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How many women hold back on an awesome orgasm because they are ashamed of squirting?

January 05 2012

Just putting it out there :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My subject was too long for the screen!!!Shoulda just said "squirt shame"...RA

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Since you put it that way.....             Yes

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I dont hold back in any aspect of my life nor am I ashamed of anything I do sexually.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Squirters shame. Hmmm only did it once & I didn't know I was doing it. I know woman say it feels awesome and fantastic and it's the beat orgasm ever. But I didnt get anything out of it really. Maybe the wrong guy? Not sure. Meeka

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Nope like Handmaiden..never held back on anything (well not sexually) and never will...why should I ? but like Meeka Ive only ever squirted once...and I was quite giggly afterwards....it was nice but Ive had more intense orgasms via other methods without the squirt....horses for courses

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    The amount of mess I make...proves i don't hold back :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I'm talking about all those times I have been told to stop, and when I ask why, they say "I can't". when pressed they exclaim "but it goes EVERYwhere!!" Then they go bright red. I think they think I'm making them pee themselves. This has happened more or less to this script with a handful of women. And Chilli, I do know how! I had to be taught it, it didn't just pop into my head, so its not so freaking amazing, but I know how. I think that's what the rock and roll hand sign really means.RA

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    13 years ago

    never....it's all about me....isn't

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Never. Mrs Keen never holds back, the new challenge has been distance in the Olympic year :-)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Wtf?

  • ruby_blossum

    ruby_blossum

    13 years ago

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I don't know what you're talking about. I'm new. To Perth.RA

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I only hold back if I'm on the wrong side of the bed....who wants to sleep in the wet spot?? ;P

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I am not really a "squirter" per se but had the unusual experience recently of squirting during anal (from behind) with only clitoral stimulation, I did it without orgasming (I only orgasm from anal with my man on top.) I am still waiting to have the right "digital technique" performed on me :) But otherwise have only done it a couple of times myself when masturbating.

  • ruby_blossum

    ruby_blossum

    13 years ago

    Sorry Random.....I wont let the cat out of the bag....

  • Vintagetatu

    Vintagetatu

    13 years ago

    As long as your playmate is aware they could drown...... hold back, no thanks.   Do men hold back?   ''Whoops, sorry love, just let me hold back... I'd hate to make a mess on your skin, bed, curtains, carpet, hair or lips"   *chuckles*

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    squirt shame? never heard of it......maybe its more to do with the fact that a woman usually has to be relaxed with her partner...something that doest happen with randoms...for us, its never even been close to happening with a guest...probably never will...... and thats quite ok... but what does become annoying is how fixated some guys are by it......... we cant tell how many times we've been asked 'does Shel squirt?'.....the answers always the same..'yes, but not while playing'........its not what we are here looking for....not when theres so many other, more satisfying things on offer..........

  • Vintagetatu

    Vintagetatu

    13 years ago

    Ms Chilli - happy to sitcom it up, we'll have to do some very thorough casting for the lead male role... oh the torture of that task sounds almost too much to bear *claps hands gleefully**sends email for Emmy nomination form stat!*

  • Vintagetatu

    Vintagetatu

    13 years ago

    Ahhhh Miss Chilli can you imagine, it's a sure winner for a sitcom.... the most difficult part will be casting for the male and female lead roles- sounds like an insanely tough job but I'm willing to take one for the team for our names to be on an Emmy or two.Now where shall we set up that casting couch?*rubs hands gleefully*

  • Vintagetatu

    Vintagetatu

    13 years ago

    will figure the forum posting thing out eventually *sigh*Apologies!xo

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ...she was even contemplating holding back, I would stop then flop over on my side, trill my fingers on the pillow and feign being completely bored senseless. I'm not much of an actor...take it for what it's worth and I am willing to risk being drowned on the outgoing rip tide. | "Well...are you in the game or want to sit on the bench?" | I hold back all the time...seriously, I love getting cramps and trying to do my last year's tax return in my head instead of living in the moment. | | I hate these trick questions...multiple response options are way more fun!

  • Vintagetatu

    Vintagetatu

    13 years ago

    ho hummm best I pop out to the shops to obtain a couple of essentials - wiper blades for the cameras plus at least 3 dropsheets/tarps...Happy to be the Casting Director - oh the excitment. Now where did I put that whip and latex outfit, directors chair and clipboard..Is Sir Midnight and Mr Agent capable of performing under the spotlight Miss Chilli?xoVT

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ...this "emmy" as a prize on with me before, it didn't work then and it won't work now. I do think it's rude of you not to explain that in your ever so "girlie speak" vernacular that is an enema...and to this day I still laugh at how surprised you looked when the tables were turned and you had water squirting out of your nose. Oh well, some people do pay a lot of money for a high colonic irrigation that is that thorough. | I'll stay off the casting couch for now...unless of course VT accepts the position as the Casting Director and wants to personally confirm "somehow" that the reference in my CV is true. I really did work my way through college as a part-time pearl diver...and here I thought being a struggling uni student that would do anything to pay for his education was a waste of time. | Please do let me know if I get a casting call...I never miss an opportunity and have no fear of diving in the deep end. | | You can even choose which end of the pool I dive into head first.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    was wondering if there was room for me in this ben hurian production of yours ladies...   i come well credentialled, and with good form to boot.   would even consider are position as location supervisor, set designer.   fuck it, could even do the catering hahaha

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    They're the self conscious ones.... the ones who deep down... realise that they might just piss themselves if they cum too hard.... and, lacking the foresight to concurrently realise that a little bit of wee has ever hurt a bloke's dick... just putting it out there.HugsStalky

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    mmm since having a girlfriend who squirted over 15 years ago, i always wondered why some women squirted from my cock or fingers, or some just had to say"stop i need to pee". well... 3 months ago the guesswork changed totally. after learning EXACTLY what happens physiologically, and then telling and teaching each partner since, i have taught every one of them to g spot orgasm, and squirt. some immensely so- one trashed me medisil magic wand!!!, had to fix that asap. women going forom no squirting to full sprayers, some gushing some oozing. it has been such a turn on to watch and the disbelief on their faces as they realise, "what the fuck are you doing to me." well, lets just say words fail when it comes to that....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Just realised I didn't answer the question- 'lil tangential me.Yes in vain I did try to hold back, why?Because I was not expecting it at all!!! I was mid anal with no fingering/ direct stimulation of my g spot and only a bit of clitoral stimulation from me???.... Very much a surprise when one is on the couch of a hotel apartment and I honestly felt like I was going to explode LOL!!! Where as (I ponder curiously) the other few time have been whilst I masturbate (2 hands) and I have been orgasming and it was not a lot Hmmm.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I haven't had the pleasure of squirting yet... and I've done a little bit of research that suggest not all women can squirt. I did have one female partner who tried to help me develop the control and I wasn't able to quite manage to squirt though i think i came close with one guy recently. Just couldn't get there in the end. Talk about frustrating! However should there be some generous guy or gal out there who knows how to make a woman squirt I would happily make a mess anywhere! LOL

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    It's not shame for me , its the mess!if someone knows how to turn the damn thing off I'd love to know. I used to be able to have sex without mess, now I have to actually stop myself having pleasure if I want the bed to stay dry. I wish I had a off switch !

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Just put a towel down and let the pleasure flow

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Just put a towel down and let the pleasure flow

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Never! I don't see the point in holding back whether you are a squirter or not. Why miss out on all the fun?   I only squirted for the first time last night and while it felt amazing (and my fb loved it) it wasn't the most intense orgasm I've had. Now that I've worked out how to do it I'm not going to hold back (unless I have to sleep on that side of the bed lol).