How attractive is Conversation to you?

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  usrightnow_Again

  5 years ago

  Well, as I've mentioned in other threads, I'm not a boobs or butt guy, I am a freckles guy though. That said, an ability to hold a conversation such as you describe, is important. People who lack the ability to not only converse but do so on a wide array of topics, tend to bore me, as do people who's sole focus is themselves. However, as much as those elements (conversation, freckles), are attractive in a woman, honesty, openness, empathy for others and a wish to have a positive impact on those you meet are probably more key factors in feeling attracted to a woman, for me anyway. Mr. urn. .

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  You are spot on. I have met men who I found physically gorgeous but then they opened their mouths.... I have also met a couple of men I didn’t think I would have any chemistry with and didn’t find at all attractive but once we got talking I felt really connected and drawn to them physically. Make out sessions after a really emotional or philosophical conversation are soooooo amazing!!!

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  PleasureLovers

  5 years ago

  Great conversation is vital and stimulating. After all, isn't the biggest sex organ between our ears rather than between our legs?

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  Kokoflamingo

  5 years ago

  Engaging with someone on all levels is important for me. Talking before and after a play date makes it a better experience. I like to feel comfortable with a guy. Thats why I ignore messages asking for hook ups and random roots. Ive been lucky :)

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  MsSuperFoxy

  5 years ago

  Curious, if you met someone and their communication style may included: sign language/makaton from someone hearing impaired and if they use communication devices such as ACC (Augmentative and Alternative Communication devices) make any difference to you especially if you do not know sign language/makaton etc? Would they still be attractive? I just know that dealing with various communication styles that are different than our own can sometimes feel very frustrating. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  It’s absolutely true. The problem lies with trying to strike a conversation to begin with if you’re not a hot and sexy man. Life is difficult for the average bloke like me.

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  A woman who is switched on is very sexy. Particularly attracted to women who can express their genuine thoughts, and not be fake. It turns me on to know what a woman enjoys and wants regarding sex. Knowing how she gets off is a big turn on for me.

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Foxy sometimes communicating is not actually speaking but a smile and eye contact? The first thing I think of is travelling being in a pub in a smaller town where no one spoke any real English. Our groups smiles and laughter communicated with the locals. Thoughts??

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  DragonEnd.... How is trying to solicit sympathy working for you?? Reason I ask is that would have to be the biggest load of rubbish I’ve ever heard/read/seen/whatever. This bullshit belief that you can’t be attractive to someone because of the qualities you possess and exhibit being secondary to buff looking muscle bound freaks is what is defeating you.... Not your looks .... Mr Dragon . P.S. I’m an average joe too and there have been many that have found me attractive.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  5 years ago

  Yes, I believe that is true. I also think many believe communication is just verbal. To me it's more than than. Body language, gestures, writing, using ones senses is a huge forms of communicating. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Are sexy as fuck, swapping stories, discussing ideas, sharing experiences even just having a gossip and a bit of a bitch. Eyes sparkling and words tumbling as the time slips by. Interviews and interrogations, not so much.

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  analysis

  5 years ago

  BBC? Boobs, butt or conversation.... C for me At a group dinner party with friends, one of whom brought along a ( only French speaking) girlfriend. There was no instant attraction based on looks. She /we made all the right non verbal communication, but we didn’t hit it off at the start We could not speak two sentences in French or in English. I had only a smattering Spanish. Later that night, a friend who spoke both French and English sat next to us, and an in-depth, fun conversation started with the impromptu translator helping out.....and it turned into a night that had a happy ending. Would not of happened without the ( translated) conversation....

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