M53
Honesty a funny thing
May 13 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lots of fake profiles,lots of lies,fantasies,exageration,all go into the pie.Surely not too hard to sift and sort. I am a 24 year old champion pole dancer masquerading as a 54 year old woman cos I just want to see the surprised look on ya face when we meet. x Hugs H ps and my daddy owns a pub
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RHP User
13 years ago
...some may be full of shit but the women always have better prospects than us. There will always be a wider selection for them and they'll never need to put in as much effort to score.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am a big fan of just saying it like it is. The things is you don't need to play there games or jump through hoops. Say what you have to say stick to being yourself and be honest. If they are interested things will happen, really it should be easy. Any other rubbish just leave the ball in there court. Why jump through hoops, Do you want to do something with some one who isn't keen anyhow?tim
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RHP User
13 years ago
I get hit by scammers and to find out what they are ,who they are ,takes a bit of chatting. Had to leran the hard way ,but I think I got it now.Why do I get hit by them, who knows, I must look like a lonely poor female.....lol. Does it anger me, ya a bit, but mostly I play with them for a while until I push the dagger in, and then abuse them verbaly. Which gives me pleasure. I can let it rip. Pictures ,yaa so many men use old pictures, ....mmm. why? and put age down to under 60 ? mm why? why lie? I dont know, some have to pretend to feel better. I think you find out pretty soon, trust your gutfeeling...I do. this site is fun more fun then I imagined and here are more honest people then on other sites, please dont get disheartened. After a bit you can have a great circle of FWB. Trust me....lol and smile.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Honestly, montyv, please use punctuation*. As to your frustration, that's fair enough. I guess it's obvious why some people are less than truthful on here. Reality is it's hard to stand out from the crowd with such a limited scope for initial interaction. You might be a perfect match for someone mentally and sexually, but because you might not meet their blanket 'cutoff' age, or you don't take the perfect photo, it's so easy to be skipped over. While understandable, it's not a great start to any meeting, and 10 years is pretty ridiculous to fudge. Even still, some people in your situation would have been confronted with what you found, but gone and shagged her anyway. I've taken my chances so far and been lucky the people I've met have been who they said they were (that I know of!) If it's a problem though, have you considered video-chatting with them before you meet? That seems like a pretty good screening process if that's your concern. Good luck! * Sincerely, that guy
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RHP User
13 years ago
if everyone was honest,the world would be perfect and we would all spontainously combust!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mate....it's a fucking cirus out there. It'd be a real eye opener, if all of the girls on here actually had a good look at themselves, before they make some ridiculous wish list. Granted, there are some smoking hot ladies, here, but most are in the same boat as us, and should take a reality pill, some time. Saying that, some of the most fantastic lovers, bar none, are the women who are honest, and just want some fun...with a guy....who's not a porn star, who drives a Porsche, and has a penthouse....and a million dollars.......and a beach house in Tahiti. Sort the husk from the grain, and all is cool....or hot, actually. You have a point, though.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I fully understand why men and women tell { white lies ) here, this is obviously a sex site yes. There are many people out there who have just entered this scene and mostly above 30 and hav a little baggage with them as we all do. And with this comer poor self esteem and confidence, so they will say anything to get accepted by anyone. But im saying this I do know of some people who may have not had a look in the mirror in the past 10 years, and wow what shockers. We should all call it as we see it and not ask anyone for acceptance as we are who we are in life...... But as for the smokers as i am yes I agree tell the truth as there would be nothing worse than kissing an ashrtay
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RHP User
13 years ago
Monty, I am one of those women of which you speak. I have a list of pretty exact requirements in my profile. But why should I not put my ideal partner there? I'm not interested in a 27 yo, jobless, illiterate, married guy with 50 penis photos in his profile! Why not cut to the chase and let the guys looking at my profile know what I'm after? To me it cuts through some of the BS. Martinos, I recently had a date with the Porsche owner you speak of..... And cut that date short after realising he was a good 5+ years older than his profile claimed, 10kg lighter than he claimed to be , 4 inches shorter than he claimed to be and after the 20,000th time he mentioned he drives a (poor man's) Porsche... The car does NOT maketh the man! He basically lied to fit my ideal - so maybe there is no point listing your ideal traits! Food for thought....
