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Howdy all!

December 16 2013

Just popping in to say g'day to everyone. I have been around for a few months now I suppose, just looking around the place and seeing what RHP has to offer. Limited time in the chat rooms and a little bit of scrolling through the forums... Finally decided to take the plunge! Seems like a pretty decent group of people on here in the forums at least, but just haven't really found that same experience through profile messages etc. Im not sure if anyone else has noticed, but there seems to be ALOT more blokes floating around this place than women... ??? :-P Haha.. Anyways, just wanting to say g'day and I will try and out some input into the forums a bit now; rather than floating through and reading about everyone else's thoughts! While I'm here though... any suggestions on profile improvements? I have tried to be as honest as possible... but not sure if that is working against me or not, haha! See you all around the place!!! :)

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It takes times but I don't see you having any problems attracting partners with your profile. Making comments and starting topics in the forums will help. Maybe go to a meet and greet as well. There are a few coming up for Christmas. Best of luck SF

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks SF.. I will just stick at it then :) Will try and spend a bit more time on the forums; not a huge fan of the layout of them but I'm slowly coming around!! Meet & Greets are a new one however; I have seen a few events etc however most (if not, all) ask for women and couples only. Completely understand due to the huge number of single fella's on here but is still a bit annoying. I will keep my eye on the events page for any M&G's that pop up when I am in town... Thanks for the feedback.. best of luck to you too!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Your profile should be an advertisement.... Not your memoirs.... :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Justsomefun87' Im not sure if anyone else has noticed, but there seems to be ALOT more blokes floating around this place than women... ??? :-P Haha.. You don't say? .Welcome and good luck! I like your profile, they can never be too long for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Justsomefun87' Thanks SF.. I will just stick at it then :) Meet & Greets are a new one however; I have seen a few events etc however most (if not, all) ask for women and couples only. Completely understand due to the huge number of single fella's on here but is still a bit annoying. I will keep my eye on the events page for any M&G's that pop up when I am in town... Thanks for the feedback.. best of luck to you too!The meet & greets in public venues like the Raffles Hotel (x2 events this Friday) and other places like the Empire Bar are not gender, age or single/couple specific. If you can go to the venue legally you can attend a Meet & Greet there. They are not, for want of a better word "sex parties". Just read the event section that describes who is suitable to attend. Good luck SF

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The lady you're with rattled on about her being newly separated/out of a relationship/whatever... Is that honestly attractive??? I've been slapped for it in the past, so why would you put in your profile?? It screams bad, bad, bad....and doesn't say enough about who you are.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Stir_it_alot' The lady you're with rattled on about her being newly separated/out of a relationship/whatever... Is that honestly attractive??? I've been slapped for it in the past, so why would you put in your profile?? It screams bad, bad, bad....and doesn't say enough about who you are.... - Posted from rhpmobile Rightio then, so maybe I should change it around a little bit... Maybe include in there that I am actually looking for a long term relationship. Throw in a few cheesy one liners about missing the loving feeling that a relationship gives? Surely that is 10x times better than the truth wouldn't you say!? Should I mention by 12" cock while I'm at it?? Personally I prefer the honest approach.. and if I am meeting a lady and she is only catching up with me because I happened to leave out the last 5+ years of my life then i don't want to be sitting at that table anyway. It personally wouldn't bother me, I like honesty; where would we be without it?? All good though - luckily I am on here to meet women; and so far I have only had positive comments about it (including through private message) ... If I change my mind and decide to go for dudes I will take you comments under advisement Stir...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You asked for some profile feedback, and I've given it before to other people on here who've taken it onboard constructively, of course, I've been tactful and honest with my comments. After having read through the comments on here and what stiritalot has said, I agree to an extent but isn't it better to be up front and honest right from the start, therefore, saving a lot of explaining later on if it leads to something more than sex......To your profile: I would have to say that mentioning how good your tongue is and the fact that you're waxed isn't really going to sell you, as I've this line used in so many other profiles on this site. Women will be sold on your profile by so much more than that. My advice would be, instead of trying to sound like you're a great catch, say a little bit about women, how you love certain things about them, what turns you on in them, and what type of woman you're hoping to attract on here. I think that sounds better than talking about yourself throughout your whole profile.That's just what I think anyway :) Feel free to constructively criticise mine if you like :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That definitely makes sense to me... I agree about the honesty part ; hence my response to stir. Definitely better than avoiding the truth or lieing in my honest opinion. Will Def take on board the second part of your critisicm... It actually makes quite a lot of sense! Haha... I will definitely make some changes there... Thanks!! :-)

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    I am not a fan of overly long profiles but I found yours easy to read and it wasn't to long. you certainly sound articulate. Sure you will generate some responses for the Perth ladies. good luck and welcome

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    so what size is your cock???? JUST KIDDING!

  • HereToPlease77

    HereToPlease77

    11 years ago

    Spell check! But apart from that, one of the best profiles I have read. Good luck!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I had no idea you were only after people to comment on how good your profile is..... :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Not at all stir, I welcome and appreciate all feedback; however surely I reserve the right to respond? If I thought your comments had merit then I would take them on board... But I don't... Sooooo.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Well Missb... What fun would that be? Can't be giving away ALL my secrets so early in the peice... 😋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sooooo.... In other words, it's only criticism that YOU believe that has merit?? Why then ask?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's not like he's banging on about his marriage, why they split, and any gory details. That would be offputting, yes. But he's just mentioning it, and I think it is relevant and good information to give up front to prospectives. Good luck OP.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    There's a saying I have... I don't care about your past as I wasn't involved. I only care about being part of your future. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Stir_it_alot' Sooooo.... In other words, it's only criticism that YOU believe that has merit?? Why then ask?? - Posted from rhpmobile Do you really need to ask this? Of course I need to think the criticism has merit... otherwise I might as well get some half-wit monkey to write my profile for me. There have been a few comments on here as to how I can change my profile and I have taken them on board... there have also been a few comments saying that my profile is quite good and should do well... I appreciate all of these.Something that is called 'constructive'. ...then there's you. If I thought your criticism was well founded then I would take it seriously; but I am not removing everything in my profile that mentions my previous marriage just to appease some middle aged guy on the other side of the continent who clearly prefers to avoid the truth to increase his chances here. End of story.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Well said in your Looking For part......If you really do live up to everything you've said about yourself, you will grab quite a few ladies in Perth's attention, that's for sure, that's if they have time to read it all as it is quite long, but a good read. I can see what Stiritalot means, however, it's your business as to what you want to put on your profile. I think he meant to give you constructive criticisim, or maybe he just has a huge problem with talking about his past????? hmmm. Can see what he means though. Usually in the process of getting to know a person it's wise to divulge all of the personal details regarding separation, divorce, kids, etc, later on as u get to know each other. I admire those who have the courage to put it all out there right from the start, then I guess there's no awkward questions to answer later on is there......developing trust in the process of getting to know a person is a fragile thing......