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Hotwifing
January 17 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
My partner and I very much enjoy the ‘Hotwifing’ scenario. And I agree it should not be confused with ‘cuckolding’. My partner is not submissive and it does not involve humiliation of him at any stage. He loves watching me being pleasured by another sexy male. He loves the thought of me going out for drinks, flirting and possibly having sex with other sexy men. He loves choosing my lingerie, my outfit and hearing all about it after. It adds to the incredible sexual relationship that we share and keeps my insatiable appetite for sex satisfied. Our only issue has been finding sexy men willing to pleasure me while my partner watches. A lot of guys want to play with me alone, but exclude my partner which is becoming quite frustrating (pun intended). My profile is very clear about what we are looking for. Do guys get stage fright about performing in front of another guy? Where are all the tall, confident sexy Bulls is what I want to know?
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ElectricDreamers
6 years ago
Be discerning. Guys with experience are a lot more comfortable and as a result you're likely to feel more comfortable too. Make the effort to have a little social time beforehand. We've met some very cool single guys over the years who are respectful - and respected by us. This bit is key I (MrsElectric) think, applies across all RHP interactions really...
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hi Naughty, We can thouroughly recomend hotwifing as we love it.. Started as hubbys recomendation that we try, My first experience was with a guy my hubby and i had a threesome with on previous occasions so we trusted his intentions. Later as i felt a little more confident was with a guy i met on rhp.. Each time while hubby is at work in the true sense of hotwifing where hubby isnt present and is told details and shown pics after the event... Hubby will help screen a potential playmate and will always know where i am, who i am meeting and be contactable the whole time.. I have asked him to start "hothusbanding" now since i have seen his reaction to my hotwifing and even set up a profile for him "hothubs74" Feel free to message us if you have any specific questions.. and have fun :)
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RHP User
6 years ago
I was a hot wifey and yes completely different to the cuckold scenario. Although my husband was open to joining me and watching/sharing me the availability didn’t line up with our children. I was allowed to take on a Dom and explore my interests there and then a lover for around 4.5 months. It was hot! It was amazing and I enjoyed the pleasure it brought both him and my lover. Sadly for unrelated reasons we split. It was a great experience at the time, very erotic especially if he made a request that my lover and I agreed to. It was respectful, friendly and he enjoyed me being cared for and having a great time. I miss being a hot wife! The only advice I would suggest is only be open and honest if you can both handle it, I would sometimes not answer questions unless he considered whether the truth would be hurtful or not. Respect, boundaries and integrity are necessary. 💓
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EurosexyxxRU
6 years ago
Hot wifes = Sweet wife My wife is a Hot wife , we enjoy this life style I enjoy siting back and watching how her new lover using her and how he puting his seed in my wife. If oj both ok with let it go you ll enjoy that life style. A&A
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naughty2469
6 years ago
Quoting 'ScintillatingOne' My partner and I very much enjoy the ‘Hotwifing’ scenario. And I agree it should not be confused with ‘cuckolding’. My partner is not submissive and it does not involve humiliation of him at any stage. He loves watching me being pleasured by another sexy male. He loves the thought of me going out for drinks, flirting and possibly having sex with other sexy men. He loves choosing my lingerie, my outfit and hearing all about it after. It adds to the incredible sexual relationship that we share and keeps my insatiable appetite for sex satisfied. Our only issue has been finding sexy men willing to pleasure me while my partner watches. A lot of guys want to play with me alone, but exclude my partner which is becoming quite frustrating (pun intended). My profile is very clear about what we are looking for. Do guys get stage fright about performing in front of another guy? Where are all the tall, confident sexy Bulls is what I want to know? Thank you for your genuine reply ScintillatingOneWe are much the same in what we like and what we are after, just haven't taken that step with a single male. We have played with couples, but this dynamic is very different. We have to agree, we either find couples or a guy just wanting to play alone.
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naughty2469
6 years ago
Quoting 'ElectricDreamers' Be discerning. Guys with experience are a lot more comfortable and as a result you're likely to feel more comfortable too. Make the effort to have a little social time beforehand. We've met some very cool single guys over the years who are respectful - and respected by us. This bit is key I (MrsElectric) think, applies across all RHP interactions really... Thank you for your reply ElectricDreamers, You are 100% correct. Maturity comes with experience and a couple need to be able to trust the chosen Gent they are bringing into their marriage. Someone who will repeat their limits, boundaries and most of all marriage. As mentioned this is obviously seperate to Cuckolding. My man is very much a dominate top who is extremely capable of pleasing me or any partner/s we have shared in the past. Without stereotyping, younger guys straight away assume that the guy is submissive or can not pleasure the woman. This is not the case at all. That is not to say that all younger guys are like this. There are some out there that are genuine and great lovers who respect this lifestyle that we are choosing.
