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How much friend is your FWB?
August 10 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
All these questions about this never seem to take into account if you have more than one FWB. Can't ask all of them round to meet the family can you. :p
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RHP User
9 years ago
and I are geared for the social first and the sex as the cherry on top... And I think that'd be the same for multiples....with a little luck they'd be all joining in 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Fuck buddies I meet up with mainly for sex, though I'm also happy to go out for dinner or a movie. My three friends with benefits are actual friends, and with them I have done everything you describe, Nawty. p.s. I met one of them here and the other two on a different dating site.
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RHP User
9 years ago
complicated. More so as I work with 2 of them and they recently found out about each other. Surprised much....you bet....though I never told anyone they were exclusive.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I first joined this site.I had no idea about fuck buddies vs friends with benefits..I started seeing a man on a regular basis.he didnt want to do anything with me outside of the bedroom,eventually after a couple of months the penny dropped,I felt like a free hooker and ended it...months later he contacted me again...he asked me out for lunch,I politely declined his oh so kind offer...lesson learnt xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
Its not about love and relationships . Its about scratching a itch both of you benefit from. She fore fills my needs and me hers... I have one lady who totally gets it and another who's starting find out you can have sex without a ongoing commitment.. Just have to find someone with the same way of thinking and happy to keep things uncomplicated...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Enemies with benefits = that person who drives you nuts if you have to do anything other than have mad sweaty body contact with them and even though they are ugly inside you can't seem to stop your bodies from crashing into each other whenever they see fit.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_me' Its not about love and relationships . It's not? I thought that is exactly what close friends are about.
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Missb4u
9 years ago
have yet to find a fwb but I would hope that it is more than a fb but less than a boyfriend.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Jay_me' Its not about love and relationships . It's not? I thought that is exactly what close friends are about. I can see where Jay is coming from. I love my FWB's, but I'm not in love with any of them, and though we have a relationship with each other , we are not in one. However, if I was seeing someone to scratch an itch as Jay calls it, I would not call them a friend but a fuck buddy.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I agree, someone you scratch an itch with is a fuck buddy. Sure you are friendly but you don't really have a relationship which I consider real FWB to have. But there are different variations of course. Just like any friends. Some you see all the time, some you see occasionally.
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Hottie1
9 years ago
I can't do 'fuck buddies'. I was looking for a FWB and have found him and I want the whole deal. Dinner, movies, drinks whatever. It's the same with our 'couples' friends. The benefits are always delicious, but I value them as friends first. Mary xx
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inspirit
9 years ago
.......usually end up as mates as well. This one time, 4 of them turned up at a greet n meet I was at with a NEW to be FWB. Was a very funny night as they ALL took the piss out me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have a lover, I'm not sure what else to say...for now
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blkcapricornday
9 years ago
Good question, and it’s really the fundamental flaw with the fwb thing. It’s nice to be really close, just like normal friends. Hanging out, movies, nights out drinking, everything you’d do with normal friends. But the closeness is a real danger zone. I could’t have it any other way though, I like to know about the person i’m having sex with. It’s a real delicate ballancing act!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am just having my morning coffee. FWB, NSA etc are euphemisms which we use to express our desire for sexual intimacy without the risk of being hurt. And we have all been hurt and often - badly. So how do we express the need for sex and intimacy other than to use euphemisms which might provide us with an excuse next time we are hurt? In other words, be able to blame the other party for hurting me. This is about RISK in life's experiences. I am going to quote Shakespeare. (Is this the first Shakespeare quote on RHP?) "There is a tide in the affairs of men (and women too I suppose) which taken in the flood leads on to fortune, ignored and all the processes of their lives are lost in shallowness and miseries. On such a sea we (you) are now afloat an we must take the current where it serves - or lose our purpose" You have joined RHP. That means a lot of risk of being hurt. But we must all take that risk, FWB, NSA or what ever. No matter what we say in our profiles, many of the respondents will cause us pain, some will become long-term friends - and perhaps more. None of us want our lives to be lost in shallowness and miseries. We must take the current (being the opportunities offered by RHP) where it serves or lose our purpose. Enjoy your sexuality whenever you can - when ever the opportunity presents. Get over the RISK of being hurt again. Just do it. Don't make justifications and excuses - or your life will be lost in shallowness and miseries. I am going to have another morning coffee. (Having coffee alone this morning!) Geordie
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Jay_me' Its not about love and relationships . It's not? I thought that is exactly what close friends are about. Meaning a friend as in a friend , not to be confused with a friend relying on a meaningful relationship before they can have sex. There's friends with benefits 'and friends who by their very nature need that deeper connection. You know what I mean...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Jay_me' Its not about love and relationships . It's not? I thought that is exactly what close friends are about. I can see where Jay is coming from. I love my FWB's, but I'm not in love with any of them, and though we have a relationship with each other , we are not in one. However, if I was seeing someone to scratch an itch as Jay calls it, I would not call them a friend but a fuck buddy. Spot on Mea.. couldnt have said that better .. its almost like a jigsaw puzzle putting it all into words.. but you knew exactly where I was coming from...
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RHP User
9 years ago
I would like to have one or two. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
How hot is hate sex! Scorching.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have a close female friend that I have known for more than 40 years. Until very recently, we had never been intimate. However, her marriage fell apart and mine became sexless. We now satisfy each other sexually but our friendship is foremost.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' How hot is hate sex! Scorching. The opposite of love most definitely is NOT hate, we all know that's apathy. Hate should just be called dark love. Also, how powerful is lust!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I tried the fwb thing and because we were so open with what each other wanted or had experienced without fear of losing a BF/GF relationship we grew extremely close and have now been together as a couple for five years. At first there were a few low points where either he or I felt used but at the same time the simplicity of it was refreshing and energizing. Can completely understand why it just would never work for some. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have two which I both met almost 3 yrs ago, we kind of come in out of each others lives depending on whats going on. One is purely good company but we never go out socially. The other we have attended parties together as a couple, meet for lunches and occasional sleep over. It doesnt always involve sex as there is mutual friendship there as well. I guess thats why after so long it still works. We all have different relationship needs and future hope to find what we are looking for in a potential partner. Until then its always good to have friends and great times.
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RHP User
9 years ago
But my romantic/affectionate side desires any quality time spent with a female. Cuddled up watching a movie together, going out for a meal or cooking for each other, someone to talk to openly about anything and everything etc. All this I believe makes someone a friend. Sex following on from these things can happen but doesn't have to. Generally speaking I crave these things much more (often) than sex (but when I crave sex, look out! ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'OP' Sonething that popped into my head as I was recovering from a vicious attack by a nasty looking critter in my car on the way to lunch today... Ok, so I pulled over and killed the bloody ant 😈 YOU KILLED ANT-MAN!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Unless I adhere to Social convenient ion ( yeh whatever ) I'll never be a human !!! Move on - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have been with a couple now for over 18 months. They helped me move house once. Tell me to drop in if I've had a bad day and need to do some debriefing. We go out for dinner, I've met their family, and as a single guy, they have said many times that if I do ever settle down that the friendship would remain. I would classify them as wonderful friends that I am grateful to have in my world. :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had a fwb that is now just a fantastic friend (as we are now involved with others), we actually recognized each other at a pub after turning each other down on a dating sight, lol he comes to me with his girl problems for a female point of view etc......we go out for lunch, he comes to family events as my plus one...... fuck buddies are totally different.....have sex, leave by 10am, lol......
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