Honesty!

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  cplusdee

  4 years ago

  Well I’d say you can stick to your guns until you find the right match, or you can modify your approach, although maybe then you won’t find exactly what you’re searching for. I’d say continue being honest, although maybe ask some other ladies to cast a critical eye over your language, there advice may help. And there’s no one size fits all approach, that’s the fun and challenge of the dance I guess. Good luck 😉

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  I dare say you may find it a little harder being totally honest and straight forward especially if you are immediately in your first contact. That said you may be lucky enough to write to the right lass who does truly appreciate this. For me I prefer to be completely honest and upfront but I am happy enough to wait for the one who does dig it. I also feel that when you are completely honest you generally don't attract those that you definitely want to chat to and weed out those that are not so honest. Good luck bloke

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  AnnieWhichway

  4 years ago

  Perhaps, you are not their cup of tea? Maybe they are being polite by answering your approach (lucky you). In reality they are not interested. Remember, they are different creatures... Goodluck Just be yourself. And remember, women are funny creatures

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  AnnieWhichway

  4 years ago

  Weird edit on this new format RHP...... Just sayin...

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  Sawadee

  4 years ago

  For instance ' and im being brutally honest here.. l like you ' wanna fuck ? Ouch..far too honest ? ... Should have said ' l like you and would like to get know you better... Theres a difference between being brutally honest and just being honest even if its takes abit longer... What im saying is once somethings said ' you cant unsay it. Even if l was being upfront honest..

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  Mischeviouslad

  4 years ago

  Without viewing an example of your interactions, i can only go by your profile, and your comment In making my response Your profile is pretty basic, so it may be reasonable for someone to ask what you’re looking for. But my experience is that in this site, real women dont often ask that.... or, they don't ask me that. Maybe thats a function of my more detailed profile, or its a function of messages I've sent them which doesnt cause them to ask But as is the case all things, its about calibration. If someone asks “how are you”, you probably shouldn’t go into a long monologue of all the things that are right (or wrong!) with your life. You dont need to sell. Just be interesting and engaging and inspire others to want to learn more. And if they don't.... theres no need to waste anyones time. Finally..... and this “may” sound harsh.... but you list yourself as friendly. But your photo doesn't paint that impression. Never tell someone what you are..... show them through your actions.

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  Kokoflamingo

  4 years ago

  Nothing wrong with being honest.......but dont expect flocks of women to be attracted to your " down to fuck only" needs. Most of the women I know on here are looking for respect and friendships and are fed up of being looked upon as free hook ups. Maybe change your wording and put a smiling face pic on your profile. Good luck!

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  Without seeing your interactions it's hard to tell, but I always stick to the rule, 'If I wouldn't say it to their face, don't send it in a text' Basic respect really.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  4 years ago

  If the take offence, ask yourself, is this the type of person I want to be around if I tell them what I want? If your answer is no, its answered. Ms Foxy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  4 years ago

  As stated on your profile, you are looking for NSA (No Satisfing Sex) hookups. Now besides being honest about your intentions, what are you going to do to get the women to remove her panties for you? You need to be accountable too. Ms Foxy

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