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How to train yourself to swallow
February 05 2014
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gazpacho
11 years ago
It's not always going to taste yummy. I mean, you are what you eat.. and in a guy's situation, fig he eats lots of asparagus or something.. his jizz is not going to be a delicious turkish delight... pull a sour face and spit that out... no problems. I have to laugh at men who smoke... their dick tastes like cigarettes! How weird is that! Spit that foul tasting dick out. Blow jobs are given for the sheer delight of giving them... if your particular lover tastes bad... just don't do it. You have no reason to suffer. One should never do something sexual that you do not actually enjoy doing, just to please someone else... that, I'm afraid, leads to a debt... you will feel your lover owes you something in return. Sex should never be about that. So... getting rid of that bad memory? Easy... sweeten up your lover... pineapple juice.. lots of water... nothing from the cabbage family.... none of those spicy meats... lots of oysters. Do you like oysters? Have a raw oyster... swish it around in your mouth for a while... wash it down with pineapple juice.... Find someone who tastes good... and share his jizz with a friend. that's always fun... touch jizz smeared tongues with a seminal fluid loving cocksucker and smear it on your tits. I know... Pussy... eat lots of pussy. gawd. I don't know. lol... I'm sure you'll get the hang of it... I'm sure by the sound of you that you already like to deep throat.... and frankly that means you're nearly there.... you love a cock in your face... so don't let one bad experience thwart your determined degeneration into a saucy masterful cock sucker, the envy of your friends. :) HugsGazpacho xxx
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gazpacho
11 years ago
smear it on your tits? really, your mind is telling you that it is dirty or something... but it's actually the essence of humanity. Beautiful, precious seminal fluid. Savour it. HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just put it as far down your throat as possible and suck it out. Let your throat tighten around it ... and if all else fails, pretend it's chocolate.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi there. You don't have to swallow. You could just play with it and let it run down your cheek :) and drip down on your tits. Very sexy indeed.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just gagged lol..... I don't know if your being serious or joking :{
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Quoting 'paint_me' Just put it as far down your throat as possible and suck it out. Let your throat tighten around it ... and if all else fails, pretend it's chocolate. mmmm A new range of chocolates with a cummy centre... Let's workshop it... We can touch tongues like they do with their tails on planet Avatar. :p HugsGazpacho
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Quoting 'surfsmurf' Hi there. You don't have to swallow. You could just play with it and let it run down your cheek :) and drip down on your tits. Very sexy indeed. Oh I know.... it's her avatar. Aren't they magnetic? How can we not mention them!! HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' smear it on your tits? really, your mind is telling you that it is dirty or something... but it's actually the essence of humanity. Beautiful, precious seminal fluid. Savour it. HugsGazpacho This is the best advice yet. Re-program your brain out of thinking it's something gross or dirty. It's so good for your skin too. Rub it all over you and let it soak right in, think of it like being at a day spa :P If you can swallow medicine or pills, you can swallow anything. It's all in your mind.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's something that I actually really want to do, something that I've seen other women do and I'm envious...... More than that, I love gig go head jobs, it literally is sex in a stick and I hate when I'm really into things that I have to pull away............. Gaz, thank you for the suggestion of food groups and I do like that idea of sharing 'the load' so to speak, I know a girl I could really surround a guy with........ Bit yikes about the tastes varying so much, but I guess that only makes sense (you are what you eat)..... Any more suggestions, keep them coming (yes, yes, all pun intended)
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Taby_DK
11 years ago
Bigmamma1 I'm with you! I can not stand swallowing and in the past when a guy came in my mouth I had to make a mad dash for the bathroom to throw up. Now that I'm with Mr he understands my aversion to cum in my mouth and knows that I don't swallow and so he tries to accommodate me and give me plenty of warning when I am giving him oral, but accidents do happen and sometimes Mr comes a little bit before the main event. Again this makes me to run to the nearest place I spit and rinse my mouth out! lol Similarly I can not watch porn where the girl swallows cum or holds in in her mouth as it turns me right off. I know some girls love cum and swallowing but I am not one of these girls nor will I ever be. Unless you really want to do it and it really turns you on don't do it and don't fell obligated to do it for a guy. If it makes you physically sick and turns you off sex what's the point of forcing yourself to do it just to please someone else? Taby xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'CravingTouch' Quoting 'gazpacho51' smear it on your tits? really, your mind is telling you that it is dirty or something... but it's actually the essence of humanity. Beautiful, precious seminal fluid. Savour it. HugsGazpacho This is the best advice yet. Re-program your brain out of thinking it's something gross or dirty. It's so good for your skin too. Rub it all over you and let it soak right in, think of it like being at a day spa :P Now I have Liz Phair's song"HWC" in my head
