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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  With couples we trust coming to our house to play. We've met some really nice ones during our journey and have never had any show up uninvited. It could come down to the way you screen people before you commit to the fun stuff. If you don't wish for couples to come to your home, ask them to go halves in the motel costs..

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  Ice_Fire

  12 years ago

  We have been doing this now for around 3 years and so far no bad experiences in regards to playing at home but having said that we are VERY careful about who we bring home. We have kids so we dont want someone who is going to rock up unannounced when the kids are home. We generally meet people socially first if all is good and we take things to the next level we either go to thier place, a club or a hotel (splitting the cost between us) we only arrange to have people at our place if we have really gotten to know them, have played with them before and have a rapport with them. wouldnt do it for a first time meet that is for sure.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  let the bills rack up. share the expenses. Unless I really KNEW the person or people, i would never invite them to my home, because like you fear, there are some real freakazoids out there.while your home would be more comfortable, you would need 'failsafes' built in to your plan.Meet them somewhere and drive them to your place at night, taking them down back roads and alleys, and if it might become regular, take them different routes every time until you really get to know them and are comfortable with them.my personal favorite: make a kinky fantasy out of it, blindfold them, and have a basement 'play room' with no windows.pull off the blind fold so they see a wall with various whips, chains, and implements on it, just to let them know where they stand in life:)hehe.such fond military memories....

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  We use to have couples at our place but never play there, not when we have kids at home. We use to introduce others to our children as friends, but we have stopped now.   We have never taken a single guy to our home. Never any problems, we allways go halves on a apartment its a dealbreaker if others have a problem with this to us it feels like we are paying for sex if costs are not split 50/50. Interesting couples have never had a problem with this....but a hell of a lot of single guys do and suggest cheap motels instead of luxuary 4 star apartments!

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