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Holy hell, do not throw abuse over a profile view.

January 01 2015

We're pretty new to this site and the whole scene for that matter, and we have really been enjoying our experience on here!For the most part, it has been fun and friendly, and we hit it off with most with whom we have chatted. What we would like to point out is that the RHP mobile app (and mobile website for that matter), will present on the home screen people with the gender/type that you are seeking (eg, we are seeking women and couples), and will sort them based on their proximity to you, but will completely fail to factor in your age etc preferences.What's even more frustrating is that it will count every profile that you swipe past (even if you don't view the details) as a view. With the last part, we got used to it, and sometimes people view us who we aren't looking for, and sometimes we do the same, it's just how the app functions. Today, we got an absolute shocker of a message from a woman who was the same age as one of our mother's/more than double our ages, and a good 16 years older than our absolute maximum age listed on our profile.We didn't even view her profile details, let alone send a flirt or a message, and this nutjob had the audacity to abuse, insult and ridicule us for 'viewing her profile' even though we were looking for different things. What the actual fuck?Does this happen frequently on RHP with the Canberra crowd?We're both still fuming - we only signed up as paid members within the last week, and we're starting to worry if we've made a mistake. The Canberra swinging pool is small as it is, it's a little disconcerting to think that there's more than one out there like this. Has this happened to anyone else?Can they fix the bloody app / educate the baby boomers to calm their tits when it comes to profile views?

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RHP User

10 years ago

You guys are very attractive and people get excited when they see a sexy couple or people viewing their profile as they take it as interest. When in reality there are many reasons that you point out why you may "view" a profile. If you really don't want that happening, you can go into settings and tick the box so then no one knows when you view their profile. But then sometimes it is helpful when they do know, then they look at you and then a flirt and perhaps contact. Just a shame people can't behave politely

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RHP User

3 years ago

Id suggest that her frustrations are related to something other than you looking at her profile. Its not right or normal behaviour i would think. I always try to see other people's aggression as being something unrelated that they are going through. Lots of kindness to you guys. Good luck

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Holy hell, do not throw abuse over a profile view.

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