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How many times

July 06 2014

What is the normal or average amount of times for a guy to cum in an encounter ? ( without the use of pill or medication )I understand every situation is different but was recently discussing and curious to know what others have experienced.Lets say the encounter goes 4 hrs , me personally i could and have cum twice in that time .Is this normal ? average ? well below par ? or do i need help lol.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    This is a fun one..... If your into Tantrix sex, then you can cum often, without physically cuming.......... If your into some BDSM situations, can go for hours and only have that final release as you find release in different forms............. It doesn't matter how often you cum, as long as your both getting pleasure from the encounter then who cares............ Now if you had said it was 'difficult' or 'painful' etc, the answer is easy - go see a doctor :)...... Just ENJOY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Name was Gertrude....true...er now for your question... Why do you care?....ask Sting about the Tantra or maybe Trudi :-) xQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Twice in 4 hours sounds normal to me. As to average, it not really something that you keep a tally of, unless you are ocd, because there can be so many variables. If you are hell bent on scoring tries, you could theoretically cum every 10 minutes (at least for a good while) but no-one is going to thank you for that mess, and you and she will be very sore after that effort over 4 hours. Doesn't it really depend how you spent the 4 hours? Whether you all enjoyed the encounter as whole rather than keeping score how many times you ejaculated? Unless it is a performance issue of retarded or delayed ejaculation (that is an inability to ejaculate from prolonged intercourse, in which event you should seek medical treatment), I would suggest it is better to focus on all of the parties enjoying the ride.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Depends how much you're enjoying the session Sometimes if you're really enjoying it, it can be out of control. My best effort was from 10pm until 4am, I came 9 times.. And when I got home around 6am, I masturbated before going to bed!! What's important, is how many times your partner came!!! That's what excites me when with a woman. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have seen my lover cum 3 times in 4 hours (working him up to 4 times in 4 hrs without killing him lol). I've also seen him able to hold his erection for the same amount of time without blowing once, because he's just happy to see that I am satisfied and he doesn't feel a need to cum. To be honest, I think he's weird ;P Just depends on the day, the mood, his level of stress, how often we've had sex in the week... Most guys I've encountered are only able to cum once then lose interest, so I consider myself very lucky to have him :) But I agree with Bigmamma. As long as you're both enjoying the encounter, does it really matter? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    10 years ago

