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How often do you do a profile search
December 01 2014
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Just hope the "spectacular" ones find me eventually 😖
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
I think when I first joined I searched a few of times, so in the last year maybe done 6 searches all up.....💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not so many anymore....I have a bit of a perv in the users close by on the opening screen of the mobile app though.... Who am I searching for?? Wonder Woman. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do a search of locals every couple of weeks but never gone past looking - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
most days, as I'm trying to find people to play with... There's a 5 message limit :(
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ruby_blossum
10 years ago
Hardly ever.
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inspirit
10 years ago
I prefer to be proactive rather than reactive. I am searching for life.
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RHP User
10 years ago
... to realise that it is counterproductive and fairly limiting not to be proactive in searching - for me anyway.
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RHP User
10 years ago
As a guest it is really rather pointless and rather frustrating doing a search.
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passion8_l
10 years ago
I'm a guest and can't send messages anyway so I don't see the point. I will look at men that look at my profile and if I like what I see I will send a flirt but I don't actively search.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mainly forum-related, ie to get examples of common things said in men's profiles and making sure usernames I mention don't actually exist.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have three different criteria searches and I usually look just to see if anyone new pops up. I'm to curious for my own good.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Depends on the mood i am in or how busy i get, sometime i do once a week sometime none for months...same as bigmamma just looking to if someone new pops up
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Not sure I fit in here but my 20c worth. I'm an acquired taste so let them find me. Then sort the diamonds from the pile of broken glass.
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inspirit
10 years ago
Do you sit and wait for Mr/Mrs Right to cum along? So many people say "They can find me " or the classic "Im not looking".... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
... I find that all it takes is to have been seen to view a profile to initiate communication - and that's with just a shoe pic on display!
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Takes long enough to sift through the chaff without adding to the pile. Even to the point I use stealth mode permanently when viewing those that view my Page. Otherwise it just encourages those that may be borderline interested to give me a try. Rather hear from the ones that are interested straight up. You also have the physiological advantage of not appearing desperate......
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Do you sit and wait for Mr/Mrs Right to cum along? So many people say "They can find me " or the classic "Im not looking".... and earlier I prefer to be proactive rather than reactive. I am searching for life. you've confused the hell out of me (not hard) Your own profile has those same words in it "I'm not looking" Could be why you need to search, because if anyone hit your page and read your profile, they wouldn't be messaging you??
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Because alot of the time I'm busy reading the forum, taking pictures or responding to messages. Your post though did set me to thinking that maybe I'm being counter-productive, perhaps I should have a search every now and then? But then I thought, naaaah. I've met some truly spectacular people doing it my way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm reclining while men are coming through that great big revolving door called RHP three or four at a time. Quite enough to keep a gal far too busy to be proactive.
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'anywhichway007' Quoting 'inspirit' Do you sit and wait for Mr/Mrs Right to cum along? So many people say "They can find me " or the classic "Im not looking".... and earlier I prefer to be proactive rather than reactive. I am searching for life. you've confused the hell out of me (not hard) Your own profile has those same words in it "I'm not looking" Could be why you need to search, because if anyone hit your page and read your profile, they wouldn't be messaging you?? I am a multifaceted conundrum. If I say I am not looking then I don't get bothered by that annoying revolving door, having to sift through email after email. If some one hits my page I check them out and if I think we may have some common ground, I will contact. The choice is mine that way. If they are in stealth mode - I would never know so it is no big deal.
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BrightBubbly
10 years ago
I still get plenty of messages and flirts but I still like to be proactive. I also joined as a member so I can now approach those guys that I like instead of needing them to message me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Inspirit, I think they are not in stealth mode but just locked up in your basement. If I go quiet, someone search for me in Inspirit's basement Quoting 'inspirit' If I say I am not looking then I don't get bothered by that annoying revolving door, having to sift through email after email. If some one hits my page I check them out and if I think we may have some common ground, I will contact. The choice is mine that way. If they are in stealth mode - I would never know so it is no big deal.
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inspirit
10 years ago
Dungeon tho - that's whole different story
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm guessing us guys are more pro-active in searching profiles. Mainly because guys are very visual that's what we get off on, the beauty or sexuality of a woman, but also it's such an easy way to at least prompt a lady to check you out without having to use the ridiculous flirts they have on here........