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RHP User
13 years ago
1/ 5% of fellas get 80% of the women. 2/ These sites are ideal for swinging couples, and fems.3/ Women mostly have champagne taste (in men/boys) on often a beer budget.4/ Lots of blokes lie, because they are frustrated at being continuosly overlooked by those in 3/5/ Lots of blokes are their own worst enemy in the dating/cas sex game.6/ Lots of Fems are their own worst enemy in the dating/cas sex game.7/ Women mostly reap what they sow....and will complain loudly about the outcomes..over and over.8/ Your average fella with a modicum of smarts, confidence and manners will do much better in the real world.Cheers Felonius....came for the sex many years ago....learnt all the above the hard way, now just stay for the interaction. You do the sums!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well Monty no pic and your single lets judge....the first guy I met on here looked nothing like his photo which was probably more than ten years old, he was much heavier turned up to meet me inhis dirty work clothes unwashed and so desperately in need of a haircut.Was I disappointed yes I didnt see him again but it didnt stop me from meeting others and I am glad it didnt.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'feloniusfossil' 1/ 5% of fellas get 80% of the women. 2/ These sites are ideal for swinging couples, and fems.3/ Women mostly have champagne taste (in men/boys) on often a beer budget.4/ Lots of blokes lie, because they are frustrated at being continuosly overlooked by those in 3/5/ Lots of blokes are their own worst enemy in the dating/cas sex game.6/ Lots of Fems are their own worst enemy in the dating/cas sex game.7/ Women mostly reap what they sow....and will complain loudly about the outcomes..over and over.8/ Your average fella with a modicum of smarts, confidence and manners will do much better in the real world.Cheers Felonius....came for the sex many years ago....learnt all the above the hard way, now just stay for the interaction. You do the sums! Agrees Most Vehemently
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RHP User
13 years ago
one 52 + 9 month old ex tradesman - bad history of broken relationships.. Photo in the rocks is recent - the one doing weights is NOT... and what you see there, is who will turn up to meet you Missing a couple of teeth due to misadventure and violence Bugger all grey hair.. but "some" none the less.. Untamed hair anywhere.. MALES are SUPPOSED to have hair. Told he is the *best* hugger Told he is an excellent fck *Slightly* above the average western male cock size.. but, only slightly. Bad attitude toward fools.. and maybe humans in general Jaded, biased and oppiniated. Probably arrogant. Ideal sex partner - 30 year old females, trim taught and terriffic - *but* will settle for OTHERS (anyone even...if they will fck me) Ok.. that is being honest.. lets see all the girls come flocking to me.. :) cavey xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Still have it that is!Like Apollo Thirteen (who does still have it btw) why should a lady lower her standards just to please some Jo blow and fulfil his fantasy. This isn't SympathyPie and I for one would not settle for any less standard than I would look for outside of this site.Sure there are going to be women who do the 'old' pic trick, but I think you'll find it much more common coming from the men, sorry if this disappoints, but it's the god's honest truth.The amount of times Ive heard, "But I put an older pic of me up because thats how I still feel" ...ffs man!! But you don't LOOK like it whether you feel that way or not, you might be able to get away with that shit with your dear wife, but I didnt know you 'way back when you WERE hot'
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RHP User
13 years ago
My housemate wrote a list about what she wanted in her next partner. She was specfic, went into things like job, earnings, owned a car, blah blah. My list.a) great sexb) doesn't dislike/not allergic to catsc) happy to get trashy with me occassionally.I think I need to make my list longer.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Fuck you're one sexy fucker!!!!! Hugs roxxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
men outnumber women by some ridiculous ratio on these sites, so women can afford to be much more selective. couples are pretty similar, with a huge number of men to choose from, should that be their particular 'bent. we've found that women are here for reasons that are more aligned to the reasons couples quote....and that is to meet their 'ideal' or their 'fantasy' partner. we make no bones about the fact that we are very 'selective' in our choices, and feel we have every right to be this way. we, like some women we have spoken to, wont play with 'just anyone', and its unfortunate (not for us) that along the way to making a choice, we, and they, will leave a large number of men, and boys, to deal with our rejection of them.guys need to get over this, and move on.....if sites like this arent meeting their expectations, perhaps then they'd be better off finding some other way to pass their time. RHP indeed does cater for women and couples, and its a fact of life that a large slice of the income that membership generates is going to come from guys here