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How many couples are in an open relationship??
August 19 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
But we always involve each other in any decisions to meet others and would always meet as a couple at a first meet for safety and so the other person has confidence that we are legit and can play alone.
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RHP User
9 years ago
This is another one I cannot get my head around . So you go fuck around with others then come back home ???? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just because you "cannot get your head around it" doesnt make it "strange". After all Im sure there are a lot of people who cant get their head around your lifestyle too. For us, no we do not "go fuck around with others then come back home" as you so elegantly put it. However, we are both open to exploring sexually with another person who we both aprove of. Sometimes as a threesome othertimes one on one. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
WTF are you doing here? Apart from from practising to be a clown.......
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RHP User
9 years ago
MrBella gets his jollies by disagreeing on any topic here. He enjoys it for some reason. Each to their own.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Might be time to leave this site ,before I upset anymore people. Just find it amazing what irifke get up to . - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
9 years ago
We are in a open relationship, yes it means if 'I want to fuck around' I can, I choose however to have lovers I can have a connection with. I'm hubbies hotwife, the fun is in sharing my exploits and he loves the fact that other men love being with me as much as he does. My husband can play with others too, but chooses not too, other than with a handful of couples we have met and have become wonderful friends. This is where we have an open relationship. It works well for us. Mary xx
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Hottie1
9 years ago
I find it difficult to comprehend how you have a number of validations, yet in the forums you are judgemental and inarticulate! Nothing worse than a keyboard chameleon who trolls the forums with inane questions. If you're articulate enough to be in the company of others IRL, be the same here in the forums. Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
We have just started to open ours. We were on here as a couple for a year or 2 (HotnHotter) but could never agree on other couples to meet as even though we are super compatible, we were looking for different things in other people. Its early days but it is really bringing out the aggressive sexual animal in me which is great for both of us I can tell you life on here as a single married guy is pretty quiet compared to being here as a couple lol Andrew
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'ag4mg92' We are in a open relationship, yes it means if 'I want to fuck around' I can, I choose however to have lovers I can have a connection with. I'm hubbies hotwife, the fun is in sharing my exploits and he loves the fact that other men love being with me as much as he does. My husband can play with others too, but chooses not too, other than with a handful of couples we have met and have become wonderful friends. This is where we have an open relationship. It works well for us. Mary xx I like this answer... I think you got it right.. Jay
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RHP User
9 years ago
My dog and I are in an open relationship. He is free to play with other dogs and humans, and so am I
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donnamick
9 years ago
We are in an open relationship, if a label is required. We communicate what we both enjoy in a sexual context and allow each other to explore. It just happens that it some instances we enjoy playing together with other couples, single males or single females. Mr donnamick has found that he enjoys "hot wifing" and Mrs donnamick on occasion joins other couples, single men and single ladies depending on what she feels like exploring. Mr donnamick has on occasion also played on his own, just depends on what we are both comfortable with. It's Freedom to explore and that's all it is. Cheers Mr donnamick - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
We're both shift workers and some weeks we're like ships in the night. My wife chooses not to play but is free to do so. I occasionally play with some special people when I have time but at the end of the day, our relationship is the primary one and we always come back to each other. We love and trust each other and there is no 'ownership' in our relationship.
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RHP User
9 years ago
thanks for the responses, as a couple we haven't told our friends about our relationship so it's nice to be able to chat about it on here. yes i guess i see it as we are free to "fuck" other people and to explore, at the end of the day yes we come back to each other, we have an amazing marriage and absolutely love and adore each other, the sex is amazing however we both decided that we would also like to explore sex with other people. We both trust each other 100% and are much happier being open and honest with each other, i know what he does and he knows what i do, we will happily play as a couple and by ourselves.I know it's not for everybody but i guess at the end of the day if it works for you then why not?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Looks like you found the right mix ... Good on both of you... Jay
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JohnAnn2227
9 years ago
We have had an open marriage and it was great fun. We both enjoyed hearing what the other got up to on nights out. John would help me get dressed if I had a date and I sometimes bought him a new shirt to wear or aftershave if he did. With kids now it is nearly impossible. It was too hard answering questions like "Where is mummy?" at breakfast. We swing regularly and if either of us is out and has the opportunity to "play" then we simply ring each other to let them know. So random is ok but dates etc just too hard to organise.
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RHP User
9 years ago
We found it difficult to find the right chemistry to meet couples - it's hard enough for two, it's hell to match up four. and every couple is so different - I didn't realise before! We chat and share anything that affects us both, saving only the privacy that our friends deserve. Still on the journey.
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sahzpete
9 years ago
We play as a couple with other couples, but wifey has a male friend that she sees every month or so he comes here to see her and I have a love lady friend that I go to visit as well, we try and arrange it that it is on the same night but not always, we have been doing this for a couple of years now and it works for us. All open no lies nothing behind any ones back.
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RHP User
9 years ago
you sound just like us, we will often give each other help getting ready etc and like you guys it does tend to be more random as we have kid issues too, that's why we don't encourage sleepovers too hard to explain to the kids the next morning.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am in a open relationship Nothing happens unless it's discussed and the we are both comftable with the ideas We prefer to play together but that isn't always the case She is very bi and wants to beable to get with girls without me and in return I can get with girls aswell (pending discussion of said plans ) There is grey areas though - when your out without your partner and a opportunity arises ect But it's all about communication And we don't go around doing who we please when we please If it isn't discussed it's classed as cheating ~ - Posted from rhpmobile
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Enjoylifealways
9 years ago
Yes we have been in one of years . It works for us :)
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BellaD77
9 years ago
The idea has always fascinated me, love the concept of being able help each other explore but still have someone to cuddle every night ☺️
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think the world would be a much better place with more peoples in open relationships, it certainly has more potential to unite us and spread the happiness than marriage has. I wouldn't be so bold as to say it's the future but it would be interesting ! Spread the word.
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Personally I don't get it. We share everything together including sexual adventures and credit cards. The level of mental toughness/robustness that would be required for an open relationship is beyond me and Mrs S. I'm not judging at all, but its something we cant comprehend. I would find pondering occam's razor easier than understanding an open relationship. The dynamic and all of its complexities would require burning too many calories.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I agree with Wet_Paint. The world would be a much happier place. I'm obviously not a 'couple' lol, but the comments I've read here pretty much sum up how I want my relationship to be when I get there. Big turn on for me having a partner play with other people as well, me too, as and when required or desired I should say. It just makes the sex between the 2 of you so much better, get hornier after playing with other people, win win. Perfect relationship as far as I'm concerned. You're all very lucky
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jenniecruising
9 years ago
We chose an open relationship when Cruising was working overseas. We both enjoy sex with other people and it wasn't always possible while he was away. Since deciding to be more of a home body we have continued to excite each other with extra bedroom adventures. Obviously easier for me as there is no shortage of willing men, Cruising on the other hand lol. Jennie xx
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MrPlayful
9 years ago
We play solo. If one of us is away and we can't enjoy eachother, we are free to play alone. On the other hand, when we are together we play together. As long as you make the rules before you play, have no secrets and openly answer questions when asked then there's no problems!
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