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How to start on redhotpie?
January 03 2018
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swingalingson
7 years ago
Is the question bud???
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Lookingforfun, is your kinda "fun" (as per prfile),looking at rapping "your" sex life? Is it all about you, is it? The ladies are not going to like that, not one bit. 😆 Here's a tip: How about starting off with, making it all about the ladies. 😉 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Agree with above ^^^ be specific about what you're looking for, what you have to offer and what type/age/personality/lover etc you're looking for, along with being clear about what type of meet/s you want, hookups, fwb, maybe open to more....honest is good but always good to be clear I think. And as much as I hate sounding like a broken record, vision, add lots of pictures. They not only give an overall idea of how you look, they help instil trust, for me anyway. Beyond that, maintain your profile, periodically adding/changing pictures, editing the written part as you change and gather experience along the way, mix it up, keeps it fresh. At least until a few years goes by, then you won't bother like me lol
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OkeyDoke45
7 years ago
So OP, after only a few comments you may or may not be learning about how things work here. Your topic is only 85 characters long, not including spaces, and yet someone has seen fit to take you to task for making a simple statement. Welcome, my friend, to lesson number one.
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Is just not worrying about little shit... Profile for example....it reads fine, not as arrogant as a previous comment has tried to paint you.... You seem pretty friendly, so ignore the superficial, run deep like Texan oil, and you’ll be off to a decent start - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
👌 Ms Foxy
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HotNightsGC
7 years ago
Complete, descriptive and well written profile. Good current pictures of yourself. Approach singles or couples in a respectful and interesting message. Make sure you read someone’s profile fully before messaging. Be prepared for a lot of non-responses go flirts and messages. Attend some parties or clubs in your area and meet some regulars in the scene. Put yourself out there and have fun! Good luck 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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mango69er
7 years ago
Its your profile. So make it about you. Let people know what your looking for, and wanting. It makes no sence at all making your profile all about others. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Zarabyfar
7 years ago
Why do people defer to the word 'fun'..... ....when they really mean 'sex' And are there people .... ......lookingforboredom ? 🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Seriously?? Leave the poor dude alone, let's all be somewhat constructive and welcoming...... it would be nice for a change 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
People are still people, in here and in the wide world outside of RHP where you've been living. Just being in here doesn't mean someone condones poor behaviour, or has different general preferences to what they expect beyond the site So, as an exercise, if this were a mainstream dating site, or, a real life face to face situation, how would you represent yourself then? Got an idea of how you'd do that? Do that. Because that's what someone who accepts to communicate with you and maybe agree to meet you, is expecting 👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
When i started on here i read the forums, lots of good info on what to do/say and what not to do/say, you have to stand out from the crowd, i think the ratio is 7 guys to every lady so they can pick and choose, thats why you have to capture their attention, look at other profiles, read theirs carefully, ive just got back into it after a 3 yr break due to a relationship so doing ground work again although it does help having past contacts to call on again and start networking, you'll get knocked down but keep going you'll find that recipe that works and treat everyone with respect and have fun, trust me some times you just dont have enough hrs in the day 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I agree you could add a bit to your profile, otherwise it’s totally fine. Don’t listen to the negatives. Seriously, does it. always have to be alllll about the women. Far out. So, yep. You have to start somewhere and RHP is a good place to start meeting open, fun flirty people... or so I have been lead to believe. What are you into or at least hoping to explore? My advice is attending the events will get you more hookups and great experiences than this online dating gig. But def worth trying. Good luck.
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Welcome. I would just start looking for profiles you like and match with and message away. Message as you would talk to someone in real life. Add something that indicates you have read their profile. Honestly it’s mostly in the message for me, plus if I find person attractive in some way. Maybe add a few more photos and ditch beer pic. Good luck 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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SydneySteve
7 years ago
I’ve read the other comments What do you all think of my name and has anybody read my profile I hate to sound selfish but I’ve had no luck at all on this site - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hey. Most women are guests as well so will not be able to message you. Friendly reality check - there are loads of male profiles on here so women don’t need to search profiles, they just wait for messages to hit their inbox and then they will probably only review the profiles with good pictures. So ATM, I’d say you have no chance at all if you are waiting for someone to contact you.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'Zarabyfar' Why do people defer to the word 'fun'..... ....when they really mean 'sex' And are there people .... ......lookingforboredom ? 🤔 This brought a smile to my face. There's a really funny talk about how people use plausible deniability. I'll see if I can find it for you.Social norms powerfully shape what we say. I am sure on here people find some clever ways to hint at things. Their preferences, or perhaps that people can find them on snapchat. :)
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'swingalingson' Is the question bud??? Looks like he's already started...
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