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Humility,reservation,quietness,are these qualities
September 24 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
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him_and_me
10 years ago
I don't think that I'm drawn to any one set of character traits. I find different people attractive for different reasons. Character traits definitely do play a big role in my level of attraction though. As a general rule, I am more likely going to feel more comfortable with quieter, more reserved people as it fits my own personality a little better. That stands to reason as I'm much more of an introvert than extrovert (sorry if I spelt those wrong). However, I do have extroverted friends who are simply great to be around as they always are bright, bubbly and great at keeping a conversation flowing. It makes being with them fun and easy. Him. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
and I not equate them with lack of confidence. To me they show quiet confidence and acceptance and comfortable with one self. To me they are usual old souls and wise. Bold and beautiful can be very attractive to me, but can be exhausting and require a lot of from one
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RHP User
10 years ago
I quite like humility as long as it's not self effacing, reservation and quietness is ok too, I'm quiet happy to take the lead conversation wise. But if getting an answer or the conversation flowing is painfully difficult I get frustrated and would rather bail out.
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
particular qualities you nominate, I do not equate them at all as only to do with lack of confidence. To me, those qualities usually make me think of someone who had been brought up with plain, good 'ol fashioned manners, and know how to behave well in company. The "bold and the beautiful' just on those particular mannerisms, do not absolutely attract, as to me they are the ones that always have to try and hold everyone's attention, like the court jester, and often end up being seen as such. But if we were all the same... Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
Refreshingly intoxicating, extremely appealing & exudes confidence in such a way that their very presence commands attention.
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RHP User
10 years ago
In the words of Manuel,"Que?" XxQ
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
I hope some people do! Or I don't stand a chance in hell. (and the odds are stacked against me as it is).
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RHP User
10 years ago
I, myself, make a rather quiet, controlled, watchful & reserved first impression, so it makes for a very excruciatingly painful first date if we both sit there like sparring partners at half time... For this reason alone, I prefer confident, chatty men, who lack egotisim or arrogance...And if they have a good sense of humour, & get my own weird brand of hunour..Then I'm hooked... Hell..The poor guy will probably get an AVO out against me...(since when is sitting on his doorstep with my packed bags in tow a criminal offense..??? 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
In drawn to people who have a quiet strength about them. If they're just quiet and there's no sense of their power, I'm not so drawn. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta3' In the words of Manuel,"Que?" XxQ You are 98 !!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find the quieter less obvious ones are the more confident ones, as they feel they have nothing to prove . The louder more in your face ones are often all false bravado hiding insecurities . I do like confidence but not to the point of arrogance - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
In general I'm drawn to confident, quick-witted guys, but certainly not to the point of arrogance. I strongly value humility as well as self deprecation, and I want to be with someone who feels as comfortable with total silence as he feels talking. I would never think quiet, reserved guys lack confidence based solely on the characteristics you described. Brooding men can be oh so sexy! And to frogstew: I don't think you're meant to lick the frogs before you cook 'em.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I now have a stomache ache:-) ...hilarious xxQ
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Single_Guy4U
10 years ago
You appear to be describing my character, so will read with interest. (add integrity, honesty & bad sense of humour). Introverted personality does not generally attract the ladies but can't do too much about that. You are who you are. :) SG
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6exxy
10 years ago
Wry smile, intelligent , understanding, classy, confident comfortable in her own skin 💄
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RHP User
10 years ago
I much prefer bold and brazen, a little bit of arrogance, someone who knows what they want and how to get it. If I had to put up with someone shy and reserved, then it would not work as I prefer my man to take the lead. I find it frustrating waiting for people to say what they mean. Attractiveness comes with the attitude, if they can't wear that well, then they are not likely to appeal to me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Respectful of others, Comfortable in who I am, Aware of my own limitations and Thankful for friends support. Being witty is oft the defense of my own confidence, being reserved a sign of my trepidation and reservation a sign of good manners. Short and sweet.. That's me lol..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Give me a naturally cute woman who is comfortable with them self and don't take them self too serious... thats where you'll find me. Over zealous in your face females have never done it for me.. Me, Im use to dealing with all types in my private life so Im not shy, but never the loud mouth.. When I see that in others it reminds me how much I dislike it..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' I much prefer bold and brazen, a little bit of arrogance, Validation at last!OP, I don't equate these traits with lack of confidence but I a generally attracted to the person laughing out loud rather than on the inside, especially if they are laughing at me.
