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How much sex is too much?

October 04 2018

Just putting the question out there and looking for people opinions... I have looked around google etc and was quite shocked at the results I found, it seems most couples average sex about 1-3 times per week even for the 20-29 year old bracket, I thought it would be way above that. Since meeting my partner about 6 months ago we would average about fifteen times per week, admittedly that has slowed down a little recently because she's away for two days but we still fit in as much as we can and by fitting in I don't mean fifteen minute quickies lol. We try to spend a good amount of time with each other and sessions last anywhere from an hour to a little over two, including foreplay of course. I would be interested to hear from other couples and no I don't need graphic details ps: I realise work and kids can take time away but we also had those to contend with but still make time for each other.

Comments

  • OkeyDoke45

    OkeyDoke45

    6 years ago

    Having sex 15 times a week? At 1-2 hours per session? That's um, (counts out on his fingers), like, more than 5 hours per week. To be perfectly frank - for me that is way too much time. I honestly think I would get bored. Way too much other stuff I could be doing. 2-3 times a week for a bog-standard half-hour to an hour would be perfectly fine by me. As a side bar, I am currently reading a book ("Everybody Lies'' by Seth Stephens Davidowitz) that talks about the internet and modern social media, it throws a bit of unwelcome light on (among other things) just how much sex people say they have. For example, the number of times people in the US say they have safe sex each year far exceeds the number of condoms sold in the entire world. I'm not saying you're lying, but people tend to over-report the amount of sex they have.

  • Livingandloving2

    Livingandloving2

    6 years ago

    feel that having sex is the only way we “ make time” for each other. 15 times a week at 2 hours a go..... I don’t know where we would also fit in our conversations, work, family commitments and sleep!! On average we manage between 5-6 times per week. We DO NOT go for 1-2 hours at a time though😂 Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

  • curiousgirl35

    curiousgirl35

    6 years ago

    I love it and the more i get the more i want! Poor hubby likes a break every now and then though. Sometimes its a quickie sometimes its hrs and hrs, just like everyone else. Not many days in the month im saying no. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Lover_Boytoy

    Lover_Boytoy

    6 years ago

    I think there is no actual cut off to 'too much sex'... It is like any other things When having sex starts to interfere your normal social/profession/or health then that's the point of 'too much sex' That's what I think.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Is still a pretty fresh relationship, its exciting and not bogged down too much with day to day life. I don't think I've ever had sex 15 times a week consistently but definitely at the beginning of a relationship, for me at least, its much more frequent. But if it works for you, youre both consenting and it isnt negatively affecting other aspects of your life then I see no problems 🙂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Maybe its just us but we still have plenty of time for other things and we don't watch a lot of TV if any at all lol. The reason could be that we have an amazing connection during sex and that is something we don't want to lose, in regards to getting bored? I think if you're getting bored of sex with your partner you're doing it all wrong Anyways was just after other peoples opinions and experiences is clearly no wrong or right answer.

  • NightToRemember

    NightToRemember

    6 years ago

    ‘Too much sex’ is more than you want. Up until then, good to go. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    There is no numbers just as long as the both of you are satisfied and happy that's the most important thing.Sounds like a perfect match that you both are similar as there are many couples that one has a sexual hunger and one does not.

  • totally_normal

    totally_normal

    6 years ago

    Other than that, go for it. I think you are making up our hours in the stats. Between fifo, work, family and home we barely get time for holdings hands days atm. The odd quickie is as good as it gets. Life is all swings and roundabouts, our time will come around again!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    6 years ago

    If I could have sex while I slept I would. I'm yet to meet someone who can match my sex drive.....well maybe once

  • sweetnsensual

    sweetnsensual

    6 years ago

    It depends on the mood and chemistry but we had a couple stay with us and we had sex together till 4 am and then started after breakfast again on Sunday.We have had a 6 hour session with a single girl during the day which we lovedWe have sex at least once a day but when we include others can go all nightWe love the intense sexual feeling of four on a bed but three is great too!

  • ladylover

    ladylover

    6 years ago

    Watcha talkin bout Willis?

  • curiousgirl35

    curiousgirl35

    6 years ago

    🤣🤣🤣😈 i love it - Posted from rhpmobile

  • usrightnow_Again

    usrightnow_Again

    6 years ago

    As Lover_boytoy said, if it interferes with your normal life, it could be classified as too much. We are coming up to thirty years in our relationship and at forty-nine and fifty, still have sex at least once a day, so, eight or nine times a week, for one to two hours a time. When we were in that twenty to twenty-nine age bracket, it was five to six times a day, thirty plus minutes to an hour and a half a time. We both worked full time, spent time with friends, and on other interests, time on other areas of our relationship, as well as being involved with various interest groups, so, not too much. Since having children, who seem to have a sexth sense (always wake or need us, just when we're in the middle of sex), the frequency did decline, to the point we are at today, mentioned above. There have been two threads covering this general topic in the last three years, that I can think of, one late 2016 or early 2017, the other, this year. We responded to the latter, however, we crunched the numbers upon reading the former. We worked out, that over the years, in total, taking out time after births, can be a while after C-sections, first four days of period, time for any illness, looking back in our diaries, a conservative total would be 25,000 times. No wonder we're so fecking tired. Enjoy your time, and may it continue.Mr. & Mrs. urn. .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    We usually make love every day except when sick or exhausted, but usually make it up the next morning or on the weekend. We would average 6-9 times per week with more on the holidays. I'd guess most people on here would have a high sex drive.

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    6 years ago

    Anything longer than 5 minutes of me giving them a bj and them going down on me no longer than 45 minutes. I'm caring so I don't want them to get tongue fatigue. I limit it to 45 minutes.😎 Wet regards to frequency, no more than once a fortnight, no longer than 15 minutes per session or before my favourite reality tv show starts. 😏. Happy days.😜

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    When A) when VaJayJay calms up, B) when dick falls off. Ms Foxy

  • couplecourious

    couplecourious

    6 years ago

    Couldnt possibly answer this question accurately for the both of us. Mrs would slap me silly if i answered honestly.😂

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    6 years ago

    Average is not all. I guess the top end will be about 3 times a day. Too much will be when it effects your health. I guess that limit is way beyond your current libido limit.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I was with a gorgeous red head for 5 yrs and from the day we got together till the day we split up we done it on average 3x times a day - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Verypicky

    Verypicky

    6 years ago

    Your vagina must be ruined approx 30hrs of hammer time - you would be ideal in a gangbang - credit to you - Posted from rhpmobile

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    6 years ago

    In poor countries some sex worker easily gets banged 100+ times a week and possibly still survive and keep going...😞

  • Squirtress

    Squirtress

    6 years ago

    Stop it 😂. 3?