How do you heal???

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Me, I only invest in people that which I can afford to lose. I've learned that the hard way.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  by first of all detoxing and the only way that you can do that is to rid this person form your life 100 percent., yes 100 percent forever.......and as cliche as it sounds..time does heal - let go, grieve, and move on when your ready   Btu this was no friend...a true friend (as I well and truly know and Im blessed to have quite a few in my life especially from here) will take a bullet for you - no question   I wish you well and speedy healing..hug

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  ...you need to dress it. Cover it and protect it and it will heal from the inside. It will only fester if you keep picking at it. In other words, ...what Shinas said.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  but, it sounds like your friend has some control issues, or a problem he just doesn't know how to deal with. Try not to make his shit, your responsibility. By forgiving him time and time again your actually handing over the control, he's feeding off this in order to make himself feel better and put you down in the process. Don't abandon yourself, lay down a boundary instead ..either tell him to fuck off, or if he's such a good friend, sit down, talk and explain to him how he makes you feel and tell him you wont stand for that anymore. You'll feel a whole lot better within yourself too

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  A few years ago, I rid myself of all of those vampire friends. I call them vampires because when you're with them they suck the life and happiness out of you. Surround yourself with positive people and friends that give back to you, not just take from your friendship. Friendship is partly about reciprocity, you're there for them during bad times, and they support you as well during your hard times. You share the positive, good times together as well. Friends should not be people who only call on you for support whilst offering none and making you feel down about yourself. Cut the dead wood, you'll be glad you did.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Learn from this experience and keep moving forward. Sounds like he should be left behind at a crossroads in your life.- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Cant say i have

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