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How Hard Can It Be???

February 09 2010

How hard can it be to meet real couples on a website like this???We have worked our asses off over the last seven/eight months to try and find nice couples to meet up with, have a coffee/drink and see what happens. Fair enough we are a little picky with who we will meet and this may cut down the ones available to us eg: we prefer non-smokers, not a bi, experimental or gay man in the couple and for both to be slim and ok looking (super model looks not required). I think our strike rate must be well under 1% In fact we have only played with one couple from RHP and have seen them several times, thank god for them. We have met one other couple but the chemistry wasn't there.Of late our frustration is boiling over. Sent three messages out two weeks ago, not one of them even had the decency to reply, had been talking to a couple (the guy only) who was very keen to meet, gave out his phone number and all. We sent a few messages to them to try and meet for a coffee and not a reply at all, gone from super hot for us to cutting us off when we wanted to meet. Then of course there are the couples out there that never want to meet. Talked to a couple who seemed keen, they had 25 friends listed on their profile. When we started talking on MSN and asked how many of them they had been with, guess what??? NOT ONE!!!! Never even been with another couple or single person for that matter. Why be here?? Just to perv and swap pix and wank off on web cam????We are getting very pissed with the time wasting perving fake posers that seem to exist on these sites. If you are real, like our profile and will meet (at some stage for coffee) send us a message (we will always reply). If you are just here for your jolly's don't bother.G & CPS I feel better now, thanks for reading my rant.

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RHP User

15 years ago

i know what you mean..we have met 2 couples off rhp but i (mr) didn't play with her like u said the chemistry wasn't there but the other half did. Check for validations after awhile u can pick time wasters within a couple of minutes of talking to them. Oh and keep away from interstate people, most of there have been time wasters for us.... it annoys me how people talk about it, like the idea, sign up, give out contact details but it goes no further, they just like entertaining the idea. Or want to know that people still find them attractive.. till next time scott

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RHP User

15 years ago

We find it rather amusing that u put We Will Always Reply in your post ????? Did we not read another Forum Post??? from you guys about not replying ?????? We have sent you a few flirts and Not 1 Reply ???? HHHHMMMMMM Lke we posted to your last Forum Post We have sent you a couple of Flirts & replyd to forum posts And Oh yea We Will NEVER reply LOL A Simple NO Thanks Is not realy that hard !!!!! (no thx is still a reply is it not ???) We Will Always Remember opps Reply to the rude people in here ........................

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RHP User

15 years ago

Thanks for you reply toshare69,Unfortunately you are talking a total load of rubbish TOSHARE69, I have replied to every flirt sent from you and every one else. If you take the time to actually READ our profile instead of just looking at the pretty pictures we are NOT interested in bi men and do not see smokers at all. Why waste your time and ours sending flirts when we clearly state that in our profile. You have sent us six flirts and we have rejected you every time for the reasons listed above, maybe you should just get the message that we are still not interested in you. Get your facts straight before you write garbage on here!!!Have a nice night.G & C

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RHP User

15 years ago

Your profile says that you're not into "full-on" swinging but "will consider it". To us, sounds a bit vague. Either you are not sure about what you want, or you are after "soft swing" only. AND you are looking to a couple with a bi female. Looks like you have already filtered out most of the members. But that's of course just our perception, which may of course be completely wrong.

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OzRednecks

15 years ago

G'day guys Is this a reflection of the way our society is headed. Welcome to the impersonal way of the cybre world. Picture RHP like fishing from a boat. We all have different boats, go at different times and in different conditions and we all have different baits we use. Some will come home with a monster catch, some with none but hey who really cares cause we tried and had fun. If you dont have fun simply sell your boat and dont go any more. You could always save time and go to the fish monger. All lite hearted fun guys and remember that it easy to bag someone on forums but that is not what they are for. We have met a great couple from RHP and we look forward to fishing with them and thats what it is all about. Nothing else but having fun. Happy fishing. Hugs and kisses HesheWA

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buttman6969

15 years ago

I've been on this site and AMM for years, I believe that over 96% poeple on both sites are time wasters. I've been organising parties for 7 yrs and it took me very long to find some nice couples, single women and some single men. They will give you their contact no, email add and will chat with you but it comes to crunch time, they will no answer any messages. I offer many couples, that I will be happy to introduce them to some nice couples, as my parties are sucessful from word of mouth, but met some very nice geniune people, but the bottom line is that over 96% people are time wasters and BS

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RHP User

15 years ago

Thanks E-J-Melb, your comments are noted. That statement in our profile may seem a bit misleading and I'm not sure its vague as you say but I know what you mean.We are sure about want we want but maybe haven't conveyed it very well, I guess that's what msn chats are for. I think the term we should use is "soft-swinging only" so thank you for that, we will discuss it and make the necessary changes. Thanks HesheWA, if I was to fishing as much as i do here with this much frustration I'd sell the boat, in fact I'd give it away, lol. But i do like your analogy it a valid one. Thanks again.Hi Buttman, thanks for you invitation the other day too, i hope you got my reply, as i always reply,lol. Mate I think it may even be a bit higher than 96% really. We have meet a great couple from RHP and cant wait to see them again. But I have talked to so many others on msn that just want pix or my wife to show them her pussy on cam, some times she will too. Well Im more than happy for you to pass the word around to your group, maybe i should send you a message and clearly state what we want as our profile is vague apparently, lol. Talk soon.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Couldn't agree with you more. Amazing how many guys bail out of a meeting and not doubt the same would apply to couples and females!!

