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How far would you go?
August 01 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
His error was that he married a psychopathic nutcase. I mean, his days were numbered no matter what if that's the case.HugsStalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would keep my friends closer and my enemies even closer. If the man was that important then I would turn the other cheek and make sure I satisfied his every need. The other woman would have to be damn good then. For me, no man is worth the price and I would certainly never willingly take a life if for any other reason than to physicaly protect myself or my children....I see it as his loss and if he could do that to me then he will eventually do it to her as well. More fool her.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Then I would move heaven and earth to keep them. It might sound hard, but I'm of the opinion that if you were pulling your weight on the workbench the affair wouldn't be happening anyway, (yeah I know there's always one prick that can't keep it in his pants LOL) But mostly I know a lot of women who have the biggest list of 'won'ts' won't suck his cock, won't try more than two fingers, won't let him go down on her, won't try this that n the other, I mean farrrrk what will you do? Sit on their big whingy ass when he up and roots someone else, playing the poor me card waaahhhh. Not much sympathy I'm afraid, and no compassion when one thinks they own another to the point where they will stab them multiple times so that no-one else can have them either
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
...then I was obviously not the perfect one for him....for whatever reason that may be.I would open the door and let him go....(being very careful that it hit his sorry arse on the way out)
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RHP User
13 years ago
maybe it was the wrong thing for the woman to stab her hubby when he cheated But what an asshole why didnt he just leave Sorry dgt but i dont agree with what you are saying she might not be meeting his needs as you put it But what a spinless little prick he was having his cake and eating it to Iv been cheat on a few times and i was in the swinging scence for a very long time When i ask them why when they had every thing they want One of them said he want something to myself without me knowing go figure It doesnt matter what you do in a marriage if a person wants to cheat they will make up any excuse to justify why they are cheating There r 2 sides to a story and you do silly things when u r push to the edge
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CrackUp
13 years ago
If a man did that to me, ... I would figure I never had him in the first place. I'd kick the dust of my heels and head into town for a fresh new one. My value is not measured by those I hold onto but by the way I allow myself to be treated.
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
Why not become a playing couple ? Quoting 'ruby_blossum'...then I was obviously not the perfect one for him....for whatever reason that may be.I would open the door and let him go.... Exactly...what is perfect for one is not always perfect for the other. ET xox
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RHP User
13 years ago
i got cheated on after 2 years with one of my ex's and i didn't stab her. but seriously that stabbing death is obviously a grey area, no one thinks rationally when it happens to you and while it is hard for me to understand the lady in question's actions but in the eye of the law she must be assesed by professionals if she chooses for that course of action.Quoting 'stalky' His error was that he married a psychopathic nutcase. I mean, his days were numbered no matter what if that's the case.HugsStalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
Having read the post and the responses...I felt sorry for both parties involved as something that is as rare and precious as the gift of love, freely given...could be bound in psychosis and end so tragically. | My mind wandered almost immediately to what I hope one day might form the foundation for something in my own life... | “Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my best friend.”|From the writing of Albert Camus, the winner of the 1957 Nobel Prize for Literature...he was also a poet and philosopher, and I guess if you had that... | ...you wouldn't have to do anything to keep anyone.
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RHP User
13 years ago
What a change, someone actually takes responsibility for their actions. Where ahve you been?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Only as far as being me! Don't see any point in trying to be more or less. Whoever chooses to be with me is going to get all of me. If they then choose to be with someone else then that is their perogative and their choice. I have never cheated in a relationship. I have been cheated upon however. A guy that I had known for most of my life, who had been my childhood sweetheart, that I reunited with at a high school reunion, cheated on me. I left him the next day. As far as I am concerned there is no point in getting upset, nasty or vindictive. The trust is destroyed and the relationship is damaged so just move on. No use crying over spilled milk! Just go and pour yourself another glass!Kisses all,L
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'D_G_T' Then I would move heaven and earth to keep them. It might sound hard, but I'm of the opinion that if you were pulling your weight on the workbench the affair wouldn't be happening anyway, (yeah I know there's always one prick that can't keep it in his pants LOL) But mostly I know a lot of women who have the biggest list of 'won'ts' won't suck his cock, won't try more than two fingers, won't let him go down on her, won't try this that n the other, I mean farrrrk what will you do? Sit on their big whingy ass when he up and roots someone else, playing the poor me card waaahhhh. Not much sympathy I'm afraid, and no compassion when one thinks they own another to the point where they will stab them multiple times so that no-one else can have them either And that, amongst other reasons, is why I think you're awesome DGT. And if I thought I had the perfect one, and didn't want to lose them, I would do absolutely nothing different. I'd just me my natural self, treat them as amazingly as i could, and just hoped they thought I was the perfect one to treat amazingly in return. Thats all anyone should do. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. Shit happens. But sometimes...so does greatness...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would hunt the 2 of them down, unleash on them then move on and find someone who IS worth my time ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
simple .... can i see the pictures other than that get over it and enjoy life maybe even all 3 of you !
