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I wish there was a flirt
July 07 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
...you've got a nice pool... I don't see the problem... ? Do they message you saying that they've got people who are wanting to buy in your area ? Hp xo
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RHP User
11 years ago
but if it bothers you , just block them
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RHP User
11 years ago
You have 232 friends.....loland Im tempted to go back and look again because thats all I took in from that experiment.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But it doesn't bother me. I suppose there could be many reasons, I've seen quite a few on different threads over time. One that struck me in particular was about how, when scrolling through the search feature, it will often take you past the same profiles again and again. Cheers.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
If there was a tax on looking we'd all be beggars!!! It's called window shopping dear girl, get used to it. If they aren't contacting, flirting or messaging you inappropriately where's the harm? Neither party is interacting and how else are people supposed to decide if they want to approach you or not if they don't LOOK at you? Do you buy the first thing you see when you walk into a shop? Not being anal here but I like to look, look again, look to make sure it's well-made, look to see if it's a designer label, look to make sure I like it. Wander around again and look at other things, maybe wander back and look at it again. It's human nature. Block if you want but you could be missing out on a bargain that fulfils all you're looking for here. Up to you sweetpea.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Not a bad way to send the subliminal message to get people to check your profile lol Certainly more original than the methods most guys use in the forums ;-) DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Though I did send a message to a guy today who sent me his tenth flirt, requesting he please take no for an answer. And 232 friends? Makes me wonder a little how picky you are. But seriously, I'm curious. May I ask why you would choose to have that many? M**
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RHP User
11 years ago
we just looked! Twice! So ! lol. Anyway, you're paid up, and have plenty of messages a day - so send 'em one and tell them to *^$# off if you find it annoying.
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RHP User
11 years ago
we just looked! Twice! So ! lol. Anyway, you're paid up, and have plenty of messages a day - so send 'em one and tell them to *^$# off if you find it annoying.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well of course. How dare these miserable worms look at publicly available material voluntarily posted with the knowledge and the expectation that people will look at it? Next people will think they can watch television and read speed limit signs on the road! Bastards all of them.I think there should be a kind of explosive flirt that can be sent before someone tiresome joins RHP which blows up just before they sign up. Surely the scientists can devise something that works.I think the idea should spread - every day I read that one group or other have annoyed someone. Cull them all, I say, and then only the one or two perfect members could remain admiring themselves.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What is the harm in people looking at your profile? Is that not what you posted it on here for? Why does it bother you? Who keeps track of who's looked anyway? This is a genuine request as i just don't understand the reasoning behind this
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RHP User
11 years ago
Someone in a forum saying they got pissed off because (I'm paraphrasing): "What does he want? He needs to stop bothering me! I'm way out of his league, who the fuck does he think he is?" And this was about a guy who hadn't even contacted her. I think she had some issues...
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RHP User
11 years ago
They are hoping for a photo of you to be put up and just keep checking back.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' Someone in a forum saying they got pissed off because (I'm paraphrasing): "What does he want? He needs to stop bothering me! I'm way out of his league, who the fuck does he think he is?" And this was about a guy who hadn't even contacted her. I think she had some issues... I've been blocked by someone who I've never contacted... Maybe old Jimbo was onto something ? People are strange, When you're a stranger, Faces look ugly, When you're alone.... Hp xo
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Mr_MrsAraps
11 years ago
Yeah block them if they excessive flirt or send rude messages but if they are just looking then what's the harm. There are some great profile photos out there that I would like to look at more than once.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
There is a whole blank white box for that. It's called a message.If it's that bad just write one and say, "Hey! Fuck-off!" Works a treat.
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RHP User
11 years ago
... would you prefer, for people to look at your profile or NOT look at your profile. What is the harm in someone viewing it, does it dissolve after x number of views? Are you worried that they are secretly masturbating over it, or that they are having a quite chuckle over it? Sure, IF they start unwanted contact, block your blessed little heart out, but to be upset if someone views your profile more than you like, sounds a little precious to me. And no I haven't checked to see what makes your profile so special, hell I might get blocked for looking at it once!
