesione, we figured as much but thought perhaps we were being unduly pessimistic.
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rc_80
12 years ago
In our experience, there is generally a reason the fella doesn't show himself straight up. We've been unfortunate enough to have actually verbally reacted to seeing some of these males, for the first time, on webcam. There's no getting out of that one kids! What can you possibly say to someone when your reaction to their looks is a combination of "ewwww", a grunt, and some unusual body noise (still unsure which one of us did that!).But, well, they should have been more upfront in the first place...Plain and simple these profiles are hoping to use the Mrs half as bait. And let's get straight to the point: We've NEVER met a single couple, that was fun, could hold a conversation, enjoyable to be around, attractive, friendly, and most of all... NORMAL, that displayed any of the following - 1. 'Ask me' sections2. F%#k all photos, or 'bait' photos3. Disclaimers "We do not authorise Sydney university..."4. Template profile5. 'Im horny and need attention NOW!' tag line6. Mobile number straight up on the profile (unless their newbies and naive, we got sick of random cock shots at 5:30am)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Where's the maybe we just prefer looking at boobs option? We usually have some partnered ones floating around in the public gallery, but our profile pics are mostly just of me... mainly for aesthetics as the solo shots just show up nicer as a profile pic than a less detailed couple one.
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DonnaBrett
12 years ago
For us it's simple...NO photo, NO meet, NO exception!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Its easy for us --- she is sexier than me .. and to look at.
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LoveFrenzy
12 years ago
For us, seeing both partners is a must.Even a body shot in the public gallery is enough to give you an idea and at least give you some confidence that it's a real couple.Then (call us shallow if you like) we have to see face pics of both.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'cuddlestas' Its easy for us --- she is sexier than me .. and to look at. Ok so does that men, the other woman in the couple has to have a less sexy guy who is not handsome? That is a cop out me thinks. Everyone has a visual attraction so a picture of a persons face or both faces in private gallery would save a whole lot of trouble. I have met couples, on some occasions, she was attractive and he was not at all ,and that is so embarrassing for everyone when your face to face. Couples need to save other people from embarrassment by showing both parties , that’s only fair. After all I would not meet a single guy without a face picture. I would also like it when couples write on the forum, to say HIM or Her at the end of the post unless they’re joined at the hip and head I think people have different perspectives on topics that can be gender specific.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We always ask to see photos of both before committing to anything and no one has ever had a problem with providing them. However, we have noticed that we have clicked more with couples who have photos of both of them in their galleries than those with only her. There are more photos of me in our galleries and this is because of our love affair with erotic photography. Mr loves taking the shots and is quite talented at it and I love dressing up and pretending to be glamorous, naughty or down right dirty It's a hobby XXX (Mrs)
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RHP User
12 years ago
add them to the "ask me pile" They arnt happy with how they look or think the lady will cover for them and get a date? Sure...most couples have bi girls, and so the girlie pics DO appeal to the guys and girls... But if your playing with a couple, we need to see both the guys...so if everyones happy, we chat and meet for drink :) We are upfront with pics and dont expect to be everyones cup of tea... but thats ok, we are pretty busy with those we DO click with...
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LoveFrenzy
12 years ago
Very nice photos they are too!!!Quoting 'Waterbabes' There are more photos of me in our galleries and this is because of our love affair with erotic photography. Mr loves taking the shots and is quite talented at it and I love dressing up and pretending to be glamorous, naughty or down right dirty It's a hobby XXX (Mrs)
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Skyn2Skin
12 years ago
You know I (He ,for tuscanred :) ) have never given this a thought. I just went and looked at our own profile, and yep there it was just a single pic of me (him ). So I sat and gave it some thought as to why. The best explaination I could come up with was pretty weak, being. I mostly upload our pics and quite simply dont find myself anything special to look at but conversely find Mrs dblact quite worthy of peering at, so I guess sub consciously I simply upload pics of her and not myself which I guess hopefully adds to the appeal of our profile to suitors as based on my own desires as I think she is gorgeous and appealling. (secondary to this is, I too like waterbabes would prefer to take the pic than be in the pic!) Does this make her bait? I certainly hope not, as this was never the intention of the discrepency with unequal shots of ourseleves, but is certainly food for thought. Having said all this our PG is pretty even.
