How open are you with your parnter

January 22 2016

My question is how open are you with your partner with what you get up to on here just curious thank you in advanced.

Comments

  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    9 years ago

    I get online here a lot more than John and I love reading the forums etc more than him. He can't be bothered with forums etc (saying that he isn't even on Facebook!) He likes to do searches for other couples and we share anything on here that interests us.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Interested to see what people have to say on this one . If they are honest , that is.

  • social_suicide

    social_suicide

    9 years ago

    “By all means let's be open-minded, but not so open-minded that our brains drop out.” We are pretty open, all the important stuff is shared. However I have to admit that I have not viewed every message Ms S has received with a cock attached to it. What I can not understand is couples that restrict communication to the same sex, I have no interest in talking to the Mr, and Mrs S has even less interest in talking/texting the female. Mrs S has the freedom to chat/text all males we play with, its normal! So to state the obvious......being honest is very intimate, and that can only ever be good for a relationship.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'd keep secrets....and popcorn.... Chocolate too for the emergency times that occur once a month.... Lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I ( Ms) have recently given myself over completely to the exploration of all this sexual -and every insecurity that may bring up; which of course are always tied up with transparency ; knowing yourself and each other- as soon as a part of be wants to hide something; that's when it's most important to share it. At times; with curtain people the requirements to talk about exchanges are amplified; where as other times, he loves Kos over at my cheeky grin and just laughs off my nympho streak with banter. We have been a cpl for almost 17 yrs.... U learn a few things along the way. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sorry for the typos.... 🤔😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Without over sharing....your partner does not need to know everything! In my view, Its so controlling, insecure and untrusting where a partner *needs* to know everything about the other (apart from where a fantasy is involved, such as hot wifing, cuckold, etc.). - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I would cheat, lie and other shit..I would ALSO probably still be on here, and she would not know.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My wife is aware of everything I get up to via RHP. She has no interest in sex (God knows I've tried). I don't go into great detail with her but she knows who I'm with and when. She has met two couples I've been involved with but that's as far as it goes. We have been married for 35 years next month. Sex life was okay when we got married but dropped off after about 10 years. We even tried for a threesome on two occasions (once with a female then a male) early in our marriage but neither were interested in us for sex. So these days I go it alone but the wife knows what I'm up to.

  • missmyyear2016

    missmyyear2016

    9 years ago

    My question came about after waking up and finding my partner reading another womans profile just took me aback a bit we have talked and ground rules now in place thanks for your input .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    You gotta be super open with your partner when doing shit like this! Trust is obviously a big part of this lifestyle.

  • BiLinguists

    BiLinguists

    9 years ago

    Very wise words, Ms RH :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I joined RHP with my husband in the first place and he knows I stayed on for the forums. So much so, that he tends to follow along with what's going on in the forums. Topics here are often about current events and we enjoy talking them over together. We don't always agree either, lol. .He gets to have a perve on my current profile pic. And I tend to tell him about messages I receive if it's something I think might matter to him or something that matters to me. I'm really not all that talkative in the message area anyway. :-D.Peachy :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I tell my husband about the messages I receive and the flirts. We also have a couples profile that we both look at. We are very open about this life and he also chats to some of the men that I chat to on kik. They often ask his permission to talk to me!! Of course he just tells them that it's up to me and to go for it. He likes to be involved but doesn't always want to know everything. That's his choice. i prefer to be honest, it is after all the best policy is it not?

  • LifeUnscripted

    LifeUnscripted

    9 years ago

    We don't read everything each other do, but we nearly always share. For us this is something we are doing together, it enhances our relationship, and we love each other getting attention. So no real secrets between us. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I agree with the transparency remarks from Raging Hormones. We have our own profiles and a couples profile and we keep each other in the loop if something interesting is going on. Whilst we don't regurgitate every single thing, there is no question that cannot be asked should either of us wish to ask it. Flirty x - Posted from rhpmobile

  • OzRednecks

    OzRednecks

    9 years ago

    There isn't anything we hide. Anything. I know all my mans secrets, skeletons, fantasies and everyday situations. He knows all of mine. It adds something extra. we trust each other more than anyone else in our lives. It's special. Very special.

  • PurePeony

    PurePeony

    9 years ago

    I have no partner now, so there's no accountability issue. However, if I had a partner, I wouldn't even be on this site. Even when I was stuck in a sex-less relationship and was horny as, I couldn't and didn't cheat.

  • PurePeony

    PurePeony

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Stirry' I'd keep secrets....and popcorn.... Chocolate too for the emergency times that occur once a month.... Lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile _____________________________________________________________________________________________________ You're a wise man, Stirry! I have (dark) chocolates on a daily basis... almost. So during those "emergency" times, I need hugs more than anything.