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How to have a decent and funny convo with ladies who you interested in without run out of things to say?
May 15 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Firstly, you should stop hitting ladies at parties. lol. Crazytiger, it is a funny thing. With some people you just have an instant rapport and don't stop talking all night and at other times trying to keep a conversation going with some people is like pulling teeth. Very difficult. You should ask questions that you can build a conversation on. A question that needs a full answer, not just yes or no answer. That way you can start up a conversation based on her answers. What do girls in thier early 20's do these days? Find out and ask questions about it. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' You should ask questions that you can build a conversation on. A question that needs a full answer, not just yes or no answer. That way you can start up a conversation based on her answers. geez meeks, have you ever considered a career in politics - you successfully gave an answer without answering the question at all I'd love to know too crazytiger. My smalltalk abilities are zero *resists bad programmer pun*
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RHP User
14 years ago
What do you mean? I answered the question Syd. Crazytiger asked for some tips and I gave him one. :) Jeez tough crowd. Although when you read the "First Meet" thread which states that nakedness is the best way to break the ice..... Syd may I suggest this strategy for you. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
meeks: I would want to know what do girls do in their early 20's do these day. I have not idea why it seem like me and the young girls have a gap,like a generation gap. I can very talkative with girls in their late 20's by late means 26 to 29.sydneyboy: If you think deeply what meeks said was right. Just a bit like a circle .(my bad, meeks)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Although when you read the "First Meet" thread which states that nakedness is the best way to break the ice..... Syd may I suggest this strategy for you. lol, so true - just go to an orgy crazytiger - nothing breaks the ice like a hand round the cock.. or a mouth (in which case it'd be poor form to conduct a conversation, what manner of lady would talk with her mouth full?)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ladies love a compliment - there's an awesome thread here which should be full of sample compliments, but unfortunately all it shows is men are only capable of 2 compliments "Nice Tits" and "Tight Pussy". . Men are really bad at remembering to compliment (I am guilty and willing to accept suitable punishment!) . So my suggestion is that whenever you run into an awkwardly silent gap, compliment the lady on something. This way you avoid 'forgetting', and you have some material to fill the gap. The only rules here are 1) Don't use the 2 standard compliments 2) Mean what you say 3) If you find you have had to run 5 compliments in a row and there is still awkward silence you should probably make the 6th one "Those are the most luscious lips" and kiss them. If you find yourself in this situation, you're clearly with a girl who doesn't converse well... so why keep trying. See if she's good at other things ;) . If all goes well, later that night you will be able to roll out the golden "Wow you have a Tight Pussy!" one :-D
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RHP User
14 years ago
This won't work all the time, nothing ever does...but maybe if you can get them to giggle first by saying something silly, then blush by saying something more direct you should be able to run with it from here. Here are a couple of examples... | Hey, nice shoes. Are they yours? *insert giggly "yes" answer. Just teasing...it's just something I have always noticed on a woman with beautiful legs. *insert blush* | Hey, that's a nice necklace. Is it yours? *insert giggly "yes" answer. Just teasing...but it really sets off the beautiful sparkle in your eyes. *insert blush* | So I think you get the idea, right...but here is a tip. Only do this once per hot chick that you are after or they might start to think you are accusing them of shopplifting...or have noticed the hang tag tucked in the back of the dress they intend to take back to the store after the party if they don't spill anything on it. Women's clothing stores call Monday the "I decided I don't like it and it doesn't fit" day. | If this doesn't work, then listen to what the lady says... | Quoting 'Meeka100'Firstly, you should stop hitting ladies at parties. | Although some hot chicks do like to wrestle so I guess you could just put one of them in a headlock and see how you go? Just be careful with that...a lot of them now are taking those ridiculous self defense courses and you could end up being a soprano. Just balance out the risk/reward potential... | ...and ask for a 2 out of 3 falls match.