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RHP User

15 years ago

From my experience, it is better not to chat on msn but just have a phone call or two.

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RHP User

15 years ago

. Firstly dont even consider MSN, total waste of time. If you've sent a few messages on here and got some good replies then get on the phone, say hi and if they sound alright organise to meet. Cuts out a lot of time wasting crap talking on MSN and you'll know pretty quick whether they're fairdinkum or not. Oh and we're one of those couples that rarely reply to flirts or messages. Why reply to someone interstate, you're never gonna meet them. People without pics, if they cant put pics up well why bother with them. Single chicks, most of them are guys. Although i think one or two may have been chicks that I blew off. People who write average anywhere in their profile. Shows a lack of self confidence, dont need their hangups. People who write, we are professional people anywhere on their profile.What the hell does that mean, makes them sound like they've got their heads up their arses. single guys, mrs pip will find them if required. There's a few others that I cant remember so you can see we dont reply to too many. Plus no one likes to say they're not interested, why hurt someones feelings so we just let it go. mr pip

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RHP User

15 years ago

Quoting 'Daytimelover49' From my experience, it is better not to chat on msn but just have a phone call or two. Exactly msn chatting often leads nowhere and we have found that things can be easily misunderstood with msn. 40 is fun Your profile needs some work - it really comes across as you don't know what you want, also a couple I would be reluctant to get in touch with you because your profile seems to be saying you really want a single girl but you can't find one therefore a couple with have to do.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Thanks sexycountrycpl, well our profile must be very clear, you have nailed it in one. We really want to see single ladies but they are very hard to find, so for my wife to play with girls we she couples and don't swap. The girls play only. Now having said that we have found that with a lot more experience with couples now we have enjoyed some "soft-swapping" and may be interested in more. I guess we have chopped and added bits to our profile over the last eight months that it now makes no sense at all. So I now think after a couple of people have said similar things we really need to have another look at it. Thanks for your constructive criticism. Thanks pipinghot, God the penny really dropped reading your advise. Of the meetings we have had,not one was through MSN. All were via messages on RHP and the phone. You have created a"eureka" moment for us. In fact we are organising a coffee meeting with a couple that seem really nice via message and phone very soon, no MSN required. Now we will have to agree to disagree on the replying to messages and flirts. I just think its polite to reply thats all, even if they have not read our profile and are nothing like we are looking for. It doesn't take 15 seconds to reply to a flirt or a quick message.Same to you daytimelover great advise and we have taken it on board.

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donnamick

15 years ago

It is always interesting reading other peoples trials and tribulations with the meeting of others on these web sites. I must say a big thankyou to Butman, he realy sealed this lifestyle for us. He is a great guy, genuine and introduced us to some great times and couples. Just when I was ready to give it all away, after dealing with couples who didn't know what they wanted, butman showed us the way through his parties to meet genuine couples with the same ideals as we have. FUN, FUN,FUN thats what it is about and its a shame that it is so hard to find genuine couples who live up to there profiles. My suggestion is forget the msn chat, exchange phone numbers and arrange a meet sooner rather than later in a neutral location. We have been on these sites for three years and besides butman, we have met three other couples, one we played with( thanks John and Sam you are the best), one we haven't played with yet ( thanks Mandy and Shaun, great people who we also socialise with) and the other one, were great people ( thanks Rod and Rita ) who we didn't click with. Sorry for ranting, just my view, at least it sounds like there may be others in here somewhere. Maybe I need a boat and some different bait. Cheers Michael

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2more4fun

15 years ago

I think pretty much everything has been covered by other posters on here. I'll just stress once again how much MSN is a time-waster's tool of procrastination. We only bother with couples who are looking to meet in the short term or are happy to swap phone numbers for a quick chat. I think your profile is very succinct and to-the-point. I just wonder if perhaps a bit of your frustration with lack of meets is coming through? CAPS are rather hostile although I do understand why you used them and where. I also agree that you should bump your body-type up to 'slim' (at least the F based on pics). Also I think a few pics of the male partner wouldn't go astray either.I'm not sure if you have got meet and greets happening in your area but we've been lucky to have attended quite a few couples events lately and that is a great way to meet people :) Check Events I guess?

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RHP User

15 years ago

Thanks 2more4fun, We do have pix of the male in our PG, it is surprising how many people don't even ask for pix of the male though because we have only just added them. Maybe that just sums up the type of people we have been dealing with. Thanks donnamick, We plan to look up the buttman soon. We have had some nice private messages also from several people and hope to meet two of them this weekend. Maybe my rant will pay off and bring out the real people, we do feel a lot better just to get it off our chests and for the support and great ideas from the contributors above.

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