How important is a webcam to the online dating world

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  prefer a phone call. No way will I get a webcam out, guys just get off on that. I've fallen for that one before.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  A webcam is a must on sites like this, especially if physical attraction is important to you. Pictures can be old, photoshopped or show just  your best bits. A webcam can show the truth.       Joanna

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  i sit there profiling ppl and watchin their reactions but i dont really like 1 on 1 unless i really no them...but all the ppl i hav met i hav seen on cam......i dont wanna c there bits but

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  but just because you've got one does NOT mean you have to wank off in front of it the first time a gal says yes to seeing you on webcam. No - I've not done that  - never ever... but I've spoken to many a lady who is wary of that - Guys need to grow up a bit and behave more appropriately for the gals.  If they want to see your face - show them that.  If they want to see more then show them that too - but  ONLY after they'ev actually asked you!!!  Once again common sense and decency seems to go out the window when people use technology... they'd never drop their pants in a face to face meet for the first time - why the heck would they do it on webcam???  Use your OTHER brain guys.. :-)   For me webcams are a fact of life - they make communicating with someone so much easier as you can see the expressions on their face when they read what you type... you can express yourself so much more fully once you can see a person... if you call them at the same time using skype with video (yes MSN can do that but it sucks) then you can have almost a full real experience of meeting them -voice, and vision that is...   Wayne

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Screw that!...we dont even one...and have no intention of ever getting one! Like to leave something to find out for real!Cheers Nev

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I go into chatroom on cam on the rare occasion as these days as it can be stressful in there.   I rarely add to my msn now. If I do and a guy asks have you anymore pics?  I ask have YOU anymore pics?  I got this last night..I just said G"night...hehe...   Guys who immediatley want pics or cam will be deleted. I like to chat a lil...Then if the conversation has been appealing...(actually getting to know someone). Then I will give my mobile number if I feel comfortable and I am wanting to get to know this person as a person.   Voice can tell me a lot...   Cam on msn...He would really have to be amazing for me to get on cam on msn..Makes my comp freeze up!..hahahaha..TRUE!...     Besides....why should I cam on msn....99.99999999% won't travel to Bunbury...I don't see a point!. And I am too busy here.   Tis why I just do forums now.   huggies   sweetpetite41

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We dont have a cam and dont really want one.  We have seen enough of guys flashing thier dicks to last us a lifetime.   Yes'  it's probally a way to check out someone if its a instant attraction you're after.   But there's many people who just dont cam or photograph as well as when you see them in real life.    We meet a girl recently ( not from RHP ) who we had seen on our relo's cam before she came to Oz just before xmas.  On the cam she looked very ordinary indeed' but when we meet her face to face... she was gorgeous.  She was not the same nervous awkward looking girl we expected to find.   So cams dont always tell the truth.  In some case's they just dont capture the person same as in real life.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  They can be useful but are not a must have item.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I think some people are getting the wrong idea. My fault. I didn't explain myself better.  What I should have asked, is how important is having a webcam to you. Before you go and meet someone in person from the internet ?  How do you normally meet someone, what protocols do you have in place.  Phone. Picture Swapping. MSN chat's etc.. ? is this enough or do you want to know the person whom you might be meeting is the real deal first. such as webcaming to each other.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I don't care much about camming before meeting someone but you are right.. you can get some confirmation of the actual person you are intend to meet... although Ive had some weird people flash a snippet of cam on MSN.. but its obviously a looped recording of someone masturbating... and not them "live" at all! Seriously how weird is that!    Phone number is essential... I mean.. what if you're caught on traffic or can't find the address... you'd like to be able to let them know that you're still on the way, right.   Picture swapping does nothing for me.. but a clear face pic certainly tells you something about how genuine a person is about their profile....   MSN... I don't enjoy MSN... I have like a gazzillion contacts there and haven't got a clue who anyone is... and then they pop up, sometimes with a different user name to their RHP one, and start chatting without so much as a hi I am so and so... talking like I should like cognise them... then get the shits when I ask "yes but who are you?".. lolz.       Hugs Stalky

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