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How do you set your age limit of who you sleep with?
March 22 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Never been an issue for us
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RHP User
12 years ago
We figure a 20 year age gap is good for us. We do get people over 45 still message us but hey, why should it be anything other than flattering? A simple thanks but you're not what we're looking for usually suffices. If you state in your profile to please respect age limits that usually helps too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I ummmed and ahhhed about what would be the 'right' number to put in that box, and while I know that it's probably a bell curve with the median at my own age, I realised that if I couldn't decide I clearly didn't care that much. So, I'm open to the 95th percentile. There are dozens of other criteria much more cut and dried. These days, I very rarely contact some with a stated preference for age that I don't fit... even if only by a year or two. I figure they have a specific persona in mind, and leave them to it. Maybe I'm missing out on people who are doing as you suggest, OP, pulling the range in to allow for "overflow"... but how do you argue age? I am as old as I am... even if some days I feel 30 and other days I feel 50... And not just because you're as old as the woman you feel ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Messolonghi' I ummmed and ahhhed about what would be the 'right' number to put in that box, and while I know that it's probably a bell curve with the median at my own age, I realised that if I couldn't decide I clearly didn't care that much. So, I'm open to the 95th percentile. There are dozens of other criteria much more cut and dried. These days, I very rarely contact some with a stated preference for age that I don't fit... even if only by a year or two. I figure they have a specific persona in mind, and leave them to it. Maybe I'm missing out on people who are doing as you suggest, OP, pulling the range in to allow for "overflow"... but how do you argue age? I am as old as I am... even if some days I feel 30 and other days I feel 50... And not just because you're as old as the woman you feel ;) - Posted from rhpmobile Couples corner I see now... Oops... wasn't obvious on the mobile.
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Letsgetcrazy09
12 years ago
And sometimes you meet someone outside your age limit and there is a mutual attraction and out the window those limits go
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
38 is really 45, 52 is 60 etc... We've set our upper age limit to 45 but we are both attracted to individuals not age brackets. The older I've gotten older the more I find maturity and life experience attractive traits. What's surprised me the most is how I am less attracted to younger people, who haven't been through their Saturn returns (under 28). You'd think physical youth would stay as a key stimulator but the older I've gotten the more I want a mental attraction too, with the girls anyway...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Exactly paradiseapair, How may people lie about their age! Some you see and go 'oh you are not xx years old' do they really think you wouldn't notice!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Remained 29 from when I was about 8 yo until I was 18. She always looked young to me. I still see her as she was then. I am continually told by younger men age is just a number.
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RHP User
12 years ago
35 is older than my son, and a lot of men over 50 can have erectile dysfunction. I have even come across younger than that who need so much coaxing it is exhausting.
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RHP User
12 years ago
easy....older than our kids....so that means 33....make that 35 and older....and obviously...younger than our parents...but we'd likely say no to anyone over 60.... thats a 25 year window of fun....we'll happily leave the young pups to those who want to play there, and the oldies? we'll see......depends how much longer we see 'play' as an option...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is for 35 - 50 year old couples, as we feel that it's a fairly reasonable age bracket for us, due to the difference in our ages. In saying that we're open to meeting with couples under the 35 mark, but not lower than 30 years old, nor are we interested in couples over 50, even though Mr L is nearing that age in a few years. Just our choice. :)
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MissSarahCurious
12 years ago
The age range I'm into for women starts and finishes older than what I'm into for men.
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QLDtwo4fun
12 years ago
We once had hard rules about age, but now we have been around a bit it's more about the people.
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MissSarahCurious
12 years ago
So they think I'm 40 but I actually look 34. Looking your age seems to be unpopular these days.
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are some pretty hot looking people over 40. Your missing out. With maturity brings experience and that always helps.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luvnya69'Is for 35 - 50 year old couples, as we feel that it's a fairly reasonable age bracket for us, due to the difference in our ages. In saying that we're open to meeting with couples under the 35 mark, but not lower than 30 years old, nor are we interested in couples over 50, even though Mr L is nearing that age in a few years. Just our choice. :) we are over 50...i'm 51 this year...and Shels 52 in a few weeks....was your message to us an 'abberation'?
