M53
Honesty????
August 03 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
a plan Dan,lying will work as well for you as it did for those other dudes....lie away,
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just keep at it and don't drop your standards mate.I would rather be honest and use my hand than lie to get a quickie !People see you for who you are in the long runCheers
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can't really call template profiles honest.
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RHP User
11 years ago
the truth, you don't have to remember anything....
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Sorry dude....... is this topic a point being made, a whinge or a question?!! I see elements of all three..... and none of them add any 'attraction' value to you. Please accept the following coments as they're intended.... observations from an outsider, to assist you. You say you're speaking to women in here. Great! That already puts you a step ahead of all those guys who complain about not receiving responses. AND these women are telling you what other guys are doing wrong (which is a form of code for "here's how you can do it right"). So clearly if you're messaging women, they're replying, perhaps multiple times and with enough detail to discuss their problems with past communications... .... but you're "having no luck on here".... which I presume means you're not meeting anyone (with a goal of sex). So accepting these points youve made....it would seem to me that the problem has less to do with honesty or dishonesty.... and more to do with your communication. You can write messages that get replies.... well done. But you can't engage further, to the point that they ask to meet, or accept your proposal to meet. Only you can answer why.... as we cant see these message conversations. But I'd ask if you are escalating the rapport and comfort during your ongoing messages, and are proposing a meet at all?! DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
dan has a plan and this is his plan
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RHP User
11 years ago
As a couple that truly believes we are being as honest as our profile allows, it's frustrating when people quite obviously lie. Don't get me wrong, everyone is entitled to measure themselves against their own personal perception, but it seems many people, and yes, guys most notably, clearly BS, in an attempt to get some. The profiles limit each of us to height/weight/age stats, with the ability to talk about yourself, but, the writer will always talk up the good, and miss the bad. We much prefer the whole catchup beforehand, if only because you get to see to whole package, not just the highlights. I'm guessing that most that lie hope they are simply not caught out or called on it, but its always frustrating when you see photos that are clearly years(or decades) old when you meet them. Our advice is to stay honest, as it makes the whole experience so much better when you can just be yourself. It's worth the wait for that alone. Don't get disheartened here, it can sometimes seem like a meat market. Take the threat away and maybe just offer to meet them for a drink, and let them decide on the whole package, not just a short profile. Meeting you and seeing you haven't BS'ed is ne of the best starts.
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madotara69
11 years ago
If you have been honest and 42, lying now would get you into strife quick smart, because you would be no good at it. Once you have lied, then you have lied, would you get to sleep with that.I reckon, treat the ladies as friends, they want friends and will answer you once they believe you, that could take hours, days even weeks, But your honesty will count, it always will and it has to.Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm more interested in your "IF REQUIRED" for safe sex.I'm more worried about spreading STD's and putting others HEALTH at risk, first before spreading the BS!!!NOT COOL DUDE!!FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
You want honesty from people...LOL there ya go I said it above!FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
The truth is easier than a lie though it can hurt in the short term (lies hurt more in the long run).Some people spin so much BS on a regular basis that they end up truly believing their own crap. So sad... such bad karma.
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RHP User
11 years ago
has gone to ground. Good point Foxxy n nice ink
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why lie when the truth will do? I'm hearin ya mate, but if u feel u need to lie about ur profile or change ur profile, be that change.. If ur doing it for a grl u don't kno or wanna slay, she probs wrong grl.. However if she inspires you, the changes look after themselves.. I'm regards to gettin attention on rhp I'm 3 weeks in and in the same boat.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
U gotta "have more than u show", and "speak less than u know" 🙈🙉🙊 Can't offer the world & deliver an atlas.. Girls are makin it happen buy themselves anyways- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'cwhereitgoes' has gone to ground. Good point Foxxy n nice ink Thank you for kind words.. love my Ink too.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Honesty is important. If I catch a bloke lying to me I wipe him. Many of the other women on here will do the same. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are the men really lying, or are the women simply using you as an emotional tampon?? Might explain why you're not meeting. As DG said, have a look at how you communicate, as being the white knight gets you seen as a nice guy, not a sexually appealing one.....from my experience.- Posted from rhpmobile
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