RHP

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M52 F52

How did you find the first time?

October 18 2009

Hi,   Never done the couple thing before, but just wondering how people coped when they saw there partner with another person?   I mean did you find it threatening to yourself or was it something that turned you on? Or even something that you had to get used to?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Female here. Not threatened at all and not turned on either. But definitely not threatened and if one is too feel threatened then you shouldn't go there.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The first time I saw my lady with another guy I was so turned on, watching her with someone else pleasing her gives you a totally new dimension to love making. Seeing her face as she cums is out of this world.....she tries to look into my eyes as someone else is playing with her...She feels the same way when she watchs me with another lady aswell. We are both hooked, love it.... Our sex life together has improved out of sight as well, I know it sounds dumb but it has brought us closer together. I am not saying you will have the same experiences.....but give it a go. Good luck T and C

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well we tried the mff thing first as Mrs Pup was keen to explore and of course we both loved it! Initially neither of us were interested in sharing Mrs Pup with another guy but the chance came along and we gave it a go. I (Mr) was not sure how the hell I'd feel as it wasn't something I yearned to see. Well seeing Mrs Pup in action was the most erotic thing I've ever witnessed. Afterwards when it all sunk in I found it very liberating. I could let go of all that macho "I should be the only man" crap (especially good as I'm a chronic flirt and admirer of the female form!). For us it has put a new meaning to being faithful, it's nothing about touching others sexy bits it's about the commitment we give to each other to explore our lives together and support each other each step of the way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thanks guys for your responses. I was sort of thinking along the same lines as you Puppy. Neither of us are sure how it would go? We are interested but worried that it would some how change our relationship. I neither of us are the jealous type, we are just being cautious as we have heard some bad experiences. I dont think I wil find it a turn on but I may be wrong.   How many times did you try the FMF thing before you were confortable to try swinging?   What advice can you give us when/if we decide to take that step?