I can't find a sex partner just because I use a wheelchair

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Will have issues as far as they don't want to look like they are taking advantage. I think you're best chance is to strike up a friendship then ask the question. But the idea of sex on wheels is strangely appealing;)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Will have issues as far as they don't want to look like they are taking advantage. I think you're best chance is to strike up a friendship then ask the question. But the idea of sex on wheels is strangely appealing;)

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  chevtrek

  11 years ago

  As above as I agree with funlover but its also a case of unusual situation. Patience is all I can suggest all good things come to those in the end.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  sometimes sees a guy on here who is in a wheel chair and he is paralysedshe is a nurse so it works ok for her as she knows what to do and what not to do.the guy is up front about it and its even part of his nickname on here.I think laws of attraction apply to people no matter what their circumstance.Though at the same time, yes people get a bit worried when it comes to disabilities. We all have them , just some not so obvious as a wheel chair.good luck, I am sure that nice smile will get them in

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  if you are looking for a relationship, a FWB situation or something more,is perhaps not the right place to find someone.You are a female guest and have one message per week so at least you can be a little proactive in your search....but most men here are looking for NSA ,nothing more.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  We feel for you hun but sadly I'm the same as no one wants to play with a true size 8/10 with B cup breast :(( I'm clearly doing something wrong here

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Dear HotwheelsThe problem is that many do not have much experience with disabilities and are stuck with an awkward situation in their minds. Naturally the instinct is to distance them selves. Do not blame them as they are flawed by no fault of their own.Strangle you are battling with their disability, a disability they are not even aware of. The disability of not accepting disability. In all honesty I would recommend that you remove from your profile the fact that you are in a wheelchair. I do not list what shoes I wear to walk, nor that car I need to get around with, that I need reading glasses, or that I am a deeply damaged psychological mess. There are some that will say this is wrong but I do not agree as elevating an issue as a point of contention does no one any good in the end.As I read from your profile you wish to get to know someone first, and I will guess that that will of course involve discourse via communication on RHP and similar sites. Let them learn your mind, as you learn theirs. Attract them with your desires, your lust, your love of sex. If all goes well and a meet or sensual liaison approaches maybe then mention your hot wheels (personally I would leave it till you meet, unless they ask. I would enjoy their surprise, I would learn a lot. But that's me I am a freak. ). Hopefully by this stage you have established attraction and they are ready to burn hot with you no mater your mode of transport.So feel free to get to know them, you are just one of us and if by chance they make an issue of your wheels, be glad and say goodbye after all how does that chair limit you from having hot hungry lustful lovely sex.None here are perfect, and seldom list their flaws. Why make an issues of something that does not matter at all.Best of luck and may your pussy be licked well...

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I'm in a Wheelchair too. Im not the guy, Lady T was talking about tho.   I think what it comes down to, is that many see us in a wheelchair and think we cant have sex (or the man cant get it up). We are still people and still have wants and needs, sure things my be a bit different for us but we can still have sex.   Blindman67, We shouldn't have to take it out of our profile. Its far better to be truthful and have someone who is still intrested even tho we are in a wheelchair, then to just arange for a meet and they see us and go "WTF? why didnt you tell me."   As for me Ive had 0 luck on this site, maybe because I'm brutally honest.   I do think getting to know someone and seeing where it goes is a good idea. I am myself intrested in a new friend of mine (7 weeks) and we are a very good match. I may be 38 and she may be 25 but hey she doesnt have a problem with dating a older guy. Ive just been getting to know her and let her get to know me. Soon I will have to put the hard word on her and hope for the best, if she says no oh well at least we can be friends.   OP dont give up, I know I havnt. It just takes a bit longer for us to find someone but at least we will know the person will like us for who we are.

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