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Hot Sexy Guys Over 40....No Photo's
March 30 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Jazz, the same can be said about boob and arse shots on female profiles. In fact I think there is a higher percentage of women who don't have any pics than men. It does make it hard to shop when the windows are covered! Also, and I know I do feel this, all us 'mature' men read about is how all women want young, studly, rigid abs guys - I look down at my body and instantly decide I won't make any of that public viewing ... lolHugs and a grope - Mooka
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Jazz, I have been a Premium plus member of this site for about a month now and turned 40 last year. As to my level of hotness…you’ll just have to check my photos…that is if you can see them… Since joining up I have put up four different photo sets and every single photo gets listed as restricted. I know, I know, the cock shots should remain in a guys private gallery but, chest shots, even my face shots get restricted??? How can you expect a woman to be interested if she can't see what you look like? My point exactly…I have put up several face shots which I was assuming everyone would be able to see. Apparently only other premium members can view them…not real happy about that…especially since I paid the extra for premium membership…it seems that a vast majority of ladies on this site have a guest membership so that puts a huge limit on the number of responses a guy will get if you can’t see his face. Are any other guys in the same position? If so, how do we go about contacting RHP to get the situation sorted out? ThanksSAM1971
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RHP User
13 years ago
...and have them separated out so only the photos in PG2 are easily visible. It does make me laugh at times when what I see is cleavage and what I get in response is "Show me your face pictures" as the first response. For any number of reasons and all not the same...sometimes a bit of privacy is a very good thing, especially if the profile just happens to be tracking on FaceBook or other social media site. | You show me yours...I'll show you mine.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Where?
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uneventful
13 years ago
Quoting 'SAM1971' Hi Jazz, I have been a Premium plus member of this site for about a month now and turned 40 last year. As to my level of hotness…you’ll just have to check my photos…that is if you can see them… Since joining up I have put up four different photo sets and every single photo gets listed as restricted. I know, I know, the cock shots should remain in a guys private gallery but, chest shots, even my face shots get restricted??? How can you expect a woman to be interested if she can't see what you look like? My point exactly…I have put up several face shots which I was assuming everyone would be able to see. Apparently only other premium members can view them…not real happy about that…especially since I paid the extra for premium membership…it seems that a vast majority of ladies on this site have a guest membership so that puts a huge limit on the number of responses a guy will get if you can’t see his face. Are any other guys in the same position? If so, how do we go about contacting RHP to get the situation sorted out? ThanksSAM1971
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm sexy and 40, or at least one of the two, getting too old to remember which.No way I'm putting my face out here in public though, I'd be getting offers from RHP'ers everywhere I went and it's just inappropriate at times Both of our faces are in PG1 however and we are happy to share with potentially compatible friends early on in the conversation.Mr Chick
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was just searching for men between 35 and 45. So few have pics. I agree that the older they are the less chance of pics on profile. I don't need a clear face pic initially. I'm happy to see the guy "live" via the chat room or on MSN/Skype etc. But... I need to be tempted. Seems that lots of the body builders have pics but what about the average guys? Are you all shy? Hugs and lustful thoughts.... Miss Saturn
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' ...and have them separated out so only the photos in PG2 are easily visible. It does make me laugh at times when what I see is cleavage and what I get in response is "Show me your face pictures" as the first response. For any number of reasons and all not the same...sometimes a bit of privacy is a very good thing, especially if the profile just happens to be tracking on FaceBook or other social media site. | You show me yours...I'll show you mine. You don't even have to be a member of RHP to see the public profile pics or read the forums. Search engines also cache the images. Not everyone wants their photos visible to, well everyone (including non RHP members) - not all these reasons are 'sinister' either. Many people need both a physical and mental connection and if the second is achieved, then opening your private galleries will see if the physical works also. The part I don't get is when someone states they are 'unable' to upload images to their PG but are happy to send it via MMS.
