RHP

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M37 F40

Home vs Hotel/Party

March 03 2012

Where do you prefer your play dates to take place? The convenience and comfort of home (yours or theirs?), neutral territory like a hotel, or a sexually-charged adult party environment? For first-time meets we've found parties to be best, but as meets become more regular, home has a nice intimacy to it :)(probably a different story for those with kids?)Mrs Blacktastic :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We like to initially meet in public, but all things going well, our place is the preferred option. Much more intimate and cosy than a hotel and we're not into exhibitionism.We do have a time share kid so that does limit us a bit but there are plenty of opportunities. At least more openings than offers. :(

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I like parties and Sex on premises facilities because there's plenty of variety. I also like meeting outdoors. I least prefer meets at private homes (unless its a party at a private home).... not sure why... maybe it just feels too intimate... if that makes sense... I mean... a private room in a sop with the door half open can be amazingly intimate anyway. Some of the most memorable encounters I've had are completely outdoors.HugsStalky

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    home. ours or theirs..........never a party, and rarely a hotel. never a hotel in our home town.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We prefer Home but Hotel is ok.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The kinds of BDSM public play are usually different from private play. This is because we usually feel more comfortable with our own equipment and environment. Now I have my own dungeon, hold my own parties and have my own private fun. Hotel beds are not built to chain subbies to.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I can relax more away from home - so give me two nights away in a 5 star hotel , wine , music, and lots of cock and im a happy camper. We still have kids at home , so when at home I always have one ear out in case they return ( unpredictable teens)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Looking at my house today- still unpacking.............HotelBut home's are good too it's a bit more intimate sharing your house.Cass xxx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Have played at home, when the kids are at school or with friends, at their home and at the hotel. It's all good.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    We like the excitement of going out for a night. A nice dinner great company with the anticapation of play in a pre booked 4 star apartment.   With kids even older ones you never know when they will turn up home is out of the question.   Parties / clubs ...nah, maybe if we went with another couple that we knew well, or we knew the hosts well and had an idea in advance what type of mix was attending.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Hotel for sure. Mutual ground. If you are hosting you can still be welcoming and hospitable in a hotel room, plus I think it's a lot to do with the people involved. They can make it feel more open and comfortable regardless of where it is... I'm not speaking from experience though. :S