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How many, is TOO many?

November 13 2011

Ok, so, we've got a great pad now: 12 seater spa, sauna, big bali themed outdoor area, 70" tv, 12 seater lounge, massage chair, gyro machine, etc etc. Just about the ultimate swingers pad. Hell... it's the ultimate VANILLA pad even...So, we're getting into to hosting little parties every now and again. We can drink, we don't have to worry about driving (or getting lost), we can be late for our own parties, and best of all... hand select our sexy guests.So far we've only ever limited the number of people, to the same number that can fit comfortably in the spa (12).We've only ever invited people we have met numerous times to our little events, but it's time to get daring and invite some newbies!Our question is... with so much room, we could invite more. Do we assume some people won't always enter the spa? Overbook the night so it becoms a 'first in, first wet' fight for the spa (and therefore get's the night going a bit quicker?).Or, are people going to be put off that they didn't get their feet wet 'cause we invited every man and his hot wife? What's a good ratio for a 12 seater??

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RHP User

13 years ago

crank the spa temp up so ppl can't stay in it as long :) works for our parties & then you can invite as many as you like xoxoE&R

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rc_80

13 years ago

We have THREE, yes THREE big overhead gas powered super heaters, so we'll be sure to crank those to add some heat to the night :)Where did you event registration get to E? Go forth and register!

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PartyOrg

13 years ago

At our parties we usually like to invite 20-25 couples and a few single girls doesnt hurt either :P. That way even if a few drop out at the last minute there are enough numbers for people to interact as well as choose with who they would like to play with.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Crank it up seems good especially as condoms do not do well when exposed to water. Much smarter I would have thought to dry off first. Anyone educate me?

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Onlylivetwice

13 years ago

Remember those photos from the 1960s of "How many people can you fit in a Volkswagen Beetle"...? :)

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RHP User

13 years ago

You might have heard it before - but do not ask how many eople you need or want at your party but what quality... no matter if you have an oversuply of "single" ladies, or undersupply of "single" men - if people do not click then no sparks would fly... for a good no strings encounter you need to find the right friends ;-)

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rc_80

13 years ago

That was the entire point of the question Joe. We have a social circle of 10-12 couples that get along famously, so figured a good way to increase that would be to invite 6 we know click... and then 2-3 new couples that appear to fit in.

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RHP User

13 years ago

all those people.... bodies.....and stuff.....in a warm spa....must be like soup by the end of the night....

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RHP User

13 years ago

hey guys, from someone who has attended many parties in different forms and ways over the years, i suggest inviting come people you know and are comfortable with and roll the dice with some new ones. you never know who you are missing out on... also, a lot of people want to experience the party scene without the expectation of playing first go. i know i didnt get my business out at the first i went to. and the first i take my man to, we wont be getting out gear out until after. we just want to see what its about, meet people and have a good night. i also dont play at every party or event, sometimes you just aren't feeling it- this doesnt mean i/we arent a hoot to have at a party...if that makes sensexx

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rc_80

13 years ago

oh yeah, for sure. We've certainly hosted a few parties, and attended many more, so we have seen what works and what doesn't.At this stage, we reckon 16-18 people for a 12 seater spa sounds about right. Ten people we've met before, 6-8 new people. We figure the people we know, all know each other, so there is a more comfortable friendly vibe.

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RHP User

13 years ago

i forgot to write that i thought double. 24 with a 12 seater. i think if a 'few' people missed out it would be worse than half. especially when people change around when they get all pruney... hehe i know that at PIC parties there is about a double people to seat ratio.... or it mostly seems that way...

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DonnaBrett

13 years ago

We have been to all sorts of parties of various sizes and numbers of people....if the venue is smaller keep the numbers lower so as to not over crowd and be uncomfortable...with bigger party venues..too few people can get lost...we personally prefer that the party stays together. The biggest party divider is where the smokers go outside & the non smokers stay inside.As for the spa thing..well not everyone partakes anyway..we rarely do the spa thing..yes occasionally but it's not a big deal for us.... they certainly are a good ice breaker no doubt but we had seen things get carried away when people throw caution to the wind and just start fucking unprotected in the spa jumping from dick to dick....as hot & sexy as that can be...one still needs to keep a straight head (no pun intended) and be sensible.

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