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How long before boredom sets in....
July 03 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
I let someone know my availability. If they don't ask me out I fade to black... There's always someone with a bit more get up and go waiting around the corner. That said... With kids etc... It's often difficult to find mutually available time.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What awesome71 said to a T.
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RHP User
11 years ago
....the ball is in your court too, make it happen!Mr S
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RHP User
11 years ago
To hold my interest , you need to show a natural warmth and willingness to meet for a coffee or drink so to judge if we have something worth going that extra step for , or just the coffee. If I find you are indecisive or judgemental without meeting, I wonder what your real motives are. I can't make a decision and neither can you , if we can't manage a face to face.. I will get bored very quickly and move on..
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have a short attention span, and absence does not make my heart grow fonder. Ideally I like to meet someone within a week, with two weeks being the maximum. Of course there are exceptions, but if a guy doesn't appear keen enough I tend to move on quite quickly. With my patients I'm extremely patient, but with my peers: not so much.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Next...
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RHP User
11 years ago
If I'm hooked, then reel me in an eat me If you leave me hanging for more than 2 weeks I'm gone.During that period I need to be kept entertained, so keep jiggling the line until we are face to face.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If I am very interested - and there is a reason for waiting, I will wait as long as they want.Usually there is a good reason as to why I'd be very interested.And from my experience it is always worth it, and sometimes you have to wait to meet the good ones.Not always, but sometimes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
And I want it now!!..(Queen).
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm a complicated character and I like to know there's an intellectual and emotional connection well before I meet someone. I'm not looking for casual sex at this point in my life but even if I was, it's all about the intensity of the connection and the chemistry. I've hooked up before and it's never as good as when I take my time getting to know someone and letting them get to know me. A rare man has this kind of patience - they do get bored and I happily let them move on.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have had the constant messaging back and forth. Guess what, we both enjoy reading each other's message. She wasn't ready to meet but building towards it....then she quit RHP :( It really depends on the person and what they are looking for. I would prefer to meet sooner rather than later but some people prefer later or never. I just get annoyed when they say they want to meet and keep on cancelling or never turning up. Then I just go next.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Rome was never built in a day. Patience is a virtue. You can never rush good things. Some sayings I really like, but, then again, I tend to not rush, sometimes to my own detriment. But, those that truly know me, also know, that I'm just happy to catch up for a drink, or even just a chat on the phone, as I tend to lean towards being social, before sexual. I am a Taurus after all :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
the balls in ur court if you want it to happen dont leave it to long meet suck and fuck isnt this what this site is about..?. we all are busy and have kids and need to do shopping etc.etc. etc.if you leave it longer than 2 weeks to make a meeting then its probably too late as all oldies say .................. strike while the iron is hot..and you cant catch fish without a bait .....?
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Cheekyarses
11 years ago
They say that all good things come to those who wait.... But all great things come to those who get off their arses and do something about it..... Make it happen, or move on x
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RHP User
11 years ago
I prefer to meet sooner rather than later, I get distracted easily having said that, I only have so much available time and hubby and myself even less (damn kids keep getting in way of our sex lives) which can sometimes mean having to wait a little longer than I'd like. Also as fun as the flirting, texting and photo sharing is, the longer you do it, the more of yourself you put out there (not to mention the distractions and phone bill) then what happens if you don't end up meeting or do and don't click? I've had that happen, especially with the younger guys, they talk it up, anticipating first meet and play and then nothing....too much talking, performance anxiety? Lets face it, it can be pretty nerve wracking meeting someone new to begin with, let alone having talked yourself into a position of a Sex God!
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RHP User
11 years ago
extremely old and have a short attention span....who did you say you were again
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have ended up shagging someone within minutes of having any form of contact, but also enjoy a long buildup sometimes..
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RHP User
11 years ago
in some ways both are the best, good reply
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luvsilver
11 years ago
We are a genuine couple and enjoy playing with other couples, single guys, single woman and small groups. BUT, quite often life just gets in the way. We have a business to run,4 young children, we live some distance from Melbourne and baby sitters are scarce for us. There have been times it has taken 12 months before ours and others schedules have allowed us to get together and all have had a ball. We also understand that some people may think we are not interested if we have not met them within 2 weeks of theirs or our initial message resulting in pgs taken away and not hearing from them again. Frustrating for us and them I am sure but that is the way it is. Mrs Luvsilver replies to most of our messages and if she is not interested in someone she will be nice but upfront about it as we expect the same for us. We don't do the constant message thing though as no one wants that, though if there is a chance we can get out to play we will certainly send a few feelers out to people we have an interest in or shared a message. Frustrated but patience of a Saint (or Sinner-lol) for us Cheekyarse. Mr luvsilver.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Being in a small town with limited opportunities means my patience is stronger ;-) If there is a person/couple locally then I try not to waste time... but going down to Melbourne I can take time or might need to wait until we both have a a chance for a trip (Saints for ex.. maybe next one :-)Mr Sparks
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RHP User
11 years ago
It really depends on distance and what needs to be organised for us. but usually (Not always) if we haven't met a person or couple after four or five weeks of first contact it usually don't happen at all. "sometimes its first in best undressed" Other times the wait is soooo worth it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you are trying to arrange a meeting, as a guy, you have to be careful not to appear too pushy/eager AND not to lazy/disinterested... too much either way and you scare off the potential partner.I suffer with the "Starting Gun Jitters" issue where I don't want to push too hard too soon.Once the first Hello has been said face to face, then it is easy... as soon as you both click. Set a time limit for the meet and if you don't click then the game is over and you both go your own separate ways, if you click then round two starts in the bedroom.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
I dont do the long email tennis match.Was reminded why recently.DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
I find that men tend to want to meet the second they see your cock or face and they are attracted to you... I prefer to take my time.... I will send a message to a lady and wait for her to message (which usually takes forever) and hopefully if we hit it off I ask her to have a drink or coffee....I learnt that asking ladies out to dinner can be a bad idea because its usually at night and that means it could be a pre cursor to sex....if you feel out the person and reckon that she would give you a shot dinner is the way to go...other than that stick to coffee at a decent time of day....who knows you may get some afternoon delight :)
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