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RHP User
11 years ago
it's the ones who click on your profile 30 to 50 times and never flirt or send a msg...are they wanking over the pool? lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised'Quoting 'Mesmerised' Though I did send a message to a guy today who sent me his tenth flirt, requesting he please take no for an answer. And 232 friends? Makes me wonder a little how picky you are. But seriously, I'm curious. May I ask why you would choose to have that many? M** that's what I normally do. I have been on here for close to 10 yrs so have met heaps of people at meets, events and in the chat rooms etc Does that mean I sleep with them??? no. The Perth community of RHP is pretty huge and friendly and has an awesome social set up.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Getting wound up over people looking repeatedly at your profile is counter productive. Why even look to see who's been looking at your profile ?? Is your own personal esteem and feeling sexy based upon how many views you get? I'm guessing not, as you seem pretty switched on, so don't let it bother you. :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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lovman8
11 years ago
I just had to look at your profile..............sorry .............but it is a nice pool !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'freogirl66'Having "friends" doesn't mean you fuck them that's what I normally do. I have been on here for close to 10 yrs so have met heaps of people at meets, events and in the chat rooms etc Does that mean I sleep with them??? no. The Perth community of RHP is pretty huge and friendly and has an awesome social set up. I never thought you had slept with any or all of them, nor did I mean to imply that. I haven't slept with all the people on my friends list either (dream on, Tuscan). I was just wondering about how picky you are when it comes to friends. I understand now that you've met the people on your list, so it makes sense to me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry about the formatting, RHP has some trouble understanding me sometimes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' Getting wound up over people looking repeatedly at your profile is counter productive. Why even look to see who's been looking at your profile ?? Is your own personal esteem and feeling sexy based upon how many views you get? I'm guessing not, as you seem pretty switched on, so don't let it bother you. :)- Posted from rhpmobileI smiled after my statement? wound up? I don't think so. I don't take very much in life seriously
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' Quoting 'freogirl66'Having "friends" doesn't mean you fuck them that's what I normally do. I have been on here for close to 10 yrs so have met heaps of people at meets, events and in the chat rooms etc Does that mean I sleep with them??? no. The Perth community of RHP is pretty huge and friendly and has an awesome social set up. I never thought you had slept with any or all of them, nor did I mean to imply that. I haven't slept with all the people on my friends list either (dream on, Tuscan). I was just wondering about how picky you are when it comes to friends. I understand now that you've met the people on your list, so it makes sense to me. and I would have a very sore vagina and a rash that never goes away lool
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RHP User
11 years ago
......and the problem is? I'm sorry but I don't understand why you would block someone for looking when you haven't met them or been treated badly by them, or never having received any distasteful, threatening or nasty messages from them. Looking at a profile is pretty harmless. I have several that check my profile out regularly. Take it as a compliment that someone is choosing to spend their time looking at your profile. I should start a thread and ask why is it so hard for some people to acknowledge or receive compliments? It's certainly better than being ignored IMO. SF xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
lol freo, maybe they are too shy to say hi I was the first time i met you at a meet and greet... i think you told me my profile name sounded like i was a serial killer or something hahahah
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BrightBubbly
11 years ago
I totally get where you are coming from.I have guys that look at my profile 2-3 times a day.There is obviously something that has caught there eye about me. my pic or my profile but they never drop a flirt or a message.Why bother looking if you aren't going to do anything.It makes me feel like I have got a peeping tom watching me !!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I get what you are saying honey! It's a tad "weird/stalkerish" when someone does that and it's usually the profiles that I will block, especially when they have no pics up themselves and are "guests"A " Go in stealth and tryout the "DO NOT LET MEMBERS KNOW IVE VIEWED THEIR PROFILE" may work for you numbnut!!!" Flirt might do the trick or a " you are about to be blocked in 5,4,3,2..." could as well..On an aside it urks me that people may judge you on fact you have so many "friends" on your friends list (not picky? WT???)As been said over and over and overrrrr in past topics it's for all sorts of reasons who is it for anyone to reason the why fors?As for what people actually say about themselves in topics? Well that can produce judgemental thoughts...Keep postig in here Freo, you are a breath of fresh air!! xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are my hero. If you notice me checking out your profile repeatedly, it's because I love your writing, not because I want to get my hands, mouth, or anus anywhere near your 8 metric inches (I prefer Indian or Thai lady-boys for that).Quoting 'kingoftheroad' Well of course. How dare these miserable worms look at publicly available material voluntarily posted with the knowledge and the expectation that people will look at it? Next people will think they can watch television and read speed limit signs on the road! Bastards all of them.I think there should be a kind of explosive flirt that can be sent before someone tiresome joins RHP which blows up just before they sign up. Surely the scientists can devise something that works.I think the idea should spread - every day I read that one group or other have annoyed someone. Cull them all, I say, and then only the one or two perfect members could remain admiring themselves.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have the perfect solution!!! If someone checking out your profile repeatedly, freaks you out or annoys........... you stop checking out who has checked you out! Yes, take the power into your own hands. What you don't know can't bother you!