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RHP User
10 years ago
allowing i.e a weekend free to play I may search, seek and conquer up to 9 times. Then when life is busy I just pick though emails and respond to those that have put the effort into a conversation so perhaps one a week
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
maybe once a fortnight or once a month...if someone views me I check them out generally, if I feel an attraction ill contact them...must admit the forums have been a valuable tool......they allow me to observe peoples responses and reactions.....if I find them demeaning, rude, full of themselves, arrogant or manipulative its an easy filter.....
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On_Safari
10 years ago
That can also be misinterpreted....alot of tongue in cheek happens in banter here and it also helps if you've met the individual IRL to aid in being able to determine the intent/nature of the person and their posts. Some people here come across pretty awesome initially, then upon meeting or associating with them over periods of time you realise (uh-oh) not what they portray at all. It's been interesting over the past couple of years watching some people hang themselves out to dry and watching others get taken in by them. Still....that's all at the discretion of the individual as well based on their own personal criteria/agenda/likes. Just an observation ~ Indy 🙈🙉🙊
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RHP User
10 years ago
I posted this on the thread "Not returning messages" but think it belongs here as well. It's really simple, most of you seem content to spend your time sorting through the trash that blows into your yard without even peering over the fence to see what's passing you bye. Maybe if you got a bit brave and sent the type of letter you keep lecturing men to write to someone that actually interests you, your experience here would be more positive for everyone !
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' That can also be misinterpreted....alot of tongue in cheek happens in banter here and it also helps if you've met the individual IRL to aid in being able to determine the intent/nature of the person and their posts. Some people here come across pretty awesome initially, then upon meeting or associating with them over periods of time you realise (uh-oh) not what they portray at all. It's been interesting over the past couple of years watching some people hang themselves out to dry and watching others get taken in by them. Still....that's all at the discretion of the individual as well based on their own personal criteria/agenda/likes. Just an observation ~ Indy 🙈🙉🙊 Most definitely agree. Tongue in check banter is totally Australian, I'd imagine most if not all of us love to enjoy those interactions - like we do...Suppose I was referring to observing incompatible behavioural patterns. The forums are great for that - agree not the only source and like you say neither is an initial meet. None the less forums essentially are a tool that people use. So agree indeed it is interesting to see those that one feels is not authentic have true colours revealed - in my >6 months on here I've already seen it occur both negatively and nicely positively. I do feel that ones own fetishes are entirely a choice for those consenting adults and so long as its legal they should not be judged on that basis. However when those fetishes then dominate that individuals interaction behaviour - those patterns may not suit others personal preference. Just my observations. And you may notice I just viewed you....dearie me some nice observations in hotpics there too... SAx
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
Hmmm perve searches, yes might need to add one or two extra for those instances. You know mid week after a long day at the office, have been know when very tired and very horny to do a little search for naughty self fulfilling reasons...sooo much fun isn't it....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm not looking to meet so searching isn't terribly worthwhile for me. If I do search it's to add to my perve list :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
10 years ago
a couple of times a week. When I first joined I didn't bother but I do now. Such a small portion visit the forums or use the site in full so I figure I should search and be proactive in finding what I am looking for.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
That's a very valid point. I have actually done that if someone has caught my eye but it's usually been via the forums or they've checked me out. Personally though I still live in hope of locking eyes with a man who is confident enough to approach me and allow me the opportunity (and hopefully the mutual pleasure) of having a chat, maybe a flirt and possibly some laughter. Anything else I guess would happen naturally.
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SacralChakra
10 years ago
Sometimes I go months without looking. It depends if I'm being satisfied :-P
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RHP User
10 years ago
You look at me.I will look at you if I am online...I am not in stealth mode either. ..but I am not proactive ,I don't even use my weekly message and receive maybe only five messages a month..So why am I here...hmm good question Moriarty :)
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Holmes!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have completed 2 full "Profile Searches" of Men in WA and I did this when I was still a "Guest". When I mean "Full", I mean that I went through 100 pages of Men but I did not look "deeply" into each and every Profile. I only delved deeply into those Profiles of "paying" Members, who I consider, have a "nice" face. If I then liked what I read from a man's Profile, I'd send the man a "flirt". This usually resulted in that particular man sending me a "message" in response to my "flirt" and we would go from there. I find a "nice smile" very appealing especially if it reaches the eyes. I'm also partial to men being around 6ft tall though this is not an "absolute" requirement. I do enjoy reading Profiles that show effort, ingenuity and are "well formed" with little or no grammatical/spelling mistakes. I prefer "Searching" for men that are "single, divorced or separated". If "attached", they must be in an "open" and "honest" relationship with a partner who consents to what they are doing. I think that I've had some success in my "Searches" because I have found a handful of "quality" men !!! Amy
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Dont see the point. When I ever did a search it was always the same small handful of profiles that came up anyway, including some not-quite-genuine ones. But some people must search every day..... one bloke launches onto new profiles with his friend requests with such monotonous regularity, it must be the first thing he does when he wakes each day.