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RHP User
12 years ago
But when he's old enough to be my dad that's when I start to get a bit iffy.. lol depends whether that kind of stuff bothers you personally Being quite young still though I predictably find guys a few years older a lot more attractive. I think age becomes less of an issue the more easily you're able to connect with someone as a person, once and if you decide to get to know them. I have heard though that a general rule of thumb for some guys is half their age plus 7, I have no idea what its based on, just what some guys have told me but I think that it could be a somewhat sensible gauge, if you were in desperate need for something to kind of set the bar maybe? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Because young people are just too sexy for their own good. Go away <25's your pulling my pussy and cock.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Many women seek young bucks as it is a trophy for them how ever usualy just a wham bam thank you mam leaving them hanging and not fully satisfied ature men know how to satisfy and give complete satisfaction making women have orgasams never before experienced So age is good in most cases brings satisfaction and the desire for more SO NEVER REJECT A GOOD OFFER FROM OLDERR GUYS WITH OUIT KNOWING IF YOU NEVER GO YOU NEV ER cum R
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im 43 and over your age group lol, but consider myself to be up there with some younger ones...hahaha ......age is just a number :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
You are as old as you feel. Its all about attitude, staying healthy and happy and keeping an open mind for us when we meet people, no matter what the age. Most times its what comes out of their mouths that turns you on as long as the rest is in proportion. We are honest about our ages, but know plenty on here who have been the same age for ten years. We often get the comment how much younger we look, because we make an effort to stay that way. We are becoming more attracted to younger people because of their vitality and get out there and have fun attitude, but for obvious reasons they put limits on the age requirements. Can't blame them though. We find a lot of couples in our age bracket do not maintain a healthy appearance and are usually the ones that don't respond to messages and flirts So why not meet people, have a conversation and feel out the chemistry thing, you might actually be surprised what they bring to the bedroom. And as for the erectile dysfunction thing, any guy worth his salt will go see his doc and get some purple pills for that. Doesn't that gorgeous female form deserve it?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I always get told I look and act younger than I am. So, I do talk to people who I fall outside of their age limit. It works in real life (not in the computer) just fine. - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
12 years ago
We value privacy very high. We consider age of anybody as personal detail that we will prefer not to know. We expect PPL to AT LEAST look as an average fit person at 45. Just a guidance!!! You can be unfit 18yr who look 45 or very fit 60yr who look 45. We are not interested to know your biological age.
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RHP User
12 years ago
To be fair the guys that are 25 and under like myself get knocked back for being too young... But everyone has their tastes and preferences... Could be missing out on something and then again could be saving themselves from lost time...Brad
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think a good scale is to go 10 yrs either side of your age...works for me. Although you do find the odd person over your age bracket that are just damn fine, so you have to be able to make exceptions ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have had lovers in age range from 29 to 74.It has nothing to do with age in my opinion ,as to whether or not someone is a selfish lover.The best lover I have ever had is 31,the most inexperienced 56.He had been married to the same woman for over 30 years and was recently separated.It is absolutely all about connectkion and the detail and predictor is in the kiss.
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RHP User
12 years ago
to be honest I'm not sure what our age limits are set at on here. I have a rule none older than my mum she is 55. I don't want to young ether but I'm opened to all offers. I find myself hooking up with people that are older than me most of the time. Its really about mental and physical attraction. I love the saying your only as old as the person u feel Mrs B
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RHP User
12 years ago
to be honest I'm not sure what our age limits are set at on here. I have a rule none older than my mum she is 55. I don't want to young ether but I'm opened to all offers. I find myself hooking up with people that are older than me most of the time. Its really about mental and physical attraction. I love the saying your only as old as the person u feel Mrs B
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Smiley_Couple
12 years ago
Age is just a number, prefer to connect with the person, I have seen one 47yr old guy who looks his age and looks great, another looks much older than this. I have had great times with a man who is 53 who looks great to me, comes down to feeling young at heart and having fun. But I do draw the line at people in my parents age braket though
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RHP User
12 years ago
Individuals are what it's all about. It depends on how well someone looks after themselves whether i find them attractive. That said, I've set mine at 10 yrs either side of my age. It just seems sensible but I'm happy to be flexible if all else is inside my looking for criteria.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The older you get the more ageless people become. We have had fun with a couple in their 30's and another couple who were 10 years over our age. Both were very good experiences and the older couple were real fire balls that really tried out our abilities. Great times. So put down a guiding range but never say never!