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RHP User
13 years ago
dont have to be premium plus to see pics .. Yeah…that’s what I thought. I have logged out of my account then searched and found my profile and I can see the photos just fine. I asked a premium member to look at my profile and she can see them too. What’s confusing me is that I have had messages from three different ladies asking me to email them photos because they say that all my pics were marked as restricted and they couldn’t see them because they had guest memberships…strange.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'newkee'The part I don't get is when someone states they are 'unable' to upload images to their PG but are happy to send it via MMS. Gotta love it also when they say send me your email address and I will send you some.This is a safe site for photo's and you only show the ones you want......my photo is in my pg....it's not that hard.If a guy can't put a face photo on Rhp then I am not interested.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with what most people have said concerning a persons privacy. But boys, you have to show your face at some stage because most women are not going to agree to meeting you otherwise. or at least a body shot, or interesting travel shot that shows some of your personality. Cause I hate to say it, close ups of fugly spurting cocks doesn't do it for me. Sorry. Hugs & spanks Meeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
hi .. everyone..im 42 ,been told i got hot body by some but i starting to think from what i read on forums that the only real people are in the eastern states..here in perth ive met one person in last 12 months.had couple replies to messages that went no where. in perth make no differance what picture i put up it same story.for march i sent out 80 flirts .of that 16 are still to be veiwed.of the 64 veiwed,i had 5 replies,and they along the lines of sorry not what i looking for.even had people block me once flirt veiwed, so why even bother having a picture..now im a guest on here again and a lot of profiles have restricted profile picture yet as a paid member and able to see them .there nothing rude or offencive about them.and that one person that i have met said that the few guys she has met have said same thing about the wemen not meeting up ,so from my point of veiw rhp this sideof country is just a money making scam
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RHP User
13 years ago
Glad you got rid of those two other pictures of your abs as they did not match your current picture the one you have is not good , thats the honest truth. and I think you updated your age as well. I have no problem at all meeting people in Perth The ones I meet seem very nice to me,and not all just for sex either Maybe a bit more pictures up there, just with jeans and shirt and not the mobile in the mirror picture good luck with it all and I hope my responses to you were at least polite
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RHP User
13 years ago
sorry im 42 ..43 in nov.. picture up was taken end of january,just before i had shoulder op..those other one of ab taken part way through last year,so yeah abs not show as much...as for not good picture of me ,least im honest,,mabe good back to using a dick shot ,,that seems to work for others..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' ...and have them separated out so only the photos in PG2 are easily visible. It does make me laugh at times when what I see is cleavage and what I get in response is "Show me your face pictures" as the first response. For any number of reasons and all not the same...sometimes a bit of privacy is a very good thing, especially if the profile just happens to be tracking on FaceBook or other social media site. | You show me yours...I'll show you mine. how to profiles track on facebook etc??
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RHP User
13 years ago
(first ever post) (more like an autobiography lol)Well think its the same on both sides, Yes i have pics in galleries, no i dont want my face plastered all over this site as deal with many clients some high profile also got two young kids and (im not a teacher) one said the other week and pointed to him saying that teacher is in big touble dady, he has pictures of himself on the internet some with not many clothes so we all keep away its not right is it. I said darling you are a little young but all the same he doesnt walk round your school hanging out or half dressed does he, no she replied, i said before you new this about him was he decent to you and other kids and near same as the other teachers, yes and he was nice to every one, I said well some people have a different life style, he does not go home and teach his kids at night, or other kids. Like you you come home go out to play, so he is searching for his type of friend to play with. So better you just say nothing and treat him the same way you did few weeks ago and if others ask you just say well each to there own and nothing more as your to young to give an opinion on things like that.As for me, well i have made contact to quite a few many dont get back to you, some do, obviously i am not a greek adonisis but ok for my age i think and feel. Its the ones that look at you but when you just want to see them there profile is blocked. those have there own reasons tooOn another site where my Amourless Knight is out in full glory i get more looking some contacting but from all over the place but good for banter and chats and of all ages. Was the same on here too but want to tame it down so i can put my face up once other pics are forgotten yet since doing that few weeks ago had 4 look at profile here and on the other site nothing.So its a case of do what your happy with what will be will be, without this site or ones like it, it would be much harder to try and find some one at all. Ref ripping of, there is anothe site out there that is doing that and i just got a refund probably but funny getting heaps of messges from it now you cant see them again so glad i stopped that oneIf you want to see you have to ask, though only fair if we see you too! though some have issues there so back to above statement and waitDont aim to sound blunt, also many on here are just her for chat rooms and banter Perth is small so is little different than over east and supose you expect that more chance to bump into some one in the street LOL (dont mean litteraly) well depends who he he
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RHP User
13 years ago