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with you, however for me I've actually never done it since my first time, mine is more mental rather than physical aversion....... I, myself and me want this as a continuation of what I enjoy..... If I'm not successful then so be it, but I would prefer to have a choice rather than a memory.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Crazy as it is, I'm a bukakke freak, I love the feel of cum on me
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's such a treat to have you back :) Refreshing bluntness. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
In all honesty....I've never let someone swallow it.... My previous relationships irrespective of definition, haven't indicated they wanted to. Given that not all women swallow, I assume they don't and I don't allow myself to cum in there mouth. Simple ain't it?? To me, men that use the excuse they didn't know they were about to cum is bullshit....it's an excuse to achieve their desire without asking. It also shows a lack of self control. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The trick for me is just do it quickly, straight away and soon as it's in your mouth. In the past if gag and be grossed out, warm/salty yucky! Now though with someone I'm really into its a turn on... I also have a drink handy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
WT? We aren't talking about that. Besides unless a guy is a premature ejaculator a suckee can usually tell when they are about to come, or at least when they are getting close. ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oops. Or did I mean the sucker? Yep I meant the sucker.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
How to train your dragon lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Well, the next time you get some on those ta~tas! just give 'em a lick.... And say to yourself out loud.... "Mmmmm Tastes like chicken!". After 27 repeats, you'll never fear the taste of ejaculate again because you'll be too busy pulling that cute "I just cracked a Gaz joke" face. :) Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm curious to find out what it is exactly that you are adverse to. Is it the taste? The feeling of it hitting the inside of your mouth? The viscosity or temperature of the sperm? Maybe if you were to break it down and work on the specific issue? (Or if it's more than one, work on them separately.) For example, if it's the feeling of cum hitting your throat, you could practice with a squirt bottle.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Omg i thought you were perfect Miss Taby until i read your post ;-) 99 out of a 100 is still pretty good. Mr B
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm glad you put this up big mammma 1 as I always thought I was slack ( even so hubby said I wasn't ) because I wouldn't or couldn't I had a bad experience when I was younger and I haven't been able to bring myself to do since , its not the taste it's the feeling of it and the thought of it and hubby says if you don't like it don't do it - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I just do it... can't explain it - it just happens. It sounds like your reflexes are preventing your from choking? It's a natural reflex. Either that or the men you're with have bloody huge dicks. Have a toilet roll near by to measure up, prior to putting in you mouth. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am always very considerate with getting head, I ask the girl where she wants it. then its her choice.Also Diet has a lot to do with it..I have had girls that don't swallow get half way to the bathroom to spit it and end up swallowing, come back saying that's Sweet..I drink a lot of juice in particular Pineapple. the expression on a check out chicks face is priceless when you put 6L through.I don't drink beer as the yeast makes it sour.other bads are garlic, onion, asparagus and the like. Best way, if your meeting someone and want them to taste and enjoy you, be considerate, start a fresh load and watch what you eat and drink 2 to 3 days prior.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you for introducing that song into my life. Gimme your HWC. I am going to have to sing that to someone someday ;)
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gazpacho
11 years ago
It's really cute... The comments, I mean. Such brave ladies facing your demons! Hugs Gazpacho
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Your husband is spot on. If you're not having fun, why do it? It's meant to be fun. Bigmamma1 is setting herself a challenge for the self empowerment. I get that! It's a really great feeling having so much control over a person that you can make them cum. Hugs Gazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Bigmamma1' I just gagged lol..... I don't know if your being serious or joking :{ but not about the chocolate bit.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I too had this bad experience of my ex coming unexpectedly and it chokiing me, after that I just couldnt, I would hold it in my mouth in a very unsexy prepared state when he came and then uncerimoniously go to the toilet and spit. Only after we split did I do things differently I had never let him cum on me as I was put off by the way it was done in porn....with new friends a good way to avoid the cum was to have them cum on my tits arse whatever and wow another phobia beat. It became sexy. I usually dont have an issue with swallowing but it does depend on the man and there has been the odd occassion where it was very unpleasant. I say you have to overcome the mental part which is the hardest to do. As has been said diet plays an important part.
