How to approach couples at parties

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  Sawadee

  5 years ago

  Maybe because i identified with your likes and dislikes for nightclubs, crowds etc . Even if we never stepped foot inside a sex club' we still managed to get out to play with both singles and couples through places like rhp ... To answer your question ' we were approached by a young lady much like yourself at a special showing of ' Fifty Shades of Grey " sponsored by RHP in Sydney a few years ago. RHP arranged drinks etc before the movie and she just sided up and started chatting .. After the movie ' she asked if we were going to a hotel RHP had pre booked. We hadn't planned on going but it all felt good and we went along anyway.. One of our sexiest decisions ever .. We remained friends up right up till she moved overseas to live in Bali .. So from a simple chat about a movie''' that started a very warm friendly relationship .. So my advice is dont be shy ' if you fancy a couple lm sure they would love to be approached by a young lady ... l know we were...

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Oh darling, the swingers club is your oyster. I don’t think there will be too many couples saying no to you. You appear to be a very confident young woman, which I admire. I didn’t even know a great deal about sex at 21 & at 46 I haven’t even seen the inside of a swingers club. Oh to be young again. No regrets though.

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  2EssesExploring

  5 years ago

  Oh my, if you ever saw us at a swingers club you’d just have to come and say hi! Only problem is Mrs S feels so uncomfortable at them that we never go :( If you see us walking along the street just come up and say hi and say you wish you’d met us in a swingers club 😂 that should do it!

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  21. Single. Comfortable at Swingers Clubs. Hmmmmm. Here's an odd analogy if you know how Labradors and pigs sniff tirelessly for truffles in Europe / in demand all over the world for silly prices: (World Record) "The largest truffle is aTuber magnatum picothat weighed in at 1,786 g (62.99 oz) on 4 December 2014, down from a reported 1,890 g (66.66 oz), owing to evaporation, when it was found a week earlier in central Italy. The champion truffle was sold by Sabatino Tartufi (Italy/USA) to a phone bidder from Chinese Taipei at Sotheby’s New York auction house on 6 December 2014." Eve, in any Swinger's Club from Perth to Sydney... You are that truffle. And it's (extremely) rare that the truffle finds the two Labradors searching for it. I hope this makes sense.

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  I guess approach them like you would just another person 🤷🏻‍♀️ You seem like you know what might attract you to someone and if you are assessing the scene about a couple then probably start off a conversation by introduction. Maybe the woman seems nervous, say something that may put her at ease? Or they are exuding that confident and sexual aura...Do you like how they look, compliment them on that too. Great smiles, eyes seem to be glancing at you too...there are a lot of things that could segue into you approaching them and having a conversation with them and then you can gauge whether their interests aligns with yours. In some ways it doesn’t matter if you are a single woman or not, as long as you are confident in being able to talk with them. The club is your oyster and enjoy it...good luck ❤️ Dee xx

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  LittleGiant

  5 years ago

  Looking at your profile, you could walk up to a couple and say 'I love lamp' and that's all it would take for them to drop their pants. In all seriousness, couples are very rarely if ever approached by single women so I think no matter what you say they'll be very pleasantly surprised and flattered. Turning up alone you may feel like a hot chip at the beach (queue the seagulls) but if you arrive with a couple, this situation won't happen. I've been in plenty of clubs as both a single and a single with couples and I always preferred to walk in with friends. In saying that, it will also limit the amount of couples that are likely to approach you as well - but if you're willing to do the approaching then you can arrive with a couple, scope out the potential, then head towards whoever tickles your fancy instead of having every Tom, Dick and Harry with his dick out approach you and crowd you, as you said. Either way, I'm sure you'll do just fine! Miss Little xx

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  teamaj2

  5 years ago

  There is no right or wrong way to approach people .Everyone will have their own preferences. As a couple that only play when we are together we aren’t keen on someone that approaches us to chat and only interacts with one of us . We love when people come up to us and engage with us . Being alone or arriving with others would make no difference . Prior to our first ever party , I read up a lot on events / parties and what to expect . One good piece of advice I took from my reading was - not everyone you speak to will want to take the chat further by engaging in play . It’s okay just to chat and move on . I’m sure you will have no problems . You seem confident , friendly, approachable ( all positives) and you know what you want. All that will see you in good stead . Have fun !

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  nightingale8

  5 years ago

  This is the very reason I have steered away from going on my own. You rock! I’d suggest try striking up a conversation with the female half first. Can’t think of a way to frame it that doesn’t sound sexist (lol) but it just makes intuitive sense to me. A friendly smile, “hi I’m X” and awayyy you go.

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  The other thing I forgot to say was that you shouldn’t over think it and approach them without any expectations. In any of those clubs or situations either party/parties are not expected to do anything unless you are all on the same page. I can walk around a meet and greet without my hubby by my side and introduce myself to people, but I have no expectations with anyone I meet that I want to jump their bones. Anyway, you go girl and enjoy 😉

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Oh, to be young and female ;D

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  ExhibitionistEve

  4 years ago

  Popping in to update, in case anyone in a similar boat is reading this. I tried rocking up with friends and strangers completely left me alone unless I made the first move, it was a whole new experience. Seems the attention level significantly decreases if you bring a man (I think people perceive you as a couple), but even with just a girlfriend around people were a bit more chilled in their approach. If there are any other solo ladies out there worried about being crowded at the club you should give this a try! Or maybe be sure to rock up solo if you do want lots of attention 😅 Also, I didn't try "I like lamp", but I did try "I'm Eve, wanna fuck me in the fishbowl?" and surprisingly it actually worked! 🎉

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  Awesome news Eve!! Glad it worked out for you 🎉

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  Laura98

  4 years ago

  This is fascinating, I've always had trouble socialising, but there's lots of solid advice here.

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