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Hotwifing? We all secretly love it...

February 26 2020

There’s actually a word for the joyful feeling that a polyamorous person has when his or her lover or spouse walks through the door after making love to another lover: it's called compersion. Feeling all warm and gooey because your spouse had a great time banging someone else is not something we’re socialized to feel. Yet, we love it (unless we lack confidence). In all relationships, there are many perspectives, and each person's emotions, thoughts, and beliefs take frequent twists and turns. Cuckolding is not for everyone. For some hot wives, what seems at first like a "have your cake and eat it too" arrangement turns into feelings of confusion. But if trust is at its highest level, then, why worry... Personally, I enjoy just spending good times (dinner or a nice wine) with open-minded couples knowing that they cherish each other. Best part is to teasing knowing she belongs to someone else, better than sex... So, why do YOU love cuckolding? I will conclude by tweaking this famous quote “Keep your sex life open. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead.” - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    I've been on both sides of the fence. Initally with Mrs S enjoying the hotwife experience ' and then as the invited male with two wonderful couples wanting to experiment the joys of hotwifing. I dont like to think of myself as a cuckold just because i enjoy seeing my wife enjoy herself .l see her more as a Hotwife because thats what she is.. What I like as the invited was seeing and feeling the excitement grow as things start to warm up. I never seen myself as the main man ' only the new man there to help make the couples fantasy come true.. If l or they ever felt uncomfortable ' there's no way we would proceed .. Fortunately ' this never happened.

  • thecatsmeowaus

    thecatsmeowaus

    5 years ago

    We enjoy Hotwifing which to us is distinctly different from Cuckolding. She is not having sex with someone else as a means to humiliate/dominate me. I enjoy watching her being fucked and other things, I was the one who suggested it, we have come to a mutual agreeement about it so we are equal in this experience.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Thanks Sawadee, I definitely agree. Its all about and for the couple as they intention has always been primarily to satisfy the hotwife or any lady. Its great to see how different people have different aspiration about the matter. You put this perfectly in perspective in your message. Love you approach and hope to see you in action someday.

  • Moxters

    Moxters

    5 years ago

    the mrs played with a few hot young guys over the past 5 years and this has just been the best experience for me too! nothing like seeing her all excited to bring the guy home, shy when introducing him to me, but then flirting with him in front of me leading to foreplay and eventually disappearing into a room....not sure what this is called but HOT AF! It needs complete trust and confidence as mentioned above.... The best description of this for me is: "You have no idea how HOT your wife is until you see her fuck another guy!" Love it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    How good is that Johval. I would actually love to be you, even more than being the other guy. Ive been so interested in being around people who enjoy this and just discuss about how hotwifing makes them feels and the level of pleasure they get from it. Great to hear your story...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Ditto to what Catsmeow said.. We dont see hotwifing or our mum play as cuckold either, but there is something very sexy and naughty about her being with other men without me . For me it is knowing how much he is enjoying her.. and imagining how shw is turning him on, and vice versa.. Nothing as horny as getting a face time call from ypur hotwife while she is in the throes of a good fucking!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    And totes agree Johval.. Nothing hotter 😁🤙

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    what's mum play?

  • Forus1234

    Forus1234

    5 years ago

    Have experienced this once, definately keen for more, when the opportunity arises with the right person, great idea about the FaceTime call Island Life....so naughty! 😈

  • snowytoes007

    snowytoes007

    5 years ago

    Johval - as others have said - totally in the money. I had a feeling it would be good, but was so much better right from the get go and felt completely natural. Great fun too. Had some great laughs along the way!

  • snowytoes007

    snowytoes007

    5 years ago

    Island Life - ditto too :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Being a bull playing lots with couples where I can see how the hubby is happy when he see misus on a big rod.. same the feeling turns me on on that she belongs to some one else yet she wants me to satisfy her craving... Though I always advise couples to always communicate before and after the session when involving another guy, It helps a lot and further strengthen the relationship..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    That’s right guys, I am glad that I am not the only one who respectfully enjoys it. My best feeling is the first kiss or touch after dinner, in front of the husband. Not to mention that it is sexier when fully dressed, fingering her on the sofa in front of the lead man... It is a beautiful garden out there, lets make the most out of it... I am not a super model myself but quite hung and especially thick, so the asians tend to love and I especially enjoy it. We all try our best to please, right?

  • blinks28

    blinks28

    5 years ago

    "the asians tend to love" pfftt really... pleeease tell me why.. this should be good lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Hi Blink, Apologies but I was just referring to concrete experiences I’ve had and what I’ve been told in the past. Apparently they are not used to thick ones from what they actually told me. I am sorry but I just quite understand the attitude. What is the concern?