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I had a discussion
April 08 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
It depends on the day Freya. They are two different experiences surely. I would think a lot of guys would prefer to play with two women too or with 6 foot blonde models. I don't think you can start thinking like that as you can't compare these things. May I be so bold as to speak up for men, which I know nothing about, that if they have feelings for a woman they would prefer to be with her. Most of the time. ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
You dont compete with an expereince. A man either wants you or he does not want you Like Meeka said he may want two women, one cat, your grandmother and doing it on a ferriswheel I know a guy he has tried relationships they dont work for him he loves swingers clubs, going as a single man He would have a relationship if he found a woman who was ok with that, but he is also conflicted as he is the only son in a traditional italian family and they cant work out why he is not married. I like to be my own experience , I never feel I have to compete with anyone but I am jealous of my husbands boat...I am sure he loves that bitch more than me
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know I'm not ready to commit myself to a relationship, its not fair to myself, or the other party, to pretend otherwise. For the first time in my life I am totally happy being single and playing the field as it were. As honest as you are with a single girl there is always a tendency to want more as time goes on and I don't want to be the one to break someones heart. Playing with couples in a MFM situation has no pressure as there is no hidden agenda other than having a fun time. I am not after the experience, have been there a few times now but i do enjoy being part of someone elses experience All that said and done I would like nothing more than to find a partner in crime, someone who i can experience new things with. Someones who's in the same frame of mind as me and wants to see what the world has to offer without neccessarily being tied down to each other, tied up on the other hand....
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Mr_MrsAraps
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' but I am jealous of my husbands boat...I am sure he loves that bitch more than me TR, But the boat doesn't boss him around or talks back ... lolIn all seriousness though to your question Freya I haven't been with a couple before but as a guy it also depends on what your looking for. If your after a relationship then a couple is not going to work however if its FWB/FB then a couple would sound like a fun option. Exclusively couples, I let others with more experience answer that one.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Speaking for myself here ,1 lady is more than enough for this bloke.and i am not judging ,people should be able to do what they want if consent is give by all parties Cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've never been with a couple (though I hope to one day if the right opportunity rolls up).... I love boats too! and my wife is jealous of our one for the same reason:-). However I can't see how a couple experience (or a boat for that matter) can ever come close to the intimacy possible between a man and a woman. It takes more concentration than I could ever muster, to really connect with more than one person at a time! That one-on-one is what gets me out of bed in the morning (and back in to it whenever I can)
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RHP User
12 years ago
That there shouldn't ever be the feeling the need to compete. Of any of the sexes or between the sexes. As a very close friend said to me just the other night "I was too busy lost in my bliss." And quite frankly I couldn't agree more :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Couples to me are merely an expansion of my target demographic. I want a relationship with a woman, but if I can't have that, then borrowing someone else's (especially with their consent and involvement :) is a nice side street on my journey. I find that couples are more likely to meet, with less ping pong messaging, they seem more decisive than single women. Maybe they feel physically safer ? hp xo
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are a bunch of things men might be interested in that would be deal-breakers for me, depending on his attitude to them. Whatever it is - anal, MMF, FFM, Dom/sub, couples etc etc, if I get the sense he's chasing the experience, the check on his checklist, the notch on his belt, then I know he's not for me. I'm looking for a man whose longing is for intimate, human connection at a deep, deep, loving level. For my kind of man, the other 'adventures' are intermission entertainment, not the main act. The main act is me, us and what we're capable of sharing with each other and creating together. I also find that the more the man is interested in me and us as a main act, the more trust builds, and the more probable the other adventures are. That's just me. It's no secret that I'm a one-man kind of girl, and I totally get that many on here aren't that way inclined. But I wonder if other women, or even men, share my thoughts and feelings on this.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Freya77 - In answer to you; Playing with a couple, (or a married lady) ; is safe in that while it may be a regular meeting, in that the commitment is not to you, so when you don't wan't a committed relationship or already have a primary one; It is ideal. In some ways the sex and relaxation can be great, or much better than great, because there is nothing else getting in the way emotionally. your making time just for adventure. and while together just totally focused on each other.And isn't that what swinging is all about?Cheers!Darren
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RHP User
12 years ago
Very interesting question OPFOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox' Very interesting question OPFOXY Whats with this mysterious lounge you ladies keep retreating to and how much darn popcorn can you lot eat lol,jsk
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RHP User
12 years ago
PMSL...It just means matching this thread as its very interesting....like watching a good movie on the lounge with popcorn and more popcorn-if its really good a glass of bubbly in the hand and other people jump in on the lounge...;-) FOXY
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