How to pick up guys.

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  wildcrazyloving

  4 years ago

  Try engaging in casual chit-chat, have a little joke to relax and invite them over. The person will prob want to know if it is bi play, so be sure to let them know.

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  Sawadee

  4 years ago

  Suppose the best way is to take a deep breath and just say what you have in mind . You have nothing to lose and plenty to gain as they say... Saying nothing = nothing...

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  Moxters

  4 years ago

  Best is for the female of the duo to engage with him alone for a start while the male part keeps busy with something else and then join the chat later

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  thepieguy

  4 years ago

  Youd be hard pressed to find a guy the didnt want to join in in a threesome.

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  badboyhere

  4 years ago

  Yeah can understand that nerves get in the way a bit. Also if there is a few on the beach you would feel there could be a very good chance of getting judged. Best way would be for the lady to just smile and say hi we will be over here and if you want to chat come and join us. If they don’t join you know where you stand. If they join you well the rest will be history - as they say

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  The_Antichrist

  4 years ago

  I suspect that at some point you and your partner were single ... and therefore faced the exact same potential as you do now... How did you negotiate the initial risk when you met??

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  nqbeaches

  4 years ago

  I’d definitely get the lady to approach him and exchange numbers and instigate a catch up again without hubby. Maybe flirt with him and advise of your interests after gaining his desire together with making him more confident

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  lookingrnd

  4 years ago

  We did it at a nude beach, he was a local we were out of towners so had nothing to loose, hubby approach him and started chatting about the weather and stuff then asked if any stuff goes on at the beach, the conversation progressed to swingers and then the Mrs came over and joined the chat, he was keen for some action right then and there but we invited him back to our room and went further there. Was one of the hottest threesomes we have had. So we suggest just go and talk to them and if they they are looking you will soon find out.

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  We have had a few encounters at the beach the guys will approach you and start a conversation and it usually flows on from there

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  ukexpat1981

  4 years ago

  If you arrive at a nudist beach and there is a couple there, how close is too close for putting your towel down near them.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  4 years ago

  Just ask.. No use beating about the bush. 😃

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  ElectricDreamers

  4 years ago

  I've found (Mrs) the best pick up line for a guy us simply 'Wow, you're really hot', I've never had to follow up from that one but if I did I guess I'd go for 'you know you're just my type, handsome, sexy insert more overt sexual compliments here'... And in your situation when they reply 'Really?' Or 'Thank you', you say 'I'm over there with my husband come join us if you like'. What have you got to lose?

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  kinkyukguy

  4 years ago

  It's not very secret anymore lots of people swing and have 3sums etc. Just try to engage in a friendly chat maybe kiss your partner in front of the other guy and the apologise for making him feel uncomfortable you will probably find he will so no it's fine don't worry and that's when you can lead into more sexual talk. I know this way as a couple did to me in fortitude valley lol

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