M43
How do I come across
January 23 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
Attached.I hope you are only approaching members that are happy to play with attached men. Personally I'm not as too many complications. Otherwise a well written profile. KH
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think you should check out recent forum threads ecspecially "attached" Main reasons for lack of responses would be you are attached and men out number women a lot on this site. Hints * that pic of your jocks is not sexy *you can see your face in another pic
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RHP User
8 years ago
Could be you're not messaging people that think you're compatible.... Could be your messages are shit..... Could be fake profiles you're messaging.... Could be someone that's not really looking and hasn't updated their profile.... Moral of the story......expect no replies as let's face it, they're a stranger.....they owe you naught. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
It's the fact that you are in a relationship, and looking to cheat ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Work it, work it, work it........ And I then Work it some more!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for your insight DynamicCouple36 but that's not actually the case. Some situations are deeper than at first they appear. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Nothing too far out of the ordinary for the site. From the quick run I've had through your profile there doesn't seem to be anything particularly "wrong" with it. Many ladies do not like to play with attached or otherwise spoken for guys - some have had previous bad experiences in that area. My advice is to initially get involved in some of the forums to get your name around, and look for local events as per the events section that may help you connect with more people from site. Otherwise just try your best and be patient - the blokes outnumber the ladies here by a fair margin, so they are spoiled for choice. Hope you will enjoy the ride. Tall
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usnow
8 years ago
Go and buy a lotto ticket , your chances are better !
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RHP User
8 years ago
single guys can struggle to receive replies on here. You're attached, and from the sounds of it your partner isn't aware that you're here so you will find it quite difficult (if she is aware then I would specify that in your profile). You should appreciate that the complexities of a man in your situation - with respect to both organising meets and the potential for the shit to really hit the fan should your partner find out - are just not an attractive proposition to many, if not most women. There are some who don't care, so you may strike it lucky but it will likely take a fair bit of persistence. Your profile is among the better I've seen so you do have that going for you. You'll probably find that when people aren't interested you'll rarely receive a reply either. There are a few reasons for that, and there's a topic posted about it at least once a week on here so if you do a bit of trawling through past forums you can read about those reasons. Basically it's pretty tough on here for most men, and men in your situation even more so. Many men join with high expectations but they soon realise that it's not too much different from the 'real world', with many of the same hurdles to jump (some of those hurdles are even higher here). With persistence, patience, and more than a bit of luck you may find what you're looking for here but there are no guarantees.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Veenus_Rising' single guys can struggle to receive replies on here. You're attached, and from the sounds of it your partner isn't aware that you're here so you will find it quite difficult (if she is aware then I would specify that in your profile). You should appreciate that the complexities of a man in your situation - with respect to both organising meets and the potential for the shit to really hit the fan should your partner find out - are just not an attractive proposition to many, if not most women. There are some who don't care, so you may strike it lucky but it will likely take a fair bit of persistence. Your profile is among the better I've seen so you do have that going for you. You'll probably find that when people aren't interested you'll rarely receive a reply either. There are a few reasons for that, and there's a topic posted about it at least once a week on here so if you do a bit of trawling through past forums you can read about those reasons. Basically it's pretty tough on here for most men, and men in your situation even more so. Many men join with high expectations but they soon realise that it's not too much different from the 'real world', with many of the same hurdles to jump (some of those hurdles are even higher here). With persistence, patience, and more than a bit of luck you may find what you're looking for here but there are no guarantees. exactly this.. no offense OP but why choose the man who has to schedule fun around another woman and sneak out when there are plenty of men on here who don't have those restrictions.
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RHP User
8 years ago
What they said ^^^^ From a gal's POV it requires more effort and would provide more frustration to have you as an occasional lover. So might be better to target married women. I think you make have more success with someone else that also has similar restrictions.
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Oh so your girlfriend/wife knows you are on here? And is happy for you to fool around / have sex, with others ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Get better photos and no undies shot as a profile.Your wording is ok but like others said the attached thing is a no go for me and probably many others.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Whilst I appreciate everyone is on this site for different reasons, I'm not interested in a man who is attached. 'Too many complications' is an easy way to gloss over something that could potentially hurt aomeone. I won't be oarty to that. Open/poly relationships are one thing - everyone knows what they're in for. Betrayal is something very different and it's not my bag. I have earned this the hard way after having an affair with a married man. It's not me sitting in judgement of you, merely a choice I make for myself. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
both the constructive and those belonging to members with the pitchforks and torches. For those who are considering me a cheat (which I most certainly am not), I don't feel the need to dialogue further on it except to point out that every persons situation is different. For some, traumatic events may preclude a sexual relationship with a long term partner and although allowed within the boundaries we have constructed, due to circumstances, extraneous relationships are not discussed.
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RHP User
8 years ago
If you say your attached, there's no way I'd even look at you. It's great you're honest that you're not single, but stating that you don't discuss this with your partner, still screams "dirty cheat!" to me. Yes situations are different, but there's definitely a dodgy feel to your profile and comments here. Most women don't want to know a guy who's attached, for many reasons. Morals are the main reason, but also the restraints of having to work things around your partner. Why would we want to bother with that hassle when there are LOTS of honest, sexy, fantastic single men out there, waiting for us?! Good luck! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yet you want discretion and private casual sex? You're going to be recognised sooner or later. Isn't that going to be a problem? 😜😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
...your profile here and report back in.
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RHP User
8 years ago
How Do I come accross :-0 Interesting...wont Take anything personally ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Great read, Personally to many people in the world judge to quickly with a lot of things ,for the last 3 weeks I've been Messing around with crazy profile discriptions . At times I received up to 12 replies a day,with the littlest tweek or reword that figure would plummet to zero . I base my interest on the most primal instincts I have, visual attraction.,I'll send a message and try to get to know these beautiful humens .I don't mind what a profile is trying to say about people I want to decide through conversations, as people change in their needs & wants with moods , Most importantly emotional state @ the time ...
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