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
I set the perameters the same as if selecting people outside of rhp .... .....28, up to same ballpark age as me. This is because I enjoy the "peripheral" communication that same life experiences offers. I've been with women in their early/mid 20's.... Generally speaking, they don't fully know what they're doing yet and haven't learned what they need.... and talking to them can be kind of painful. lol DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you keep what age you are after and if people want to waste there time messaging you then that's there problem. If you lower it you never know there might be a hot respectful guy who's 39 super hot best fuck of all time but doesn't contact you cause you are now looking for younger. And you miss out. I am totally honest online and in life in what I want. If guys can't read that the fault not yours.
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rupamohan
12 years ago
People born out of date can become incompatible if not willing to change with time. Age can serves as filter in this situation but in my opinion not a very accurate one.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why not? Actually I'm over 40 but rarely have a problem with that. I try not to go below, low 20's or above '60s, but may have. You don't have to take them home or ask for ID.
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RHP User
12 years ago
An interesting angle, if a woman REALLY attracts me I'm more into her than anyone, BUT I'm pickier. Age-wise, yes, definitely go younger for women: 18+ : 50's, but might go older for a man. Why is this so fucking technical?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dont think age matters. Is more about who attracts you I think. I tend to be more attracted to old women but is not a deal breaker.
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RHP User
12 years ago
have no issues with younger or older. Actually prefer older women more fun. jenniewitch you are perfect by the way lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'The_team'Exactly paradiseapair, How may people lie about their age! Some you see and go 'oh you are not xx years old' do they really think you wouldn't notice! you got me I am 75 games up now
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RHP User
12 years ago
75 looking great
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ma2518
12 years ago
as long as they are breathing and have their wits about them
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have a fairly simple +7 -7 guideline.... there are some exceptions, but its a general rule. I find I have more in common with people my own age, generally
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RHP User
12 years ago
I won't sleep with anyone my dsughters sons and son in laws age I cant. thats why I've set my limits . A lot if guys can't respect that . That's me tho - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Messolonghi' I ummmed and ahhhed about what would be the 'right' number to put in that box, and while I know that it's probably a bell curve with the median at my own age, I realised that if I couldn't decide I clearly didn't care that much. So, I'm open to the 95th percentile. There are dozens of other criteria much more cut and dried. These days, I very rarely contact some with a stated preference for age that I don't fit... even if only by a year or two. I figure they have a specific persona in mind, and leave them to it. Maybe I'm missing out on people who are doing as you suggest, OP, pulling the range in to allow for "overflow"... but how do you argue age? I am as old as I am... even if some days I feel 30 and other days I feel 50... And not just because you're as old as the woman you feel ;) - Posted from rhpmobile When you can only choose in 5's, it's a bit harder to find someone that interests you.I'm not really looking for under 25 and not over 40 BUT I am definitely interested in one 50yo guy I know. I figure, for me, if we get along, age isn't a problem. I was 19 and dating a 37yo. My parents loved him. haha
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! The Team:) I set my Preferences for Seeking Online at 25-45yrs. This allows for a little flexibility 5years either way, unless the Guy is exceptional , we're meant to cross paths and experience this time together as Friends or Lovers.. I do Have Friends younger than 25yrs and older than 50yrs. I find them all a lot of fun as Individuals enjoy their company in that way.. The reason I do this is because I'm not generally attracted to Mature Guys for various reasons 1 is the amount of Negative energy they carry with them it's very draining to me They can be set in their ways at times to... Younger Guys are sweet in their own way, but some tend to need a few years to know how to communicate with a Female and realize it's not always about them. They do have a small amount of negative energy and a zest for Life I love it!! Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! The Team:) I set my Preferences for Seeking Online at 25-45yrs. This allows for a little flexibility 5years either way, unless the Guy is exceptional , we're meant to cross paths and experience this time together as Friends or Lovers.. I do Have Friends younger than 25yrs and older than 50yrs. I find them all a lot of fun as Individuals enjoy their company in that way.. The reason I do this is because I'm not generally attracted to Mature Guys for various reasons 1 is the amount of Negative energy they carry with them it's very draining to me They can be set in their ways at times to... Younger Guys are sweet in their own way, but some tend to need a few years to know how to communicate with a Female and realize it's not always about them. They do have a small amount of negative energy and a zest for Life I love it!! Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry All My screen froze I tried to send it .Hence double dose of My Post Haaaaaaaaaaa!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi all, and my my point of view, I have a +/- 15 years, but I've met some that fall outside that delineation. My wife and I play on here separately and together, with no contact between profiles. It suits us and that's what is important.I've been surprised with some people lucky enough to be brought to our bed, who were outside this range, both younger and older. Similarly, I've shared some special moments with others outside this range, solo, and would count them as fantastic, like fn mindblowing fantastic.It's all subjective, not objective, it's the 'click' and the 'heat' you have at the time.It may also be different at other times, and with/without your partner.I find the age guide to be just that, a guide.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We often get messages from couples where we are WAY out of their preferred age range and most often than not we say to ourselves.... "Oh no...they haven't seen how old we are, roll on the rejection". Yet we have met these couples and some almost twenty years our (well hubby's anyway) senior and not, I might add, people who "take one for the team". Their attraction seems genuine and we always get requests to come back so somethings going right... For a reasonable majority of people age IS just a number and they base their decision more on visual appeal and personality which makes complete sense to us anyway... If you're appealing to us, we are both attracted to what we see and you're not a stalker, serial killer or even just a pain in the arse then we'll be interested and move forward from there.....simple...
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Albin71
12 years ago
You can set your age limits on your profile, but how many people demand to see I.D. to check their age before you go further. One would think that there be a mutual attraction, to spark an interest before you get this far. Age does not reflect some ones maturity, I have been with one 18 yo in my earlier days that would put a lot of 30ish still night clubbing women to shame. Like wise there are a lot 30- 40 yo men out there that havnt reached 18 yet!
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you want them just for sex, I like great passionate sex and prefer it with someone I can relate. Not into fast n quick speedy moment or disconnected just pure last sex. I am for intense moments, passionate and where we both care for each other. You need some sort of break the ice with drinks and music. What can I say I am a romantic. Therefore, I don't normally look for one night stand. Difficult to find a sensitive guy for a long term these days. So, when it becomes to much and long...I search for someone. Age? What is too young or too old? I am a 40 yo woman, that has never grow up...not much experience only a passionate nature that takes over with the right guy... All my friends are around their mid 30s...I dont click with ppl of my age...they tend to bore me. It is the way it is... I like a guy that is a man, strong...Age maybe 28 to 38...If 28 he has to be mature and I have to feel that I can see him as an strong mature man. If 38 or older, they have to have a young cool eassy going personality like me and take care of their looks. Which unfortunately after 38 they think it is ok to let go...When you look after yourself and like young music, young activities and are out there living life to the fullest. You are not looking for a guy with a beer belly, gray hear cut with no style...and whatever else. No matter where he takes you...or how much money he has. I mean Donald Trump's millions will not make me kiss him. I think disregard the age, if the guy is compatible with you and click that is what matter. I have my age limit...and no matter how gorgeous or rich the guy is...It is the guy with the right equipment, experience and charms that gets me. And that is not someone that looks like my grandpa. There are always guys like me that at their 40s they look so hot...but they are very few... That is for me at least... Ta
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chevtrek
12 years ago
Well I can answer this as I was curious.. A year or so ago I took a pic of an old ugly woman who was fat and had few teeth on made a profile-aged 72.. It was simple she wanted sex from guys 65 to 75.. The replys from guys ranged from 18 to 60 So the answer is you could put sheep on here and the guys would respond... LMAO
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have recently added the following to my profile: "Please take note of and respect the 'looking for age bracket'..... I have specified that age range for a reason!!!!!! I do not want to appear offensive or rude by not responding to messages from older guys, because I am not! So please, save us both the grief - don't email me!" As stated, it is my choice.... Actually, it's not so much my choice, it's my body that has made that decision! The feeling I get when I see a beautiful younger guys body is something I'm not prepared to squash!