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erotictouch4u
11 years ago
One way to overcome a phobia, like snakes or spiders, is to be exposed a little bit at a time, becoming more and more with each exposure, so appply this technique to swallowing. You love bukakke so it is not the cum which is the problem, just the taste or texture of it. As Gaz suggests, try licking a little off those gorgeous ta-ta's each time untill you get to a stage of cleaning them spotless with your tongue and are hungry for more. Then you can try your first mouthful, making sure your lover has had his fair share of pineapple juice for the week before. Follow this and soon you'll have a whole football team lined up and you won't be spilling a drop anywhere Or there is always the "dive right in" technique where you just get the whole football team first off and take them all "down the hatch" until you are over that fear. ET xox
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RHP User
11 years ago
I know :) Just my advertisement :). Given that the OP wants to train herself to do something she doesn't really like, I'm just putting it out there that not all men want a woman to swallow it.... And.... Saying that "he accidentally/unexpectedly came in my mouth" indicates that not ALL suckERS know when the suckEE is about to come.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Coconut water...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd also like to ask as a matter of curiosity, as to why it is you wish to "learn" how to swallow?? Is it because you feel pressured by a lover ?? Is it because you wish to do this for a lover to make you a "better lover" in your own mind?? Is it because you think that that's what you should be doing?? Or is it because you wish to try to "right" a bad experience?? I ask these questions knowing full well that people in general don't make a decision to do something without there being a deeper underlying motivation, especially given your original post stating that you swore to "never again" engage in it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Pineapple juice, coconut water, next thing I know Malibu rum will be added and it's party time, I'll be so drunk I won't have any brain function to stop myself...... Eagerto gue4u, i do like your logic, along with gaz, it actually seems like an easier way to go about it, that way until I get over that barrier I can build......
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RHP User
11 years ago
Best to ease yourself into it.. just imagine its warm tangy yoghurt and its good for you..
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RHP User
11 years ago
(Sorry about name, won't let me write it together)...... I have over the postings answered this, however I will do it again just for you........ To start with, I love to give head jobs, I think of it as sex on a stick, I also 'love' having guys cum on me............. I personally feel I would enjoy the process of not having to take my mouth away at that last moment, be it pride in a job well done, a feeling of completeness, who knows....... I do know that I'm past caring what others want me to do and it not so much for their experience, as for mine...... However, I can be a bit selfish in that I really want to see the guy have that totality, mmmmmm that in itself is a turn on...................... I feel that in my first attempt, innocents and not really understanding the outcome led to the aversion and reaction, not so much the taste! and in my lovely time of sexual exploration, I want to have an opportunity to find this out.............. Who knows, it might be like me and carrots, love eating them, can't drink carrot juice for the life of me :). Hope that answers it....... Enjoy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Never swore, just thought I'd never try..... I was 16 lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I saw a gorgeous guy come once without any forewarning, and much to his own surprise. Unfortunately his boyfriend copped it right in the eye. :-(
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RHP User
11 years ago
While I accept what you're saying....but.... I believe it shows a distinct lack of self awareness, control and discipline. How can you not know you're getting close??? Unless of course if you're in a state psychosis?? And I say that with all due respect. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
wank your man off just before he blows n cover your face in it. That just solves everything ladies!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
Usually I feel a sneeze coming on, but every now and then one catches me completely off guard.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I reckon you can train yourself, mind over matter. I learnt to relax the gag reflex so I can deep throat most cocks :) it makes me happy. If it's far enough back at the crucial moment, there's no swallowing involved; it just shoots down your throat. Hey presto, nothing to swallow, nothing to taste, happy days!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is a reflex is it not?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'travelingstud' I am always very considerate with getting head, I ask the girl where she wants it. then its her choice.Also Diet has a lot to do with it..I have had girls that don't swallow get half way to the bathroom to spit it and end up swallowing, come back saying that's Sweet..I drink a lot of juice in particular Pineapple. the expression on a check out chicks face is priceless when you put 6L through.I don't drink beer as the yeast makes it sour.other bads are garlic, onion, asparagus and the like. Best way, if your meeting someone and want them to taste and enjoy you, be considerate, start a fresh load and watch what you eat and drink 2 to 3 days prior. SWEET! Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is that true....... I have taught myself how to deep throat, that's a good one to keep in mind 'for later'. Only that I've I need to get over the first reaction first..... Thanks for that
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I agree with Simpleplesures...it really is a mind over matter. It is true! I hated giving BJ's years ago. I just wouldn't go there! I used to gag and regurgitate every time, like no tomorrow - hated cum, disliked the sight of it! It was like that feeling of going to the doctors and them sticking that stick into your mouth to look at tonsils. Sliding it right at the back of your throat and then saying "AHHHHHHHHHHH" I had to train my brain into thinking good thoughts. I will happen for you...practice makes perfect!! And now I don't think, just do. I love it.... Foxy
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smo669
11 years ago
Maybe it's an acquired taste for some? I acquired the taste for cum the first time I had a cock cum in my mouth and I've never looked back, it's yummy, even better licked from a wet pussy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Taste disgusting What shits me is men that say they don't smoke. They may shower and cover up with aftershave . Mostly I can smell that they smoke any way. But got caught a couple of times as soon as I tasted the guys cum it was horrid. So never went there again. There is also the risk off Std in your throat , the risk we all take in this lifestyle choice
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi Big mamma Being Bi I've had the pleasures of both giving and receiving, as Others have noted We are what we eat.So I recommend strawberries sweet is sweet and please take that as confirmed.hopping you get your desires satisfied. R.
