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How did you discover RHP?

March 25 2015

After working at Our Secret Spot the last few weeks, I was amazed at the amount of couples who had not heard of this site (which I plugged shamelessly) or any other swinger site. They'd just googled 'swinger clubs' and made their way in. For us, we started with threesomes, finding girls randomly (not online) and when talking to a mate about it he suggested looking on here. So we have not known a swinging lifestyle without RHP. Made me wonder how people get on without being able to look at a couple's interests online prior to meeting them. Soft swap? full swap? girl/ guy bi. Obviously at a club you can ask all these things face to face but some people just feel comfortable doing that. There are obviously far more pluses than this to 'online swinger dating' though. Point is, how do we get more people who are into the lifestyle onto sites like this so they can enjoy it with us without having to hope they discover a cool swinger club? How do we make it more main stream? How did you discover RHP?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A mate recommended it when I said I wasnt looking for anything serious? Didnt have a clue what it was all about........but its been an eye opener and a delight!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Found it on a Google search. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Doing research for a book..googled Redcliffe dogging.Up popped Red Hot Pie..stumbled over the forums..Now I am an old forum tragic...xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    over 6 yrs ago found her new playmate on here and suggested i have a look also at rhp i did and my comment was then, no it's to skanky for me ...i have met many women in between then and now but not sure why really i have returned for another look.still think it's to out there for me to be honest.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    a Tupperware party lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    10 years ago

    stumbled my way there with Google - Posted from rhpmobile

  • lovman8

    lovman8

    10 years ago

    Perhaps rhp found me????

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    10 years ago

    We were newbies, tiptoeing out to see what this world was like and several couples recommended we make it our first port of call. It was then 5 months before our first date.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Googled "Adult dating site" and tadaah!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Friends of ours used to own an adult shop and they had some pretty wild stories to tell..... So,,,, we walked into our local one and asked.. "How do we meet people?" With a grin on all of our faces we had a very interesting conversation with the owner about this site. The rest is well.... history you might say :) Mr K xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • tipper930

    tipper930

    10 years ago

    From Google, I was searching for a red hot chilli peppers song :0

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    10 years ago

    We were invited to our first ever private swingers party and when we asked about what other couples were going, mention was made that they had profiles on RHP, and so we joined so as to be able to check them out before going to the party. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    .... recommended at a tantric massage course ....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think I googled sex sites. I was on other 'dating sites' where I was just getting hit up for sex so figured I might as well cut the bullshit and go to 'sex site' so here I am.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    But how did you find your play partners before RHP? Just relying on people you like to be at the Swinger club whenever you attended?

  • Two_Tarts

    Two_Tarts

    10 years ago

    Googled "Swingers in Perth" following a conversation in bed about fantasies. RHP was the first thing that came up and it is where our swinging experience all started.....We tried a couple of other sites along the way but they were hopeless and so we don't bother with anything other than RHP. There have been a couple of occasions when we have talked with complete newbies who have walked into a swingers club for their first ever look and we have been really surprised to discover that they had found the club online but they had never heard of RHP. Maybe RHP should employ an army of hot backpacker couples to door knock handing out promotional flyers while the kids are at school. Like the old door to door vacuum salesman they could offer a free in home demonstration to the lady (or man ;-)) of the house. Finally a door knocker you actually wanted to see! Xxx

  • Two_Tarts

    Two_Tarts

    10 years ago

    Googled "Swingers in Perth" following a conversation in bed about fantasies. RHP was the first thing that came up and it is where our swinging experience all started.....We tried a couple of other sites along the way but they were hopeless and so we don't bother with anything other than RHP. There have been a couple of occasions when we have talked with complete newbies who have walked into a swingers club for their first ever look and we have been really surprised to discover that they had found the club online but they had never heard of RHP. Maybe RHP should employ an army of hot backpacker couples to door knock handing out promotional flyers while the kids are at school. Like the old door to door vacuum salesman they could offer a free in home demonstration to the lady (or man ;-)) of the house. Finally a door knocker you actually wanted to see! Xxx

  • steelpossum

    steelpossum

    10 years ago

    We googled swingers in qld. rhp and a few other sites came up.. researched what people thought about the site and what was the best site to meet new people as we were just going out to see if we could find first. Been on here for 6 years and know now that is easier to start the conversation on here then just out and about.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When I lived in Perth rhp used to advertise in some clubs and sex toy shops ? I think from memory they had late night adds in local TV there when the site first started... Been a member since the start of rhp in Perth...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    :) only god I've ever listened to ...... post and share pics and ye shall cum !!!

  • Aristippusx2

    Aristippusx2

    10 years ago

    Attended a Sexpo event in Perth 2013😈

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For three years I actually thought I was never going to have sex again. I had a solo art exhibition and needed models. Had to have tattoo . Tried adds paper even the local sex shop, Not much luck so did a search The first model got a hard on. I thought it was just nerves Till he looked at me and said... I am so going to fuck you! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It was because my partner (at the time) wanted to explore some fantasies and was already a member of RHP (I think, anyway). About two years after we broke up he suggested I join and experiment and get to know myself sexually, so I did! I didn't have 'play friends' before that.

  • 225Special

    225Special

    10 years ago

    For us, we went to a club as first timers and got to talking with another couple. They told us about RHP and we made a profile.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A FWB I was seeing last year, asked me to join, so I could validate him. I'd never heard of it. I was active for amount a month, met one guy, but then quickly demoted myself to a lurker, (not because of that one guy), but rather it was at the tail-end of my online search for shenanigans. I have stayed for procrastination, window shopping and a spot of forum use.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    was seeing mentioned it a few times so I googled it and joined out of curiosity. So glad I did LG

  • dubbadeez

    dubbadeez

    10 years ago

    No idea!. Googled something. But the year was 2007, and we were at a loose end...................

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Was invited along to one of the meet ups... everyone had a handle and a couple of weeks later I found myself signing up. Was a great way to put my divorce behind me, and finding I meet a lot more interesting and open minded people. What a relief :)