as members on their own....guys who don't understand that they absolutely must present themselves in the best possible light, will not fare well here, and others who over do it and try much to hard to impress, should back off...the 'real' profiles with 'real' pics and 'real' descriptions of the people who they portray, will always fare much better than those who have no idea how to present themselves. i (mike) was here previously....as a single guy and fared very well indeed, and its only that i had such a great response to my profile previously and had huge success in meeting people, that we returned as a couple, when we made the decision to 'play'..... (we've been coupled for 5 yrs and married for half that)...... RHP will be successful for those who are genuine and who present themselves in the best way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
are just playing the 'I got options' card that's all... and so they should!.... it's a jungle out there speaking of jungles, I'm still looking for the elusive female yowie.... some how i think she is hanging out with Caveyto the op... your post bleeds a of dejected mood... don't make other people responsible for how you feel... chin up
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why do you people not cam up with people you are wanting to meet in the first place to weed out 96% of the misconceptions and possible phurphys they have on their profiles? The other 4%1% you can't judge height so well on cam..you can get rough idea but they could be standing on a chair lol..1% personality is a bit hit and miss till you meet but again you get a rough idea..1% everyone can bullshit about there financial status..that's a time and"who's gonna buy first drinks"weeding out issue1% the voice..but now Im being really picky!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cavey,you are such a fibber. coodi,really?xHugs H go east young men..well north east.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Grrr'My housemate wrote a list about what she wanted in her next partner. She was specfic, went into things like job, earnings, owned a car, blah blah. My list.a) great sexb) doesn't dislike/not allergic to catsc) happy to get trashy with me occassionally.I think I need to make my list longer.You should make your list longer. You haven't excluded me with that list.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Was plenty long enough to exclude me...lol Cheers Felonius....Deeeeniedd at B/
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Kinky_Charlize' Still have it that is!Like Apollo Thirteen (who does still have it btw) Thank you! (Batting eyelashes and blushing.......)
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RogueGeek
13 years ago
"/" is not punctuation! A full stop and some spacing would be nice so I can keep track of which like I'm supposed to be reading... I make a point of telling people about my fat rolls and stretch marks etc and they all turn around and tell me off for putting myself down or being too harsh. I am always worried somebody will be disapointed when they meet me in person and I'm not as "hot" as my pics suggest. In the end I just try to be as annoying as possible online so that when they meet my IRL they are pleasantly surprised... In the end, people will do whatever gets them results. Cheers,MS PS - Woooooot - I still qualify on PB's list lol Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Grrr' My housemate wrote a list about what she wanted in her next partner. She was specfic, went into things like job, earnings, owned a car, blah blah. My list.a) great sexb) doesn't dislike/not allergic to catsc) happy to get trashy with me occassionally.I think I need to make my list longer.
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Cat505
13 years ago
Hi Monty From a female who has been on here 4 weeks. My profile has been viewed over 5000 times. Over 1700 msg..ok let's say 10% are requests to meet..that's 170 guys..and I have a kid and work.. How do I choose? Seriously how many can I see a week.? There will be a lot rejected.. My list originally 5'10" + (prefer 6'2") sorry I love a man I have climb up. Lol 45 - 55. I am not a cougar..I have a step son who is 35. Just seems wrong to me.. Good side of average bod....I hate beer bellys. Reminds me of my dad..Ohh don't go there.. Good side of Intelligent..need to talk to them..I especially like it if their vocab extends past F .. Reasonable to look at..goes without saying.. I like to look at them..and smile not cringe...lol Call me strange but it helps to get me excited.. Now a lot of guys fill the list..now I need to weedle it down more.. After the first week I still reply to all flirts and msg.. Random msg/ re meet or giving me all their contact detail msg. ... Vetoed Boring chats ..vetoed I like hairy chests and other men's bits. I like a man to be a man .. Well you get the idea.. Now basically it is those men that take the time to get to know me via chat and that fit my original list and are free to meet when I am.. :) Under 43 vetoed..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MS_and_Geek' I just try to be as annoying as possible online so that when they meet my IRL they are pleasantly surprised... It's possible to be far more annoying than you are in these forums. Just look at how many people I've annoyed.