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naughty2469
6 years ago
Quoting 'hotwifebabe' Hi Naughty, We can thouroughly recomend hotwifing as we love it.. Started as hubbys recomendation that we try, My first experience was with a guy my hubby and i had a threesome with on previous occasions so we trusted his intentions. Later as i felt a little more confident was with a guy i met on rhp.. Each time while hubby is at work in the true sense of hotwifing where hubby isnt present and is told details and shown pics after the event... Hubby will help screen a potential playmate and will always know where i am, who i am meeting and be contactable the whole time.. I have asked him to start "hothusbanding" now since i have seen his reaction to my hotwifing and even set up a profile for him "hothubs74" Feel free to message us if you have any specific questions.. and have fun :) Its great to hear from a couple that have enjoyed the journey and the lifestyle. That is an interesting take - "hothusbanding" and why not. We may message you further, but are only trial members now. would love a message. Cheers! xx
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naughty2469
6 years ago
Quoting 'Lionsdoll1' I was a hot wifey and yes completely different to the cuckold scenario. Although my husband was open to joining me and watching/sharing me the availability didn’t line up with our children. I was allowed to take on a Dom and explore my interests there and then a lover for around 4.5 months. It was hot! It was amazing and I enjoyed the pleasure it brought both him and my lover. Sadly for unrelated reasons we split. It was a great experience at the time, very erotic especially if he made a request that my lover and I agreed to. It was respectful, friendly and he enjoyed me being cared for and having a great time. I miss being a hot wife! The only advice I would suggest is only be open and honest if you can both handle it, I would sometimes not answer questions unless he considered whether the truth would be hurtful or not. Respect, boundaries and integrity are necessary. 💓 Thank you for your honest reply! We are so glad single woman have come forward to tell of their experiences! Sorry to hear that the situation has changed for you, but we think you hit the nail on the head with being open and honest with each other. Both Husband & Wife or any partners for that matter need to be honest throughout the exploration. We have agreed that if one is not enjoying it as much as the other, or starts to feel withdrawn, then we need to be open and discuss it, with both being happy to stop it in its tracks if it starts to cause issues.
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naughty2469
6 years ago
Quoting 'EurosexyxxRU' Hot wifes = Sweet wife My wife is a Hot wife , we enjoy this life style I enjoy siting back and watching how her new lover using her and how he puting his seed in my wife. If oj both ok with let it go you ll enjoy that life style. A&A Thank you EurosexyxxRUWe both think we will enjoy this and get what we both want from it. Not to mention we thin it will make our bond even stronger. We are looking forward to it, once we find the right person.
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naughty2469
6 years ago
We would love to add to our original message and would love to hear about how a couple took their first steps with this lifestyle/experience. Thank you for all the honest and genuine replies so far! Naughty2469
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'ScintillatingOne' My partner and I very much enjoy the ‘Hotwifing’ scenario. And I agree it should not be confused with ‘cuckolding’. My partner is not submissive and it does not involve humiliation of him at any stage. He loves watching me being pleasured by another sexy male. He loves the thought of me going out for drinks, flirting and possibly having sex with other sexy men. He loves choosing my lingerie, my outfit and hearing all about it after. It adds to the incredible sexual relationship that we share and keeps my insatiable appetite for sex satisfied. Our only issue has been finding sexy men willing to pleasure me while my partner watches. A lot of guys want to play with me alone, but exclude my partner which is becoming quite frustrating (pun intended). My profile is very clear about what we are looking for. Do guys get stage fright about performing in front of another guy? Where are all the tall, confident sexy Bulls is what I want to know? In answer to your final question Mrs ScinitllatingOne, we could possibly be on the other side of the country! ;) Naughty2469, I know you were looking for responses from couples and single ladies, and don't intend to hijack the post, but thought I might be able to add some benefit of experience from what I have noticed as the …….. (insert whatever title you like here, I just can't bring myself around to call myself a "bull", doesn't sound right), and my thoughts feed in to one ScinitllatingOne was saying From my point of view as the single man that always feels fortunate enough to be trusted and welcomed into the bedroom of married couples, the most enjoyable side of it is seeing the excitement and energy feed between the couple with the extra dimension another body in the bedroom brings. The most enjoyable times are usually the couples where it is evident that they are strong communicators, deeply in love with each other, 100% trust each other and BOTH are in it wholeheartedly, with each other and also with me. It is the hottest vibe when it all comes together, no pun intended......could be something to aim for however :) The confidence of those ladies to drop inhibitions and societal norms, where they feel 100% safe in their relationship with their husband/partner and the also with the additional gent, is addictive and a truly sensual thing to witness and be part of. My 20c worth for what it is worth.
