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I need to break the drought!

December 02 2014

Hi guys n girls.. this is my first post. So I have only had sex 4 times in the last 2 years.. none in the last 9 months. Due to working real hard. I went and found a young hottie off another dating site, thinking yeah younger ,no commitment, loves sex , I'm laid! But after 3 weeks lots of hot messages, even met .and wants to meet again.. No drought has been broken! Seriously Wtf? Do men really need to be friends first? Advice please - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Perhaps it's just the youth of today, but I don't get it. Yes, I'll meet first, security, safety etc, if she wants. (Most do, and that's fine, some don't and that's fine too.) But if you're clear you're hot to trot, remember some guys can be a bit slow on the uptake, it can quickly go from meet to more. If you sense reluctance on his part, move on! You may have noticed that there's about a billion guys for every girl here, so choose-meet & get busy or move on to the next. Don't waste your time. SS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If you think *all* blokes are just out to get laid, you're sadly mistaken. Some of us actually like to get to know someone before handing over our bodies....and sometimes we even *gasp* say no! Now to the advice...pretty simple really - if you ain't getting what you want, keep on lookin' until you do. You're welcome 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Some men still believe in the old values of courtship and its not a crime to think in this way. However for whatever resaons that he has not given you what you want in the sexual maner. Did you feel in anyway that he miss led you in his intentions or for some reason you do not appreciate his respect for you.

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    10 years ago

    All men are different some are more delicate than others, you can't just treat us like we are pieces of meat......no that's shit...I happy to be cheap and easy.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    This should be interesting........ and somewhat predictable lol

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    10 years ago

    Not all blokes want to treat all women as cum buckets. We're visual creatures, sure, but a bit of mental stimulation/connection makes the physical connection 10 times better. I've done both, and I know which one works better for me. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    10 years ago

    If I'd posted what you posted in reverse, and about how shit it is that girls on site aren't DTF after five minutes, I suspect I'd be publicly crucified, then sodomised and then both by the ladies/girls/women/wymmyn/ chicks/gals here. (Did I cover all the bases just then?) :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    10 years ago

    I'm not looking for NSA but that doesn't mean it will never happen. Maybe you just need to pin him down and take what you need! I'm just saying 😀

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    We are on RHP - right. Consider drought broken I would of thought.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' We are on RHP - right. Consider drought broken I would of thought. Hahahaha BYO Tequila

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If a man moves too fast he's libel to be told we don't fuck on a first date. ? If he takes notice and take's his time ' he's then asked what's wrong ? Grrrrrr... Please ladies'. Say what you mean and mean what you say. ?

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    If the girls can to it, then why can't the boys..... You just need to find one that will put out for you that's all, it's not like there's a shortage of men in here.....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    He's just not buying into your demands..... So let's work together and do it my way eh?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Maybe he's just not into you and is trying to be nice and let you down gently? Ask him

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    send him my way and I will hook you up with some DTF contacts asap. They will fuck, can't promise they will be any good at it though.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    so many profiles state that they do not do one night stands or casual one off hook ups ! But correct me if I'm wrong , on most occasions wouldn't it be the womans choice to see the man again !!?? There fore the womans decision more often than not ? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    By the looks of it, I'd say he's got her pretty fucked already lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    There is no simple answer, as we are all different.Perhaps all about how clear the signals and message you convey is, but remember not all men are 'players' or looking for simple conquests.Many of us find that sex is often better if we have some chemistry and know a bit about the person, there is a somewhat deeper connection and heightened satisfaction.Some of us like to tease a little as well, anticipation is a powerful aphrodisiac!Perhaps adjust your profile a little to clearly state what you are after, or alternatively, hop on the party scene, where you can still take control, set your own boundaries, and like a train especially as a single girl), hop on and off as it suits your busy schedule.perhaps you will even see and be intruigued by a few things you had never thought of and it does offer a range of possibilities.