    For me it sort of depends on who you are with and what you are doing ? but me personally, I prefer to hold off to the end of the session to come, so I don't loose the intensity, although I will usually get very close to orgasm several times during a session.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    you mean, you don't blow and go? I am available all week In all seriousness, I have had only one that has gone three rounds in as many hours and just as much quality each time (god, I miss him), most only blow once and some quite quickly and maybe had a few that went twice, usually quickly first then stay a little better the second, even had a few that never even made it out of their pants! . It does depend on the size of your cock too. Guys with smaller appendages apparently cum quicker because they have the same amount of nerve endings in a more concentrated area and guys with larger ones can last longer, double whammy for the little fellas! And of course psychological interference makes a difference also.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Make a phone call :))). Ok, I don't know if having a vasectomy makes any difference, however I've had a guy who we've gone up to 5 hrs together and he cums up to 5 times (no shrinking violet on this one)....... In between I get so much yummy attention....... Lol, big grin on my face ;D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A certain forum recently would suggest that 10 rounds per day was the benchmark of "champions" - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Last lover once went 5 times in one session where we just played all day long.. Probably over a 6 hour period.. Hmm very enjoyable naked day that was & lots of happy memories... Ahhh :-)))) 😈😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    At the risk of being told I am bragging...I lost count how many she had but in 5 hrs I came 3 times. Wow What fantastic hot night we had.. Wine and Dined her then hit the club for a while then home and fucked our arses off... Best fuck buddy I ever had.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    That's ok in my books.. Yes your right OP, everyone is different. But for those who don't cum in that time period, makes me wonder about the little old trick... LOL a good wank prior arrival to keep it up. What's better? To cum or not to cum? Meh I prefer quality over quantity. 😎 Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    and keeping him well-hydrated will keep him going.... with pussy juice, that is ;P - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We have been married for 24 years, and my hubby consistently cums 4-5 times in a sunday morning sex session…we need a good amount of time of course….but typically when we have sex at night , he will cum twice, once from head and once from penertration ……..When playing all night, he will just keep coming till he passes out from being tired hahah ….never really heard him say "enough"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I would say twice over four hours in about average. I find the average to be two but occasionally three with a breather break in between for a standard 4 hour session. I'm going to now generalise from my experiences: *The younger ones (20s) tend to cum quicker the first time, leaving me sometimes unsatisfied but they don't need much down time, are ready to go again soon after with no problems and cum again. They usually have the energy to throw me around the bed ;) *the older ones (40s) tend to make sure I'm satisfied a few times before they cum their first time. They may need a little longer to recover between sessions but can usually go again but may not cum a second or third time. This is where quality wins over quantity. I definitely agree with quality over quantity but isn't it awesome when you can have both! My partner is definitely the exception to the rule. He read this post and was surprised if not a little chuffed. He had an idea that he was good but this forum post confirmed his super human abilities to get hard, stay hard, go hard, cum hard, often and for a long time. Yes I'm bragging here. He now knows I'm not just pumping up his tyres. Lol He is in his early 40s, gets wonderfully hard, cums when he/we choose to, as often as we like and can go for hours! He has the ability to stay hard after he cums and just keep going. He wears me out! Does that answer the question and then sum?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If less than you, its no good.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Melbourne_Babe' If less than you, its no good. I totally agree Melbourne_Babe, I want nothing more than to see her satisfied .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yeah yeah........ but I am not as satisfied if the guy doesn't come fwb. Too much emphasis on coming. I think anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Her name was Angela :) I came 3 times in one hour and was ready to continue (shed cldnt take anymore) now I know people here will say bull shit ? There was only one reason this session happened and I came so many times ? It was simply the connection of falling in deep love (no not lust) with her... Sure we had great sessions before hand but nothing came close to that one time... In saying that as I fell in love with her it seemed she fell out of love... Shame really as getting to those trust levels is never easy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Apparently a guy can cum again if a new girl is suddenly introduced, even if he has spread his last seed, so to speak lol so all as you need guys is girls lined up :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Yeah yeah........ but I am not as satisfied if the guy doesn't come fwb. Too much emphasis on coming. I think anyway. I agree meeka….I'd WAY rather a guy come slightly too fast in the beginning , and be willing to play till he is ready again….than someone that takes forever! When a guy doesn't cum, or takes so long he is pounding away for hours, it feels slightly insulting, like he is just that into me… A guy who cums quite quickly when we first meet is the opposite…I feel flattered….so long as he is ready to keep playing till he is ready to play again I am not talking persistent PE, more just an enthusiastic orgasm at meeting :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Averages are just that, averages, everyone has their own average. Ive cum 14 times in one night and sometimes I dont come at all. Sometimes I can come without ejaculating, those orgasams are pretty good as they tend to last for a few minutes and even longer.I like cuming best of all first thing in the morning and tend to explode a huge load if I havent cum with the woman the night before Mmmmmm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    3.75

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    To the guys that cum multiple times: Do you fine that your organism isn't as intense after multiple times (4 or more)? .... Do you find organism is more intense the first?.....Do you find organism more intense if you hold off and go longer? .....In my younger day I was with a guy that could go through a condom box in the time it took to watch a double at the drive inns. I wasn't too interested to ask him back then but curious now. Don't think his wife would like if I asked him now. Haha

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Melbourne_Babe' Apparently a guy can cum again if a new girl is suddenly introduced, even if he has spread his last seed, so to speak lol so all as you need guys is girls lined up :p You'd get too many guys arguing against that line of thought MB. Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My lovely partner and I normally around 5 to 7 times in around 4 to 5 hrs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    On how many times you want to cum. I've been with men who could hold back and not cum for hours, or bounce back and cum (including ejaculation) easily 3-4 times in 4 hours. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    10 years ago

    Hey you youngrandmarried would you cum in that 4hour period? Just asking? If in that 4 hr period you get over an hour of penetration everybody should be coming sometime lmao ha ha ha 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Why do I have to cum at all in a "sexual encounter"? Maybe I made it all about....her.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    it's different everytime, so many factors at play... don't sweat it, enjoy it for what it ispleasure is pleasure