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RHP User
14 years ago
just be yourself and ask them about themselves ...Be interested in what they have to say and LISTEN to what thye have to say it will always lead to another question and the conversation will just flow....... Dont be thinking about what can i say next whilst she or he whatever your pref is saying and it will always give you a question to follow on with or if your lucky an experience youv had to talk about something simular.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Ladies love a compliment - there's an awesome thread here which should be full of sample compliments, but unfortunately all it shows is men are only capable of 2 compliments "Nice Tits" and "Tight Pussy". . Men are really bad at remembering to compliment (I am guilty and willing to accept suitable punishment!) . So my suggestion is that whenever you run into an awkwardly silent gap, compliment the lady on something. This way you avoid 'forgetting', and you have some material to fill the gap. The only rules here are 1) Don't use the 2 standard compliments 2) Mean what you say 3) If you find you have had to run 5 compliments in a row and there is still awkward silence you should probably make the 6th one "Those are the most luscious lips" and kiss them. If you find yourself in this situation, you're clearly with a girl who doesn't converse well... so why keep trying. See if she's good at other things ;) . If all goes well, later that night you will be able to roll out the golden "Wow you have a Tight Pussy!" one :-D Damn it Jean. The two standard compliments seemed to work a treat back when I was dating. BUT.... I think you have to know just the right moment to spring them into circulation. Also, I think it pays to add a woooohhooo in there somewhere as well as a quick slap on the arse.... perhaps all at the same time. Young people these days. Sheesh... you just need some training on the delivery.HUgsS
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Young people these days. Sheesh... you just need some training on the delivery.HUgsSThe delivery's always the drama, that's why I reckon pubs should hand out sticky labels that you can put your mobile number on.... that way you can text each other a bit before you bother actually talking.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...if its early 20s you like tiger...go crazy!!...drop you pants 4 inches and boof your hair up. Or, be yourself and stick to the age group your comfy with, 26 to 29...Stick to the latter...you'll be fine...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'crazytiger2011' sydneyboy: If you think deeply what meeks said was right. Just a bit like a circle .(my bad, meeks) Naturally I was right. And Crazytiger maybe a few slaps on your arse will make you remember what to say to a lady. You are a very bad bad boy!! xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
By the way... don't listen to JG or Stalky they are both bad boys that are trying to lead you over to the dark side. The two standard compliment.... look who is talking huh !!!!! (Bad girl :P)xxxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
First you silly monkey (OP) lose the I want to talk mind set. So so wrong. You dont want to talk you dont need to talk. Nothing worse then some desperate single trying to hard. No one scores every night so just relax, be your self, dont try, please dont try, it such a turn of. So you walk into a pub. Why? To get a root?To have a good time?To get a root you have failed. Not a chance.To have a good time. Well now your odds are better.You dont have to come on strong to get a ladies attention, you can even just keep it at the "hi how ya doing." levelWe all love confident people. Personally I enjoy watching an interested lady squirm through the, "what can I say stage". So be the one that is desired. Be happy, have fun, dont get caught up on "what can I say stage". Im a dag, an ugly fool, old with a few KG over perfect, grey hair, receding. But what ever. Know that you are a gift. The sexy hungry want to have fun girls and guys will instantly see your confidence. Dont think dont care, its a hey. Or its just a shame you did not stay to find out more.So walk into a room as the one, most desired, proud. Your only here to have fun. Thus at best you go home and have had fun.Dont be a desperate loser begging for some.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Fuck me a serious response i must be getting soft - Wowwow I gotta say WOW! You must be getting soft! I've never seen you give a serious response before . Paternal instinct maybe. lolJG I love this solution! I reckon you've cracked it with this!The delivery's always the drama, that's why I reckon pubs should hand out sticky labels that you can put your mobile number on.... that way you can text each other a bit before you bother actually talking.
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RHP User
14 years ago
....beats conversation every time. But I must add, don't give her the choice to dance....just take her hand and lead her to the dance floor.You'll get at least one song in before she stay's or goes You do dance don't you? If not, you're doomed to a night of complimenting
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RHP User
14 years ago
My apologies...I just noticed your age and see that you are in that amazing "Gen Y" group. Much more progressive what with the gender blending the rules, so just go for it...forget compliments and dancing, just flop it out there for them to see and ask them if they want to buy you a drink. | Speed dating at it's finest.
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