M57 F58
Hotel or home
January 31 2013
Comments
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I much prefer hotels, especially the first time. It is indeed so nice to get away and feel spoiled. Not not to mention the fact that my house has some limitations. Unfortunately my funds don't always allow it. Though last weekend a wonderful gent surprised me by taking me at his cost. Thank you.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Hotel for us ! It is way too hard for us at home , if my neighbours hear a cork pop they are on our back deck with beer :)) plus we have older kids at home who are very unpredictable . We go out on our boat to play or get a hotel ( fit one tonight for a play meet and I'm excited !)
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I love my 'little holidays' and I have a few favourites. I'm gathering quite a pen collection :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I'm with MissD, however, given my home is a 36" bunk, I'd have to say that at the moment, only hotels....
-
jenniecruising
12 years ago
We are happy to host but it's a long country drive, well worth it just for the scenery :)So we often find the hotel option being the most convenient and gets us away from the horses and cows for the weekend :)
-
RHP User
12 years ago
A club cause if you don't find attraction with one person you can move onto the next.. Heaps to choose from. Smorgasbord. Leesa xx
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Of course I will not say "NO" either to a nice fancy Hotel, cabin or B&B - the joys of spending time away from home.I will not pick up FULL tab tho. And don't bother thinking my place ALL the time...errrrrr not on!!
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Nice hotel for sure, where possible. New, fresh, exciting, naughty.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Then the whole experience is new... and thats only if I find them attractive in the first place.. Im a fussy bugga... Jay
-
RHP User
12 years ago
SPA tub, indoor pool , massive dancefloor and 3 B/rooms decked out for fun and pleasure !!!Very thick double glazed glasses so I can crank up the volume, scream and shout as much as I need to.Ah and always cooking the sexiest food in my Kitchen....... MMM munching on some meringue and passionfruit Chantilly right now !!!So definitely Home
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I am not afraid to meet in my home. I love my little house with all my smells and colors and comfyness. So to meet on my grounds, I am powerful.Sound funny, because I am a woman, but it is as it is.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
On who it is and what the circumstances are. If the situation calls for it: car, cinema, park, beach, doorway to a shop, hotel balcony, public toilet, and my personal favourite on some scaffolding near the top of Sydney opera house! to be honest haven't done the hotel thing with anyone other than one of my ex-partners.. Much prefer spontaneous meets rather than planning somewhere in advance like that unless its someone I have already played with.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
A hotel is pretty special. Mr Tryst and I do not live together, and neither one of our houses is ideal for receiving guests. And what's not to love about a little extra luxury? Ms Shout - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
We would never meet anyone at our home until we knew them very well. Our home is our sanctuary and we want it to stay that way, lol.
-
inspirit
12 years ago
is my favourite.. comes with those extras
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I'm happy to host people if we're meeting regularly, but in saying that - nothing can ruin your mood leading up to a play date more than having to spend hours cleaning and tidying if you've been having fun instead of doing chores. If our place is in a decent state of affairs, I'd offer to host. But otherwise, the cost of a hotel room is sometimes worth it for piece of mind - you don't have to spend half a day in the most unsexiest of moods preparing your place for guests... Then again, sometimes it just feels extravagant to just splurge and spoil ourselves :) Mr Kinkster- Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Firstly, we like to meet out over drinks or dinner, then take the party back home. Hosting at home is easier for us, most of the time we don't have the problem of children underfoot, on their weekends we don't play anyway. Our place is a townhouse so it's kinda like a hotel anyway. And at home, we know we won't forget to bring anything :P
-
RHP User
12 years ago
we prefer to host or be hosted in a house/home.... we dont do hotels unless they are 4/5star, and we certainly dont do 'motels'....thats just seedy in our opinion.... we'd be much more likely to play when away....for example...if we are staying in a very 'upmarket' resort or somewhere like the Marriott or Versace on the Goldie...
-
RHP User
12 years ago
A few "Issues" with a club !,entry fee for a start,then bring your own,and then onlty a limited time in the room before you get the hurry up to vacate,not on !,so for us it would be somewhere where you can take your time and all be happy. After all it is about the life style and not hurry up and get your rocks off!
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Nothing better than a playdate at a hotel. No washing of sheets...an endless supply of fresh towels....room service and fun!! Lots of fun:)
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'hermiensparkles' A few "Issues" with a club !,entry fee for a start,then bring your own,and then onlty a limited time in the room before you get the hurry up to vacate,not on !,so for us it would be somewhere where you can take your time and all be happy. After all it is about the life style and not hurry up and get your rocks off! entry fees for a club are very cheap ( $50 as a member couple), ladies free every thursday , friday and saturday nights until 10pm, ( very clear on our site) even as a non member it is only $80 a couple on a saturday night before 10pm and $50 a non member couple on Thursdays, l so the cost of a motel room is very much dearer, and hurry ups only happen on theme nights in clubs ( or very busy nights as "some people think it is a motel and dont care about others waiting for rooms to have some fun too. Sswingers clubs are not motels and if you cant do it in one hour on a very busy night then maybe you should get a motel room as many are waiting to have some fun too. Alernatively why use a room you can do that at home there are many other choices at clubs of where to play if you need to do it that bad, every where in clubs are play areas.So a motel would suit you better i feel ...
-
BacioCouple
12 years ago
Hotel... or Club.... For a first meet definately a hotel bar or at a Club.. We'd never have a couple home on first date..... We actually have come to prefer parties, meet n greets or Clubs to meet people as Leesa says - if at first you don't click.. move onto the next.....
-
RHP User
12 years ago
To meet at a private party first as they have a different feel to it than a motel or club. We do agree with hermiensparkles comment too..As the majority of times we have attended clubs, getting a room to play in is an absolute event.. Once we have established a trust with a couple, we have no issues at all inviting them back to our house to enjoy skinny dipping in the pool and outdoor fun.. :)
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Mine and his home is our bastion. A club would make a good option to save trouble if the expected play date didn't turn up at all, never had that happen though. Potentially less awkward if things didn't go the way we liked too, have had that happen.
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 14361 Comments: 120840
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1355 Comments: 14709
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2425 Comments: 17234
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2405 Comments: 12737
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 794 Comments: 5154
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1148 Comments: 6957
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 622 Comments: 2145
-
LGBT
Topics: 156 Comments: 1150
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share