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gazpacho
11 years ago
The drinks are not for you, silly! :p Now be a good girl and start your training this weekend! By the time the Olympics are over, you're going to be a gold medal guzzler! :p Hugs Gazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
If a woman learns to deep throat really well, the guy can cum straight down her throat into her stomach without having to swallow and she won't taste the dessert. Best position to do it is with the lady lying on her back with her head leaning right back over the edge of the bed -- makes for a straight passageway deep into her throat. For your deep throating technique, practise daily on bananas until you can control the gagging reflex.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I believe I swallowed, I know funny way to put it! I wasn't even thinking, just enjoying the moment and (yes again) without any warning to me, he came, however I think I was seriously into the zone of things and held it......... So then I concentrated on it being in my mouth and what it tasted and felt like............ Sweet, not slimy (I always thought it was) and then I swallowed, it was fine............. Then about 40 minutes later it flashed through my mind and of all things, I started gagging lol, damn the mind can really play tricks in you :). Well, here's to hoping that next time will be as simple.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Masturbation is the key! Masturbate furiously, constantly, over the thought of swallowing a massive charge from someone you adore, keep your mind on focus. Desire it, hunger for it, BEG for it inside your fantasy! Think about it with lust. Two weeks of ONLY this, twice a day, and you will literally gag FOR it. Doing this uses the chemical oxytocin to cement and reinforce the desired connection in your brain, by using your mind. 60% of the time, it works EVERY time. 28 orgasms and counting... I really should masturbate over saving money more often... RA
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RHP User
11 years ago
I REALLY like your idea, I can see myself getting into that one with a vengeance.......... Therapeutic Masturbation, how to change a negative to a positive............ I wonder if I can get a buzz with a horn tooting with this theory lol........ Starting today I am going to be the Pavlovs Dog of Sex Therapy....... :)
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Quoting 'RandomAgent' Masturbation is the key! Masturbate furiously, constantly, over the thought of swallowing a massive charge from someone you adore, keep your mind on focus. Desire it, hunger for it, BEG for it inside your fantasy! Think about it with lust. Two weeks of ONLY this, twice a day, and you will literally gag FOR it. Doing this uses the chemical oxytocin to cement and reinforce the desired connection in your brain, by using your mind. 60% of the time, it works EVERY time. 28 orgasms and counting... I really should masturbate over saving money more often... RA
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Quoting 'Bigmamma1' I REALLY like your idea, I can see myself getting into that one with a vengeance.......... Therapeutic Masturbation, how to change a negative to a positive............ I wonder if I can get a buzz with a horn tooting with this theory lol........ Starting today I am going to be the Pavlovs Dog of Sex Therapy....... :) Random is onto something good and I want it too!Forget pavlov's dog. Get a team of lads around to spray their funky junk all over a pavlover. (well, how do you think it got it's name?) Smear it in.. you know you want to get wet and messy. btw... congrats on the swallow. You'll be gargling in it in no time. Good girl! HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
BigMamma will be a snowballer in no time.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That I'm thanking everyone for helping me in my quest to swallow :O- just to beautiful
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RHP User
11 years ago
The best way really is for the bloke to hold your nose about 30 seconds before he is about to come.
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RHP User
11 years ago
While stroking your neck :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was waiting for the winking smile to appear but it didn't, so I assume your not pulling the other one here. I know about holding nose as a reducing taste, however 30 seconds before I can't work out 'why'?
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
The ipad didn't show the wonky face and so sad to think you got me on that one....... But thank you for the tongue poke, can think of a few places that one can go.... Mwah
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RHP User
11 years ago
Apart from the holier than thou guys who claim they "always consider if the girl actually wants to or not" .... most guys are blown away ( pardon the pun) IF a girl actually does swallow. To think she had taken something of yours that only comes from an intimate moment, is amazing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can handle the taste, even when my husband eats shitty food and drinks too much whiskey. But what I can't handle is the way that my tongue and throat go all fuzzy and tingly from it. Washing it down with a mouthful of water helps. But does anyone know of any other suggestions? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
For deep throat....find a piece of string....hemp is best and not too thick....attach a piece of meat...a small cube of beef for preference ..to the end of the string...now dangle the beef on the string down your throat and gargle....practice makes perfect and in no time you will be a cock sucker extraordinaire xx Q
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