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Circe
10 years ago
I'm a pretty outgoing person and I can get along with most people. Some shy and reserved people are interesting and have something to say and I'm happy spending the time getting to know them. Not all though, some shy and reserved people ARE boring, they're just hard work. It's like loud, confident people- they're not all arrogant and boastful, some are interesting and some are boring...
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Chaucer
10 years ago
I tend to be introverted and reserved in public, and at the last meet & greet it meant that people decided I was quiet & trustworthy, so the girls pilled up the handbags all around me like presents around a Christmas tree? Is this a good thing? I don't know.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It depends if you got their phone numbers... For emergencies only of course:-) NO this is not a good thing,what were you thinking!hugs xxQ
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
.... middle of the road thanks. If theyre to quiet ill lose interest. I like a flickering flame. Yet to loud ill want to cringe...now how about short black skirts heels and champaign then hot & dirty - oh dear ! 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'JerseyGirl' I hope some people do! Or I don't stand a chance in hell. (and the odds are stacked against me as it is). Not at all. You exude quiet confidence , intelligence, kindness and sensitivity in your posts. I am drawn to people like yourself rather than the brash self-importance ones. I'm not loud in a social setting, but am chatty and I like a good laugh and very open. I also like to say hello to the more quiet ones in the meet and greets or other social gatherings as am more into inclusion rather into exclusion. Big hugs. X
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Chaucer' I tend to be introverted and reserved in public, and at the last meet & greet it meant that people decided I was quiet & trustworthy, so the girls pilled up the handbags all around me like presents around a Christmas tree? Is this a good thing? I don't know. You made me laugh.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'SpanglishFun' I, myself, make a rather quiet, controlled, watchful & reserved first impression, so it makes for a very excruciatingly painful first date if we both sit there like sparring partners at half time... For this reason alone, I prefer confident, chatty men, who lack egotisim or arrogance...And if they have a good sense of humour, & get my own weird brand of hunour..Then I'm hooked... Hell..The poor guy will probably get an AVO out against me...(since when is sitting on his doorstep with my packed bags in tow a criminal offense..??? 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile How are you? Hope you are OK and enjoying your break. Take care.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting '6exxy' Wry smile, intelligent , understanding, classy, confident comfortable in her own skin 💄 Yes to all. Amen.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' Give me a naturally cute woman who is comfortable with them self and don't take them self too serious... thats where you'll find me. Over zealous in your face females have never done it for me.. Me, Im use to dealing with all types in my private life so Im not shy, but never the loud mouth.. When I see that in others it reminds me how much I dislike it.. Check, check, check. Ok, I expect you to be hovering over my shoulder anytime....
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'SpanglishFun' I, myself, make a rather quiet, controlled, watchful & reserved first impression, so it makes for a very excruciatingly painful first date if we both sit there like sparring partners at half time... For this reason alone, I prefer confident, chatty men, who lack egotisim or arrogance...And if they have a good sense of humour, & get my own weird brand of hunour..Then I'm hooked... Hell..The poor guy will probably get an AVO out against me...(since when is sitting on his doorstep with my packed bags in tow a criminal offense..??? 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile How are you? Hope you are OK and enjoying your break. Take care. Spanglish was back with a couples profile?
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'JerseyGirl' Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'SpanglishFun' How are you? Hope you are OK and enjoying your break. Take care. Spanglish was back with a couples profile? Uh. I dont know. I just found she disappeared after reading some post here last week. I have been away with work so did not keep up to day with things. If she is, lucky lady. Lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Those that are more honest then most more appealing
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