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RHP User
12 years ago
thanks everyone - looking forward to seeing photos of him on RHP too ha ha haMsC
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'rockercouple80'In our experience, there is generally a reason the fella doesn't show himself straight up. We've been unfortunate enough to have actually verbally reacted to seeing some of these males, for the first time, on webcam. There's no getting out of that one kids! What can you possibly say to someone when your reaction to their looks is a combination of "ewwww", a grunt, and some unusual body noise (still unsure which one of us did that!). I reckon its because in most couples the bloke is punching above his weight! LOL........I know I am
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TWOfourYOU
12 years ago
Rocker Couple have it it ONE! No more comment required! You got to be happy with who you are, those that are (and genuine) put photos of both. We do, yes we get knock backs and although like most a dent to your ego, we respect it and appreciate we (are body shape or style) is not for everyone! Have fun Guys!
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RHP User
12 years ago
We'll def make sure to get a pic of both of us in the profile (and get verified, too).Good advice... ta!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Agree with this.. altho I can't talk as ours doesn't have fiends face pic in our public gallery. Not thatwe think he's hideous and have to hide his monstrous self from the world, but rather his line of work. We keep facial pics of him and well more of him in our private gallery and ok people can say "but if it's a privacy thing they could see that when you give them pg access" and yes that is true, but the chances of him being known are far slim compared to the public option. And anyway we both get on cam and whatnot and we know we don't float everyones boat, usually it's me that is the unfavoured one, not him lolPlus being veteran members on this site has its' perks, nobody forgets us lolMrsf xx Quoting 'rockercouple80' In our experience, there is generally a reason the fella doesn't show himself straight up. We've been unfortunate enough to have actually verbally reacted to seeing some of these males, for the first time, on webcam. There's no getting out of that one kids! What can you possibly say to someone when your reaction to their looks is a combination of "ewwww", a grunt, and some unusual body noise (still unsure which one of us did that!).But, well, they should have been more upfront in the first place...Plain and simple these profiles are hoping to use the Mrs half as bait. And let's get straight to the point: We've NEVER met a single couple, that was fun, could hold a conversation, enjoyable to be around, attractive, friendly, and most of all... NORMAL, that displayed any of the following - 1. 'Ask me' sections2. F%#k all photos, or 'bait' photos3. Disclaimers "We do not authorise Sydney university..."4. Template profile5. 'Im horny and need attention NOW!' tag line6. Mobile number straight up on the profile (unless their newbies and naive, we got sick of random cock shots at 5:30am)
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ForeverLovers
12 years ago
When we started on this sexual adventure together we had a chat about things we felt strongly about. One of them is honesty in our profile and the other is honesty in our photos. It would have been very easy for us to lie on our profile as we are a slightly "odd" couple lol! I'm 9 years older than Mr FL and in contrast to his fairly athletic body, I'm short and well, more "rounded" lol! We could have kind of averaged out our ages and said we were both 39 and I could have taken off 20 or 30 kgs from my weight. But what is on our profile is the truth. The reason being, we want to eventually meet couples we chat to and it's going to be pretty damned obvious we lied when we do!!! So, when it came time to do photos, yes it was tempting for me to just put on a sexy bra and do a nice cleavage shot ..... but that wouldn't have felt right to us. So we both stripped down as far as we were comfortable (for Mr FL boxer briefs and for me a babydoll and panties), we stood embracing each other in bright, unforgiving light in our kitchen and used the self-timer on the camera and just took a heap of shots.We also did a more cheeky shot of him naked against the wall and me kneeling in front of him ...... this shot ended up being our favourite even though RHP considers it naughty because it looks like a sex act! Of course I look at my photos and wish I was a different shape. I wish there was less of me. I wish I looked like the female OP! But again, when we do meet with a couple, it comes down to honesty and knowing what to expect. And I know that our photos are completely honest, in fact brutally so. From our point of view there will be no surprises. We are who we are. Plus I'd like to add that there is a lot more to us than just our outward appearance, we are a fun and outgoing couple and I think we have an awesome sex life and a great sense of humour. But humans being what we are we need to have some physical attraction, thus the photos! If we open up our gallery and we're not a couple's "type", well we've got broad shoulders. We have had some very interesting experiences with other couple's photos. This has included them being completely absent (no photos at all and every excuse under the sun why they can't/won't show them), to being so old its ridiculous, to being just of genitalia, being of one half of the couple only, to being "Photoshopped" to death and even images I've recognised off Google images search. So to the OP's candm4fun ..... good on you for having pics of both of you, you're a very sexy couple and it's great to see a photo of the two of you together. I hope your decisions with regards to photographs brings you lots of sexy fun! To other couples reading this that don't have recent full body photos of both of you ........ please consider it. It wasn't an easy thing for me to do, but I'm glad I did it and it takes all the guesswork out of the equation and lets us concentrate on being naughty and having fun! Mrs FL xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
we just wish people were honest with what they showed.... and that the pics accurately depict who the profile is actually about, rather than see arty friggn pictures of hats, cigars, flower arrangements, or last years mothers day gifts.... oh and be regular pics taken by regular people... the ones staged by a professional and done in a studio might be at home on your bedroom wall, but here, all theyll do is mislead people..............