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RHP User
6 years ago
We love it. My husband organise the potential men. He loves to watch me. He has given me two GB and I have enjoyed them very much. And both times he watched me enjoying myself. I am sure a third GB is due very soon. Hint hint huni.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Naughtyvpl21 I’m in Townsville and keen.
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Hotwifenstag01
6 years ago
We are a happily married couple with a little experience in the hotwife lifestyle, ScintillatingOne has hit a important point with the lack of Bulls that are willing to perform with the hubby/stag present, we have a couple of guys interested but always shy to perform. Im perplexed as to why so many say they can and will but lose their bottle when it comes to all parties being together and how they want alone time with the missus to get comfortable.
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jedi_knight
6 years ago
Have been lucky enough to play with a few couples who have been awesome, would describe neither of the hubby's as cuckolds or subs but simply keen to enjoy seeing their partner have fun and and reciprocate for a few FFMs 😜....
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naughty2469
6 years ago
Quoting 'Hotwifenstag01' We are a happily married couple with a little experience in the hotwife lifestyle, ScintillatingOne has hit a important point with the lack of Bulls that are willing to perform with the hubby/stag present, we have a couple of guys interested but always shy to perform. Im perplexed as to why so many say they can and will but lose their bottle when it comes to all parties being together and how they want alone time with the missus to get comfortable. Hi Guys and thank you for your reply. We have to agree with your post, that there is a lack of guys that are willing to perform or those that are even genuine enough to actually meet with Hubby present. Some also struggle to accept that Hubby is not a submissive. We would love to chat with you guys to find out more about your guys journey. Hit us up.
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naughty2469
6 years ago
Quoting 'Wunfa' Quoting 'ScintillatingOne' My partner and I very much enjoy the ‘Hotwifing’ scenario. And I agree it should not be confused with ‘cuckolding’. My partner is not submissive and it does not involve humiliation of him at any stage. He loves watching me being pleasured by another sexy male. He loves the thought of me going out for drinks, flirting and possibly having sex with other sexy men. He loves choosing my lingerie, my outfit and hearing all about it after. It adds to the incredible sexual relationship that we share and keeps my insatiable appetite for sex satisfied. Our only issue has been finding sexy men willing to pleasure me while my partner watches. A lot of guys want to play with me alone, but exclude my partner which is becoming quite frustrating (pun intended). My profile is very clear about what we are looking for. Do guys get stage fright about performing in front of another guy? Where are all the tall, confident sexy Bulls is what I want to know? In answer to your final question Mrs ScinitllatingOne, we could possibly be on the other side of the country! ;) Naughty2469, I know you were looking for responses from couples and single ladies, and don't intend to hijack the post, but thought I might be able to add some benefit of experience from what I have noticed as the …….. (insert whatever title you like here, I just can't bring myself around to call myself a "bull", doesn't sound right), and my thoughts feed in to one ScinitllatingOne was saying From my point of view as the single man that always feels fortunate enough to be trusted and welcomed into the bedroom of married couples, the most enjoyable side of it is seeing the excitement and energy feed between the couple with the extra dimension another body in the bedroom brings. The most enjoyable times are usually the couples where it is evident that they are strong communicators, deeply in love with each other, 100% trust each other and BOTH are in it wholeheartedly, with each other and also with me. It is the hottest vibe when it all comes together, no pun intended......could be something to aim for however :) The confidence of those ladies to drop inhibitions and societal norms, where they feel 100% safe in their relationship with their husband/partner and the also with the additional gent, is addictive and a truly sensual thing to witness and be part of. My 20c worth for what it is worth. Hi Wunfa, We did not think of the male perspective, so thank you for your "20c worth" We were too busy thinking about the female perspective but liked and agree your comments. Thank you and good luck in your fun!
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