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RHP User
13 years ago
To open the door for her as she leaves... Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you?
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RHP User
13 years ago
DGT' you're a smart arse know it all . But' thats why I luv ya.. Have to agree with what u had to say , too many woman refuse to give out or become adventurist then expect their husband to be exactly the same. No wonder men look outside the boundrys when it could be at home..PS... did u read my post in " dinner date "
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RHP User
13 years ago
I feel Partners stray because they aren't getting an emotional need fulfilled at home or work, by those they love or look up too.Usually it's a low sef esteem issue on their part, feeling inadequate as a Man not appreciated for who they are, or boredome, they go seek this Nurturing and ego boost online mostly. If it happend to me I would pick upon his eneregies before it go that far .However in the chance it did I would talk with My Partner in a very compassionate way be supportive of his feelings sharmine too. I can step back emotionally, when Connecting with his innerself I see what's going on so I don't have that feeling of rejection etc, because I know it's not really about me but Him. If it's more positive to seek Councelling we would even if we remain together or part .I believe we meet People who cross our Paths and whatever the Relationship is for how long depends on what emtional issues we need to learn from and overome in the expeirence shared with them. If this was just an episode to bring an issue to the notice of us both then I will teach him how to over come his low self esteem, it's what I do with others .Only once will I accept his cheating behaviour If more then We will seperate . I don't want a Partner who isn't fully committed to sharing our journey together. hopefuly we will remain Friends .. Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
if you had the idea that violence would make someone stay, then you'd be delusional.........if my lady decided elsewhere was more appealing, then I'd pat her on the ass and say goodbye..............
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RHP User
13 years ago
Old joke but seems appropriate... "Cop chasing down a speeding motorist, the guy driving speeds up until he can no longer outrun the cop car. The cop asks the guy... "Have you got any reason for driving that fast and speeding up when I was chasing you?" | The guy looks at him perfectly serious.. "Yes officer, my wife ran off with a cop...I thought it might have been you trying to bring the bitch back" | ...sometimes there is justice in the world.
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RHP User
13 years ago
that has not been there can speculate as two what they would do. If I were cheated on now I would not stand for it, but that simply means I would pick up my things and leave. I don't think I would even bother to cry or yell or make a fuss.It takes two to make a relationship work and I am of the opinion that a relationship can be rebuilt after one has cheated provided both parties want to make it work, and I know a few people have said that for someone to stray they must be missing something in their relationship.....ofcourse, it is an excuse but it is hardly a reason. My view is pretty cut on dry on this topic but I have been on both sides and both sides suck!xx Salina
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RHP User
13 years ago
*Note to self....edit before posting!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum'...then I was obviously not the perfect one for him....for whatever reason that may be.I would open the door and let him go....(being very careful that it hit his sorry arse on the way out) on this one. They say "revenge is a dish best served cold" but surely not to the point of rigermortus! Have to confess to being a "humanitarian" type - geez I can't even bring myself to eat meat! Dealing with a cheater is never pleasant (only happened to me once - that I know of!) but I simply walked away and took solace in the friends who took me out on the town every night for a month. Sometimes breaking up is good to do! KKx
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RHP User
13 years ago
if you kill them, you have lost them anyway, and if they are cheating you never really had them. so i don't really see the point unless it is a crime of passion and you just lose control because you are so hurt and angry and kill them before you can stop yourself.I have always been fascinated by the story of lorraina bobbert, that chick who cut her husbands penis off with scissors.I can totally understand how and why she did that, she lost control because she was so hurt and betrayed.But murder?? i would kill someone if they i found out they had sexually abused my child.... but i wouldnt get caught. they would just "disappear off the mexico" or something.
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