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How to make the most out of being a unicorn

January 17 2023

Hello, I’ve been interested in exploring group play for over a year now, and have some limited experiences on club premises as a single female. Most of the conversations I’ve had with couples haven’t eventuated for multiple reasons - they flaked, I got the sign that one partner was driving it and the other wasn’t as keen, lack of alignment in interests and kinks and I’ve been contacted by a lot of single guys instead who didn’t get the memo. I would appreciate any tips you have on how I can best connect with people interested in group play or any advice on what you look for when finding another female to play with. Thanks

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deepestpurple

2 years ago

I reckon some couples/other unicorns will have good advice as not my area of expertise but I can speak to how to use this site efficiently and it sounds like you're already mostly doing it. If you're asking how to avoid having to deal with the idiots, the dreamers, the wankers, the pretenders and the fuckheads of this site then the answer is you can't. The trick is to limit the time you put into them by aggressively filtering them out early by doing the low key coffee meet to confirm the reality of what they present themselves as online and to gauge potential chemistry.

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Margo_Lover

2 years ago

My first thought is, put this info in your bio. ie that you're looking for couples to play with, and what interests/kinks you hope to engage in. Unfortunately there are a lot of fakes & flakes online, but if you check out validations, you'll weed them out pretty quickly. Of course, most guys won't bother reading your bio, but that's good, as you can ignore their messages, and not waste your time on them :) - Alex.

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FeistyFatty

2 years ago

Agree with above. Your profile is fairly scant so add some more content and don't be scared to be specific. It really does help sort the Wheat from the Chaff so to speak. And stick to your guns, sounds like you do anyway.... There really is no need to compromise on these sites. Have fun x

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nightingale8

2 years ago

Just curious, what’s wrong with single men for group play? Likewise for women. There are many types of ‘group’

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madotara69

2 years ago

It’s because you’re in Melbourne ‘so far away from here, so far you just can’t see the waters of love, there ain’t no waters of love down there’ Mado Mado Tara xx

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Mrs_Deep_Love

2 years ago

Don't rely on online, go to social meets.

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FeistyFatty

2 years ago

And just like that.... Poof, they're gone🤷

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badboyhere

2 years ago

She (or he) really was a fictitious being. They were not real

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fun2foryou

2 years ago

Lol again A.G

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