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    10 years ago

    So True, Twisted Mister with your comments regarding reverse posting. You forgot being hung, drawn & quartered.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    He only covered the things he doesn't enjoy as punishment 🎯

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Dammed if we (do) Dammed if we dont(maybe) needs abit of encouragement!! Sure you can be subtle and seduce him lol xx

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    Twisted!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sounds like a male gigolo matches perfectly with all your criteria and expectations :-) I can't help with that :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Twisted_Mister' If I'd posted what you posted in reverse, and about how shit it is that girls on site aren't DTF after five minutes, I suspect I'd be publicly crucified, then sodomised and then both by the ladies/girls/women/wymmyn/ chicks/gals here. (Did I cover all the bases just then?) :) - Posted from rhpmobile As long as you enjoy all that crucifixion and sodomy we chicks/girls/women/the fairer sex/owner of DaPussy/ladies would be happy to accommodate your interests OP - my answer for you is the same as I give men/blokes/guys/owners of DaCock/gentlemen who ask the same question... - he is not that into you- he has other targets who are more interesting- you are his Plan B... or anywhere down to Plan Z- he is stringing you along and amusing all his mates with the messages he is getting from the old chick/cougar- his parents have grounded him for playing x-box all weekend and not doing the dishes It is ohhhh soooo easy for both sexes to say I want to see you again.... what they mean is I want to see you again before the end of time.... maybe. Move on. Find a better hottie to play with.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Come FUCK me now!With the exclamation mark and emphases on "fuck" and "now" there will be no ambiguity. The vast majority of people understand what that means. If the young guy just wants to be your friend its because there is something blocking his and your ability to effectively communicate your needs. If he really just wants to be your friend he is either gay, married/relationship, or a virgin, or lost his tackle during a fishing trip. Best then to move on. So goto a mirror and practice, say it one hundred time, then pick up the phone and call his number. Way to easy. Oh if you can not break the drought you are just not trying hard enough. If 47 year old blind deaf freaky locking fuckes can get some, then a 32 year old hungry for it woman should be be calling for order in the line. Try hard. its easy. Come Fuck me NOW!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It appears that he biggest issue is a lack of clarity on what either party is wanting. Whilst some are purely after NSA and fear the label that is unfairly attached, others want a lot more or even happy to take what they can get. Personally, sex is a fantastic thing and is an inherent part of being human, but when there is a personal connection can be so much more. Why label or judge those who know what/how/when/where or who the want to enjoy experiences with wether NSA or long term, so long as both/all parties are clear on the end outcome. Time for everyone to cut out the bullshit, be honest about their intentions and take the resulting acceptance or reflection in their stride and use it to grow. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You know like the shoe is on the other foot kinda thing. Anyway he made it clear in his profile NSA, so I'm fine with that. We have met a few times and had a nice kiss in the park. I have said several times "I'm hanging to Fuck you" and he says the same. He is really lovely and I'm wondering if he's not experienced , I don't want ask and make him uncomfortable. Or maybe he's a genius as he has me hooked. Lol. I will try harder this weekend. I've nothing against a guy who wants to wait.. I just thought u guys might have thought it was funny. Oh and I've sent a pic of my boobs in return for the big penis pic he sent me. That might do it LOL - Posted from rhpmobile

  • playfulpirate

    playfulpirate

    10 years ago

    Maybe some pictures and when you are available might help?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    He's not attached to someone else... is he?! As in..... opportunity to followthrough is limited to being unavailable

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    So he is holding back until he is certain the surprise and shock is not going to go down badly with you :-) Time to ask for some proof, or a quick feel lol Oh, I'm just trying to be funny too :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Jackys94

    Jackys94

    10 years ago

    i think he's just not considered the relationship with you as a one night stand and want to go further, and thus feel insecure when things run too quick. some are conservative and some afraid of getting STD or worse hiv from stranger. probably just being straight to him and say whatever on your mind is much better, otherwise, move on..i'm 20 aswell and admit i have no committment and love sex very much too but then again sometimes decision switch in a second when you feel insecure (not that i have any invitation to make decision yet, lol). So yeah he's might not be what you're looking for despite him being hot :)

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    10 years ago

    Now that you put it that way I can see it that lmao! Yep shoe on the other foot!!! Ha ha ha