...for a reason. Follow me and I'll give you a few more?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am NOT photogenic.. I am hairy and masculine The sex partners I have.. past and present tell me I am as sexy as fck.. and HOT.. I DON't see that.. but, I do LOVE sex..and i do LOVE working around female bodies.. I do spend a lot of time making the female feel appreciated.. I just LOOK like shit on here.. and on facebook.and probably would do so on any other social media.. (if I joined them) as far as bumping into someone on RHP in the street? IF i am ever in town when a meet is on, I will go.. met some great people on them... but.. NEVER met anyone I KNEW from outside.. EXCEPT... I DID see a young lady on here who i regard almost a daughter.. I teased her much..and we did have a good laugh over it all.. we are both still on here.. but.. she is doing a LOT better then me :( Go figure...... :) caveman
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' Seems that lots of the body builders have pics but what about the average guys? Are you all shy? Hugs and lustful thoughts.... Miss Saturn But take a look at a lot of the bodybuilders shots. They seem to be lifted off other sites. I have a sneaking suspicion that they are not all authentic.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I reckon most guys over 40 are a little uncoordinated so it's difficult for them to get face shots on here. It's obvious that Gen Y has mastered the art of the self-portrait... in fact I loathe the fact that yummy swedish backpackers can now take their own photo in front of landmarks without needing to ask "Exxxcooose me hansumm aussssy mann, vuld youuu pleeeze take aur fooooto?" - it makes hanging out at the 12 Apostles trying to pick up near impossible! But men over 40? I'm sure they're still handing over their Kodak to a foreigner when they pose in front of Big Ben, so I'd say the torso / neck / arm / leg shots are their best attempt at taking a self-portrait head shot.... But hey - maybe you can help them out. While we wait for Stalky to come back, let's start a help group for the 'missed it by that much' middle-aged.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm 47 and great with technology, and my arse looks better than yours as well :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe there should be 'face pic' option in the search criteria... where is Stalky 'coming back' from?
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RHP User
13 years ago
You mean you don't believe that every single male on planet earth with a 9" nail and should be appearing on the pages of either a professional or amateur body magazine is on this site? | Quoting 'jensman1903'But take a look at a lot of the bodybuilders shots. They seem to be lifted off other sites. I have a sneaking suspicion that they are not all authentic. | I did a little bit of homework based on the statistics that Ansell uses to make and sell condoms globally. The ladies here are blessed by an incredible demographic anomaly...they should just suck it up and start putting out more out of gratitude. | Statics don't lie...but I guess you can massage them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'branic'I'm 47 and great with technology, But still no face shot - is my theory flawed? Not yet!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't want to see her face as looks can be very decieveing some of the best things come from the most unlikely of places. I tend to go more for personality and honesty, i have a face pic in pgs i also have grown children which maybe on this site or there friends could be whilst my wife knows i am here its proberly not a good thing for the whole family to know about.
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RHP User
13 years ago
My face is in private gallery too the fact is different people appeal to different people. Guys are hard on themselves about their looks too but my mum thinks Seal (the singer) is georgeous yet cant stand Brab Pitt or george clooney. Try to take a photo of yourself in profile it takes many shots to get the right one and yes its fine to keep it in your PG until ready to give it up just make sure their is something to offer in the profile pic.I am curious Headlesshorseman where your dear daughter saw this semi naked teacher???(over your shoulder I hope not).And Easygoingguy4u thats the thing about this site its not a guaranteed Sex Site. It takes many casts to catch something and as its been covered before often women wont even respond to flirts the ones that blocked you had probably stated that in their profile and were making their message clear.
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inspirit
13 years ago
Quoting 'easygoinguy4u' hi .. everyone..im 42 ,been told i got hot body by some but i starting to think from what i read on forums that the only real people are in the eastern states..here in perth ive met one person in last 12 months.had couple replies to messages that went no where. in perth make no differance what picture i put up it same story.for march i sent out 80 flirts .of that 16 are still to be veiwed.of the 64 veiwed,i had 5 replies,and they along the lines of sorry not what i looking for.even had people block me once flirt veiwed, so why even bother having a picture..now im a guest on here again and a lot of profiles have restricted profile picture yet as a paid member and able to see them .there nothing rude or offencive about them.and that one person that i have met said that the few guys she has met have said same thing about the wemen not meeting up ,so from my point of veiw rhp this sideof country is just a money making scam
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RHP User
13 years ago
Interesting topic. After following a lot of the posts on here i have some observations. When I put in a criteria for what I'm looking for in a search, asking for someone who is looking for me, the first four pages of women are always the same and I've got less than 10% response let alone a conversation or chance to meet. Geography is my problem. When I mention I live on the beach roughly an hour from the city, it's like I'm saying I'm an axe murderer! Interesting that only one lovely lady in 3 months has taken the time to meet me half way. On every other occasion, there hasn't even been a discussion regarding my preparedness to travel. Which I would. So geography seems to have me beat. For now!
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RHP User
13 years ago
im over 40 and i cant see your face i would send you pic form me email if you want
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