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Cat505
13 years ago
The iPad makes every thing run together instead of nice little separated paragraphs.. I like hairy chests.. The veto is for boring chats....lol Ok guys.... :).
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m3bmw
13 years ago
Why not just quit the game playing and be yourself? Also, on the other side of the equation, if you dont like what someone else is doing or requesting, then ignore it and move on with your life, how badly do their choices effect you?God I need sleep, I cant write a paragraph to save my life right now
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montyv12
13 years ago
This was never meant to be what it was turned into The reason was to see how many people get the same treatmentI personaly have no hang ups with height / age / race / sizewhere my concerns are with honesty its just nice for there to be no surprises It was never a venting over inflated self ego thing as for meeting people your chances are better at the pub anywayI will never get put off to stop but now understand its really the new face book of tomorrowWhen people don't have pics up generally means that that there friends are using the site as well we all have different names but having a pic is hard to deney I have been given a hard time form girls and guys i work with before and don't go down that path anymorethanks for the feedback from all
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RHP User
13 years ago
These threads have a life of their own. Sure you can give them their start but then you've got to learn to step back and let them go their own way and hope they turn out alright. Yes, some times they can be a disappointment but we love them anyway.
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RHP User
13 years ago
if the ratio so high..males compared to females..why must the females use old pictures.changed age by years.lie about their looks..or is it they feel if they lead a guy on long enough with flirt .sex chat and raunchy pictures .when they do meet up guy be that horny for her ,he not care she a short fat over weight.nut case,,,sex is sex and he bang her anyway...im finding if i dont want to plat their game im, told to fuck off and are blocked...
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RHP User
13 years ago
You know, I just read all this again. My second comment is.......fuck em all.....the lier, the pretenders, the poor souls who need to attach faked photos,or the people at work who give you heaps .........come one this is your private life.....you can do what ever you like. Should anybody at work say anything about this.....ohh trust me..... women can be sooo nasty.....there will be the word like slut floating around, and I hate this word........or she needs to be on a site like this to get laid, look at her..........and all this stupid old shit people have in their stupid little mind's. Get real people, stand up, stand out, we have only maybe 75 years on this earth, live it and the rest of the population can jump. I dont care. I work in a profession where my photo is on display also.....I bet some of the peopel on here saw me already or when I walk through Bunbury. Honest I DONT CARE> I am 55. NOW IS MY TIME. Go to a furnal look at peoples faces look at the age.....look how much is left...... do what you enjoy in life.....NOW. You dont have a tomorrow There will be always people who need to pretend.....YOU just dont, YOU just be real thats all there is. YOU.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya' You know, I just read all this again. My second comment is.......fuck em all.....the lier, the pretenders, the poor souls who need to attach faked photos,or the people at work who give you heaps .........come one this is your private life.....you can do what ever you like. Should anybody at work say anything about this.....ohh trust me..... women can be sooo nasty.....there will be the word like slut floating around, and I hate this word........or she needs to be on a site like this to get laid, look at her..........and all this stupid old shit people have in their stupid little mind's. Get real people, stand up, stand out, we have only maybe 75 years on this earth, live it and the rest of the population can jump. I dont care. I work in a profession where my photo is on display also.....I bet some of the peopel on here saw me already or when I walk through Bunbury. Honest I DONT CARE> I am 55. NOW IS MY TIME. Go to a furnal look at peoples faces look at the age.....look how much is left...... do what you enjoy in life.....NOW. You dont have a tomorrow There will be always people who need to pretend.....YOU just dont, YOU just be real thats all there is. YOU. Love this post
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wow, I'm glad I re-visited this one, MS and Jensman matches... aww, shame about FF, and I thought my list was pretty inclusive. :)Actually, on re-reading the initial post, I've decided this makes me mad. These men who come on here and expect to get laid just because they've signed up for an adult site. And really,what's the deal with guys thinking women on here want penthouses and porsches and blah blah blah? I mean, seriously? These 40+ yearold men, what are they doing, looking at the fake made up profiles of 18year olds?How about, instead of just waving your cock around and expecting it to fall into the mouth of a willing woman, you try and engage in some conversation. Oh no, apparently that's the stuff of romance novels.Meh.