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RHP User
12 years ago
Same as other posters here, the reason we don't have photos of both of us together is that one of us is behind the camera, but good point made and something to think about. Even though we have played with others, getting them to take photos in that situation comes down to a trust thing that we haven't found yet.Having said that, not impossible (with vaguely extendable arms) to get both of us in a shot!!! We don't do face shots in the public gallery just for a privacy thing, but have them available for those we have established some sort of connection with.Thanks again for food for thought x
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Mr_MrsJones
12 years ago
We make a conscious effort to have an even representation of both of us in public and private gallery. We also make an effort to keep our photos up to date. We also try to have a range of photos so that people can get an idea of us from our photos as well as our words. There are a few things that get up my nose when it comes to photos': 1) The worst offence, NO photo. Really there is no excuse. I will accept "I do not show my face in public" but I won't accept ANY other excuse because they are just that excuses and usually piss poor ones at that. 2) Photos of her and not him. See the comments from number 1. If the excuse is "I am not sexy enough" then WTF are you doing flirting me. I don't want someone who looks like the back end of a bus even if his wife is smoking hot! If you don't look like the back end of a bus then put a damn photo up. I need to see what I am buying thank you. 3) Grainy phonecam photos. It doesn't cost much to get a decent camera. It doesn't take a brain surgeon to work it. I don't expect photos that would be at home in a magazine. I do want something that I can see properly. If we can make the effort I don't see why people who don't bother should expect attention from us!. Rant over. Thanks for listening.Mrs Jones.
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Two_Tarts
12 years ago
Not that hard to set a modern camera to give you a 10 second delay to get you both in the photo, though it can be hard to stop the dog wandering through your photo just as the camera goes off. Does a beagle wearing pyjamas cross the RHP line on no photos featuring animals? Like most people we are also in the "we don't make dates with people we have never seen" basket and so we give our attention to profiles where we can get an impression of both members of the couple. It's not about the perfect body or the perfect photo but it is about a reasonable starting point for what both of you as a couple find attractive. First impressions do not tell you the whole story, but they do count if you want people to look further!
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
I would like to know why in couple profiles there are more female pics then males pics! But I do get alittle concerned when there are more male pics or only pics of males on a couples profile.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
from what we can see, you are totally fine. Love to see and meet you :_)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'scutt1818'from what we can see, you are totally fine. Love to see and meet you :_) try us on cuddles7169 at hot mail
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RHP User
12 years ago
we took along time to put up our face pics on site, not because we did not want to , we prefered to swap them via sms. yes being upfront with people is the only way because as otheres have said one day you will have to front up face to face and no one likes someone who is not honest or deceptive. be proud of who you are and what you have to offer others. not everyone will like you, but its the ones that do that count happy swinging all xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
We use to have both as a profile pic we got a few bites but none we wanted so we r ggoing to try the girl as profile pic bit still he is in the public gallery.. you have to have a pic of both no matter what u both look like you never kknow who is going to be attracted to you or your other half.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'we just wish people were honest with what they showed.... and that the pics accurately depict who the profile is actually about, rather than see arty friggn pictures of hats, cigars, flower arrangements, or last years mothers day gifts.... oh and be regular pics taken by regular people... the ones staged by a professional and done in a studio might be at home on your bedroom wall, but here, all theyll do is mislead people..............
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey guys, We're on 3 swingers sites and it seems to be the same on all of them! Always pics of the Twins and Pussies but not much in the way of face pics of both. We can relate with you in your thoughts, Are they a real couple, or just a guy getting his kicks? We feel that if you're a genuine couple and are happy to post pics, you should also verify yourself.
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