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Penrith_guy1981
12 years ago
Just half your age and add 7 years.- Posted from rhpmobile
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wastedpair
12 years ago
well put Sandhoprz
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cremecaramel
12 years ago
Not so much a limit as a guideline. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Jackaroo
12 years ago
That's why you let the bloke take charge and be on top. P.S Your body is perfect
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RHP User
12 years ago
how old they are they still wont meet up when they say
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RHP User
12 years ago
My age limit is about prefrence for experience, maturity attitude and manners, I have been a bit flexible before but personally prefer to stay away from guys in their 20's and younger previous experiences just put me off. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
just put the lower age up....from 35 to 40... tired of saying polite 'no thanks' to 20 somethings seeking an exception.......and copping abuse and insults for doing so...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Set it to what you feel comfortable with. For some age is just a number for others more. We are all here to enjoy ourselves so set it to suit. Good luck- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Luvnya69'Is for 35 - 50 year old couples, as we feel that it's a fairly reasonable age bracket for us, due to the difference in our ages. In saying that we're open to meeting with couples under the 35 mark, but not lower than 30 years old, nor are we interested in couples over 50, even though Mr L is nearing that age in a few years. Just our choice. :) we are over 50...i'm 51 this year...and Shels 52 in a few weeks....was your message to us an 'abberation'? What Tha? What you talking bout Willis?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luvnya69' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Luvnya69'Is for 35 - 50 year old couples, as we feel that it's a fairly reasonable age bracket for us, due to the difference in our ages. In saying that we're open to meeting with couples under the 35 mark, but not lower than 30 years old, nor are we interested in couples over 50, even though Mr L is nearing that age in a few years. Just our choice. :) we are over 50...i'm 51 this year...and Shels 52 in a few weeks....was your message to us an 'abberation'? What Tha? What you talking bout Willis?is all good...just playin...you guys messaged us a little while ago..we are 'over 50'...so thought to tease a little...oops?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe controversial opinion! What a stupid & pointless conversation.. There's no age limit on what you find attractive & want to enjoy! Find another relevant subject & discuss that- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for your input Barat! Clearly there is for you though because you have a max of 60 yrs on your profile. If there was no age limit then change it to 99 on yours and tell us all about how you got naked with someone of that age.Maybe you should start a new thread
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RHP User
12 years ago
We go to meet and greets and all the younger folk want our details.. It's US who usually say that they're too young! Must say though.. Last few orgies we've "found" ourselves playing with 20 something's.. Every now and then I've fancied a "silver fox" with a hot wife who has looked after herself in their 50's. Guess we aren't ageist x- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
The age limit bizzo really frustrates me because I don't look 47, nor do I act 47 and neither do I have the body of most 47 year old men. Heaps of people have their age cut-off at 40 or 45 & I look in my early 40's so I miss out on a bit of attention because I'm stupidly honest & put in my actual age because if I had to reveal my real age at a later date it would be bad for my credibility.And remember how crap some of your lovers were when you were younger. Like many things in life we get better at it the more we do it which means older people are better at sex. I know I am & I'm more adventurous also. So to the people out there who cut off at your exact age limit you may be missing out on some really good experiences. I fully accept that many people have no interest with people a similar age to their kids or parents though.
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