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RHP User
13 years ago
hey all, honesty is a great trait to have which i believe i have in myself, ive been on this site for many years & most of the time enjoyed myself in & out of rhp, ive been pretty much st8 fwd with the majority of people on here apart from the odd knob jockey/bullshitter/smallcock/looking for a sympathy fuck toss bag with no communication skills who turns into a nasty stalker sending u 1000 emails a day including other people on my friends list, ive also spent time in the chat rooms on cam looking for people to come out & meet at the swingers to have fun, which i get back nothing but bullshit, maybe the people u have come across didnt like you not to sure, making assumptions about people u have not met in person makes me laugh, peoples perceptions about others on here also make me laugh, instead of sitting here try going out & meeting like minded people & enjoying yourself, ive met some fantastic people from this site & also some who have not connected with me, haters lifes to short live it while u can try & enjoy it wake up with a smile & say to yourself im alive, id just like to also add people who assume im this or that keep telling me makes me stronger each day :-) OH btw bring on the cock cams/audio guys babez loves it xxxxxxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with a lot that has been already said, it is a numbers game here and definitely those numbers are stacking in the female favour. Now like Apollo stated, there is nothing wrong with setting out in the profile what they are after in a partner, in fact it makes a hell of a lot of sense. The problem is a lot don't bother reading profile and of those that do, either just ignore what is written or think to themselves that they are that superior in many ways that the woman will ignore her own criteria. But (and I know I will probably be crucified for this) there are a percentage of women here who live in a fantasy world. They are the type that wouldn't rate a second glance in the street yet here, because they have boobs displayed on their profile or play in the chat rooms believe all the crap that is fed to them by the one armed typists. They suddenly get this idea in their head that they are something they are not and they way they treat men (and some women) is truely horrendous. But no matter what they say, what they do, there will be some guy there praising them in the forelorn hope they he will score a fuck. Finally, FFS, be honest, about yourself and your expectations, if you don't you will only end up sad, lonely and bitter.
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RHP User
13 years ago
honesty is the best policy ..but in saying that alot cant handle the truth so ppl learn to adjust it to reap the benefits....i myself say what i think and feel..maybe at times i shouldnt but this is who i am..my profile is me in every word...sum may like it sum may not but its all me to the T....i go into the rooms and chat and talk to my friends and flirt my ass off....i do have a life outside rhp.....i have been told im intimidating because of how i am....and then i hear ur a top chick but your not what i am after mind u this is after they have sent numerous emails and made calls saying im what they after till they meet me....now i am no perfect person have my flaws.....and i have been honest in my profile.....shit i even sit there in the rooms and bag myself out lol......in the end be who u are ask for what you want and be happy....as the old saying says each to their own.....ps----i do have a preference for tall ppl lol....only coz im bloody tall.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' one 52 + 9 month old ex tradesman - bad history of broken relationships.. Photo in the rocks is recent - the one doing weights is NOT... and what you see there, is who will turn up to meet you Missing a couple of teeth due to misadventure and violence Bugger all grey hair.. but "some" none the less.. Untamed hair anywhere.. MALES are SUPPOSED to have hair. Told he is the *best* hugger Told he is an excellent fck *Slightly* above the average western male cock size.. but, only slightly. Bad attitude toward fools.. and maybe humans in general Jaded, biased and oppiniated. Probably arrogant. Ideal sex partner - 30 year old females, trim taught and terriffic - *but* will settle for OTHERS (anyone even...if they will fck me) Ok.. that is being honest.. lets see all the girls come flocking to me.. :) cavey xx I'm yours Baby! Especially the part about hair.....love hair and yes men are supposed to be hairy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
What you read/see is what you get. I'm not here to please anyone (unless they ask nicely!)
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