How do you REALLY enjoy swinging?

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  justforthefun44

  3 years ago

  We are not in to clubs or private parties. We have had some great times with women and men. Always be straight up don’t bullshit tell all players your limits and rules before any meeting Communication is the most important part of swinging. It’s always hard to find a WOMAN Men most are all talk

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  funtimescouple1

  3 years ago

  If there's one thing we've learnt from RHP it's that everyone is different, even in the lifestyle, so everyone's journey will be different and what they regard as 'success' will be different. Having lots of available time to chat and find and meet the genuine and most suited couples would certainly be nice. We've found that life certainly does get in the way at times. For us we've met lots of nice couples and never had a bad time. We've made lots of good friends. We haven't played as much as we would have liked mainly because it hasn't been as flirty as we would like in the lead up. We have no jealousy whatsoever so have no problem with each other getting cheeky with others even in public, but we won't unless we get at least a hint that the other couple is comfortable and willing to reciprocate. We need that extra connection if we're going to play....a bit of attraction and passion. We don't like just going to the bedroom with another couple after a drink and a nice chat. That's our experience and like we said, everyone is different.

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  teamaj2

  3 years ago

  I feel our journey is somewhat like your own . We aren’t into being involved every weekend meeting people and attending events /parties at every free moment . Are we ‘missing out ?’- maybe we are .Real life commitments, energy levels our commitment to spending precious time alone, all prevent us exploring every free moment we have . If we are ‘missing out ‘ so be it . We too have seen others at parties explore with abandon, observing those with seemingly no filter or boundaries as to whom they explore with. We have discussed their carefree attitude to exploration on many occasions. It’s not for us and we figure , as with all things, this is our life and the way we negotiate it must be within our comfort zone . What’s the secret to our success- Is always making each other our number 1 priority . Listening to each other’s boundaries , concerns , wants and needs , never judging or coercing each other to proceed with playing or attending events if one of us wasn’t feeling that way inclined . Just do you and enjoy what may or may not be your last year on RHP . Ax

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  2ofus4more

  3 years ago

  Sounds pretty normal to us. We have been in the scene in one form or another for around 15 years. We prefer clubs as there is (to us) less pressure to perform or play, but if the mood arises and the chemistry is right we go hell for leather. We have never liked some of the cliquey types at clubs, but there will always be those types of people anywhere in life. We both aren't 100% confident about our appearances, but sometimes darker lighting and throbbing music (and maybe an orgy room) can set a very sexy vibe... Most of all enjoy the ride, as life can be short.. xx

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  DonnaBrett

  3 years ago

  We've been swinging for about 22 years and have loved every minute of it and have no intention of stopping. We play at least twice a month, more often if the opportunity arises. Private parties or smaller get togethers with regular playmates are the best. We gave the clubs away years ago, too cliquey and too expensive with too many (not all) dreamers and show ponies who have no intention of playing with anyone. We've met so many fantastic people over the years and have made some great lifelong friendships. Sure, we've met a few time wasters along the way but thankfully they are few and far between, we don't dwell on them and their issues. Life's short...we're here for a good time, not a long time.

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