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RHP User
10 years ago
...intrigued with this new world that I have found and am quite content to profile search several times a day. I am sure this will change as the novelty wears off but seeing as how I was bereft of physical intimacy and sexual stimulation for over 16 years, I intend to even the odds a little, even if it is only with eye candy. :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
EGO TRIPPERS lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
DG? kermy?
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RHP User
10 years ago
3 times a week maybe more sometimes Looking for a local match and still looking... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
There are 4 girls I drop by and check out now and then but that's bout it these days... Only wish I still had there numbers grrr bloody Ph died hey
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RHP User
10 years ago
...... every day or two ...... see who's on, who's new, who's changed their pic's and text (and try and figure why ...lol) ..... to catch someone who up to that point had been aloof ....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Use to search, still do occasionally!! Have acted on some searchs as in making contact but Rearly and we mean Rearly do we ever get a response. 😨 Just really read the forms now and occasionally have a chat online. Wasted money.... But on a happy note.... Hope every one has a very merry Xmas and a safe and prospes new year. Loves. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm new here and have conducted a lot of searches thus far but its proving to be very unproductive, other than the fact I have been able to learn what women aren't looking for and that seems to be me ! lol a married 30 yr old male who wants an ongoing passionate relationship with a secret mistress. I have found lately though you can get a much better sense of character by reading what someone posts in these forums and I'm finding myself more turned on by the content of someone's intellect than the content of there profile and pictures ! Maybe I better go to the doctors that doesn't sound right for a hot blooded 30yr old male lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
New to the site and wondering how it all works - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
10 years ago
You message 300 woman in the hope you get one response.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Looks like people find it some sort of pride in saying I dont search profiles.... lol... Well... for a change... since the chat rooms are pretty much time waster and forums are complex people and frankly I never put any attention to forums before.. I ACTIVELY SEARCH PROFILES for potential match... Now feel free to judge me for being a cheap stake but I AM ACTIVELY Looking for a potential lady Monster :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well I never would have guessed that. Nor would i have thought there was pride in not searching. I suppose there are some lucky people that have the world running to their door. Yet for the vast overwhelming majority of people here they need to be proactive and searching is one way to do that, but with so many people how does one find the monsters in the garden. I swear you can literally trip over them again and again and not see them, hiding behind perfectly trimmed hedge rows, or set in thorny rose bushes. Then there are the ghoulish grey ghosts that lurk in huge numbers, right in front of us. Should you consider them by their words alone. Maybe worth a try, kind of a lucky dip really, but so is the profile picture some still showing last centuries coffee cupped water mark. The search favours people that are online a lot, it favours people with pictures, and RHP membership status symbol badges. Sometimes I think these waters are over fished, not as in scarce, but well fattened barely capable of another mouth full, content fish. These fish are always quick to get back in the water with a mouth full of bait. Sometime it is best to veer from the beaten tack and explore the wilds away from the search engines. Follow some profile friends, is one such way. Birds or the feather flock together. These members may be infrequent, may not give RHP much thought or priority and thus end up in the wild back waters, seldom if ever to appear on the search results but still a worthy catch if you have the right bait. There are 3 million members, most of which are but the fossilized remnants of profiles lost. But with around 5000 members active daily and using the 80/20 rule in regard to total active looking members (online once a week) and doing the female to male reduction of one in ten you have about 2000 women actively seeking men. I wonder how often anyone goes into the dusty search pages past page 10. Random luck can be very beneficial in a world where systematic luck returns the same odds. Just a thought.
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RHP User
10 years ago
We will look on the mobile App occasionally and send a message or a wink to people who take our breath away though :)
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