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How OPEN are you about your lifestyle to people outside RHP?
January 29 2012
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rc_80
13 years ago
I'd say we are between 2 and 3. We don't make a big deal about it, and don't tell our friends (although others have done that for us in the past!) unless they ask. We've got a handful of friends that know, are fascinated, and bring the subject of swinging up nearly every time we see them, although they aren't in the scene at all (nor ever will be?). We have other friends that don't agree with our lifestyle, don't discuss it, and respect our choices. We both have work clients that have recognised us both from online and at parties, and that isn't an issue. Hell, we've both picked up clients through RHP events.We don't actively mix our swinging friends with our vanilla friends, but we don't worry if the paths cross either (eg: our wedding, or when out and about on a saturday night).
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
I've never been one to kiss and tell anyway.
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RHP User
13 years ago
we dont hide the fact that we are here....its a bit hard at any rate, when we have family members, workmates and even friends who also have profiles here....... we dont cross the 'streams' tho.... as we dont believe any of these places need to be the sources of our playmates...we'd rather friends remained friends....and not more......its all good tho.... we are adults, and can cope with what ever questions people thro at us..... if we cant answer....a smug smile always suffices....
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RHP User
13 years ago
...leave no witnesses and owe an explanation to no one. | ....that'd be about a 5.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't broadcast specific information about any aspect of my sex life to other people. Whether it's who I slept with or how we did it. I maintain plausible denial about everything including my own existance. For all intensive purposes I am born again virgin... oops I've said too much already. I was not here, this did not happen.
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DonnaBrett
13 years ago
Pretty much all of our regular friends know...no one has ever reacted badly...some take it in their stride, some don't ask and some have come over to the darkside. Yes we've played with friends..and even though it was in most cases only a few or a handful of times, it never changed our friendships at all or got weird.All of my workmates know..and some of Donna's know. She has been recognised by customers though at her workplace LOL.Family don't know...parents are elderly, no need to freak them out LOL. Adults daughters...one 'may' know..and wouldn't care..the other wouldn't understand. But we don't lie so if ever asked we would tell the truth. It's nothing to be ashamed of afterall.
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RHP User
13 years ago
3 from me.. Did let it slip once to a family member that I have friends who are swingers.. Cause they are lots more fun than muffin making school mum's lolz.. huggies sweetp xxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
people i meet from RHP always say how innocent i "seem". No one in my real world knows i'm on RHP and would like to keep it that way. I have a very full social/kids life and dont want to mix that with my sexual activities :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
....but I don't hide who I am. If anyone were to ask, I'd tell them but I don't need to be " ïn-your-face".
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uneventful
13 years ago
more like a 3
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inspirit
13 years ago
I have nothing to hide nor be ashamed off. Being intouch with your sexuality is absolutley amazing. I am not afraid of peoples judgements its their hangup, not mine.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We don't make a habit of telling people but it slips out now and again...especially as Mrs SinS can be a little bit "forward" after a drink or 2....... :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
But not a 2 either. I certainly dont broad cast my private life but I have no reason to hide anything. I dont start every conversation with what happens on line but if I am discussing sex or relateds topics I dont bother to hide my life choices either. My life is just that...mine. I am a naturally reticent person to begin with so information is not liberally spread about.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't kiss and tell!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jennylee1903' ....but I don't hide who I am. If anyone were to ask, I'd tell them but I don't need to be " ïn-your-face". Thats a shame! I would love for u to be in my face!
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LoveFrenzy
13 years ago
3 for us.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Many people know what I do including family.Some people suspect I do something freaky and are dying to know but are too vanilla to ask the right questions.A few people suspect I do something different and think they know what it is but are too polite to ask.The rest of them just think I am a bit "out there" I only tell people that need to know. The rest will just have to keep guessing.
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