Hosting questions

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  No shows are a big problem when it comes to meeting people off here. Imagine booking a room, paying for it and then the other parties don't show up? For this reason we will only ever set up a "date" if we already are going to a venue. That way if they don't pitch up, we enjoy ourselves regardless and it does not cost us anything extra. A far as hosting goes, we will never host at our home. We value our privacy and anonymity, and thus the security that it offers. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  It's a big risk to invite a stranger into your house. They could set you up for a break in. I have known guys to go through medical cabinets taking drugs and people's booze. Only an idiot would invite a stranger to a fuck at your house. If you have kids. Hotels. Well I pay if I am staying in a hotel most times as then I can say thank you and goodbye. Sleep overs were never my thing. But guys that want the meet and are prepared to pay for the room and I like them. That's a bonus. Please note I only camp under five stars 😈 I had a regular guy a business guy who always got me my own room. We would do the wild thing and he would go back to his room. Reason was he was often with guys from work and wanted to keep this private. Married I would guess. That's only if it's me playing alone, if a couple then split the cost. But be aware of the no show factors. The woman in the tryst. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  sweetgem

  8 years ago

  Your question: If a cpl contacts a male and they are visiting the area and the male cant host at home who pays?? My answer: The couple pay! It doesn't matter whether the male is a local in the area or not, the couple should pay for the room (if the male can't host) as they are the ones that initiated the contact and meeting (that's the sense I get from your question). Your question: If it's a regular thing should costs be split or is it the original instigator who continues to pay? My answer: If it's a regular play arrangement, then all parties must discuss about costing from when they first agreeing to make it a regular play. I would opt for each side taking turn to pay instead of splitting the bill, as there are two people in the couple and there's only 1 person in the other party. So calculation wise, it is not very fair if the couple pay only 50% of the total cost when there are two of them there to use the facility of the room. Yep, I do sound very calculative in the above paragraph, but it is better to take everything into consideration than not! :) and again, discuss the costing upfront and take whatever all parties agree on. Your question: If a male contacts the cpl and the cpl cant host, etc. My answer: The male pays! It's the same theory as with the couple initiating the contact :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  sweetgem

  8 years ago

  The ideas outlined in my first response are made based on my own experiences only, not a set rules that set by anyone 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  If with a couple, we have split costs per person, ie the couple has two thirds share. This is when it's been a mutually agreed location, and I have stayed the night. If someone was staying there anyway, and/or me not staying long, it might be different. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Forus1234

  8 years ago

  We usually pay, cause we're not that kind of people to ask for money, but most of the time, our guests offer to pay for drinks or dinner, then we feel that's ok to contribute. We are very fortunate to have met great couples & singles. 👏🏻

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  thanx for the feedback

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I've hosted a few times, though mostly I've used motels, NICE ONES!!! (had a few cheap ones, bit so fun). When I hosted though, I had no kids, I didn't have too much stuff, and I had great security. I'd only host if I knew a few people, or at the least one of them. Being a guy, sadly we also need to protect ourselves from allegations of a evil nature. So please guys, if your hosting, be sure, be safe, be a GENUINE gentleman then you can't go wrong. With motels etc, with the availability to transfer monies through various channels, I've either booked and got a share or if I know her, married or otherwise, I pay. Be nice, and you'll have memories to smile over for ever. My basic rule is, if I'm playing with a couple, then I either pay 100% or at the least 50%. If it's a play date with a lady then it's 100%. They always offer, but man up, be nice. If it's a party, then I've never hosted, but usually it's about $75-$150 (depending on location, numbers Etc) a head, covers condoms, lube and any cleaning after. The host deserves to make some money as things could go pair shaped quickly. J - Posted from rhpmobile

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