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RHP User
11 years ago
it's a case of those turkeys ( and freo did say the profiles that look not once but continuous hit on your profile a ridiculous amount of times) fill up the " who has viewed you" page. Being the lazy arse that I am, I do not go in search of profiles I'd rather peruse the ones that have viewed us. So it's rather a pain ( white whine I know but hey , whatever floats your boat/ gets your goat up) to see that.some dick thinks " hey I'll just hit on there profile again and again and again and.... block...Freo you may be here for 20 years before rhp do a. flirt.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If my pictures are wank fodder then that's kinda cool. I like to think I make people happy even if I have no idea who they are. That's why I put the pics up that I do. I'm a happy exhibitionist. freogirl, you do have a very sexy pool.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' If my pictures are wank fodder then that's kinda cool. I like to think I make people happy even if I have no idea who they are. That's why I put the pics up that I do. I'm a happy exhibitionist. freogirl, you do have a very sexy pool. would u like to come for a swim ? :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are a premium member Freogirl... So... whats a guest to do when he knows that women hate flirts ? He hotlists the profiles that he likes, and when he's online and you log in he gets an alert, he then looks at your profile... hopeing that you will see him listed and think "oooh he's cute, and he looks at me a lot so he must be keen, I'll send him a message and see if I can put that19 inch whanger to good use..." Personally, I use the hotlist a lot, but it would seem to me that women don't ? Hp xo
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madotara69
11 years ago
I noticed that when using the mobile app, and looking at the forums, if you see a post in the stream and hit it, it opens the profile of who posted a comment. It can be avoided by going into the forums and selecting a topic, it has been a while since using the app, though I found it annoying to open someones profile if only interested in the comment posted, I may be or may have been part with annoying you. My apologies as my feelings/thoughts towards the people posting in the forums wander from what they write, it is not often my need to look at others profiles unless there has been the invitation, especially for the people who share the thoughts as a part of themselves, that I respect and have no wish for abusing the privilege. It is not the same if using the search people looking for people to find each other, just the forums or streams of any topics that are being followed in the app on the home page. On the desk top this does not happen.There is a lot of people navigating through the site, and if opening someones profile when reading a post does not bother them, maybe they enjoy reading your posts.Or some might just find you irresistible for whatever it may be.Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' Someone in a forum saying they got pissed off because (I'm paraphrasing): "What does he want? He needs to stop bothering me! I'm way out of his league, who the fuck does he think he is?" And this was about a guy who hadn't even contacted her. I think she had some issues...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'freogirl66' Quoting 'Mesmerised'Quoting 'Mesmerised' Though I did send a message to a guy today who sent me his tenth flirt, requesting he please take no for an answer. And 232 friends? Makes me wonder a little how picky you are. But seriously, I'm curious. May I ask why you would choose to have that many? M** that's what I normally do. I have been on here for close to 10 yrs so have met heaps of people at meets, events and in the chat rooms etc Does that mean I sleep with them??? no. The Perth community of RHP is pretty huge and friendly and has an awesome social set up. Hey Freo! Yes! I've met the very friendly & entertaining Freogirl & she's a Social Butterfly who likes to go out & meet people at various events & quite a few meet & greets! She is also a great hostess & her hubby is a great host & they have the perfect home for entertaining too! The pool & the outdoor area are great for entertaining guests. And being on this site for ten years explains the number of people she has met & chatted to.... Doesn't mean she has gotten down & dirty with all of them & "so what?" if she has anyway!?
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RHP User
11 years ago
they are profilers....
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RHP User
11 years ago
You could always think of it as window shopping for men. They may never actually even go into the shop, but sometimes it's nice just to browse lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
think you should be pleased people are lookng at your profile because there isnt alot in it really!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree, its a little pet peeve of mine too, some ppl look and look and look, could be over weeks/months, and they never contact you, so whats the point? If your not going to contact someone then stop deriving some sort of pleasure from their profile, obviously u like something about it, and if u r that indecisive about contacting someone, maybe this isnt the right place for u, we need more ppl of action!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Would you complain if nobody looked?
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custardapples
11 years ago
Quoting 'kingoftheroad' Well of course. How dare these miserable worms look at publicly available material voluntarily posted with the knowledge and the expectation that people will look at it? Next people will think they can watch television and read speed limit signs on the road! Bastards all of them.I think there should be a kind of explosive flirt that can be sent before someone tiresome joins RHP which blows up just before they sign up. Surely the scientists can devise something that works.I think the idea should spread - every day I read that one group or other have annoyed someone. Cull them all, I say, and then only the one or two perfect members could remain admiring themselves. We love your reply Kingoftheroad - hilarious!!! We have to agree. We don't have an issue with people looking - for goodness sake where is the harm in that. Continual flirts and messages when it has been made clear that we are not interested would be a different story of course. Sometimes more than one look may draw our attention to someone and so I guess if they are interested in us it might pay off.
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RHP User
11 years ago
..........when they do a search, maybe a saved search, they are just idly going 'next', 'next', 'next' And perhaps you are not being fixated on by someone who fancies your outdoor arrangement, but just a mouseclick on their search for 'lerv'. Or at least love to them...... And in the words of Oscar Wilde, slightly paraphrased, the only thing worse than being looked at, might be not being looked at....... Let 'em look. They do no harm. Mark
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just clicked on your profile 10 times....Just cause I can? :P :P :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yours is worth looking at.......
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '3s_a_party'I agree, its a little pet peeve of mine too, some ppl look and look and look, could be over weeks/months, and they never contact you, so whats the point? If your not going to contact someone then stop deriving some sort of pleasure from their profile, obviously u like something about it, and if u r that indecisive about contacting someone, maybe this isnt the right place for u, we need more ppl of action!!- Posted from rhpmobile sorry missed the quote lol
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chevtrek
11 years ago
One has to look to decide if he or she wants to know more or if you are a person they want to fool around with. Old saying look before you leap.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Does it matter that I don’t have an intelligent antidote for such a question, nor do I agree or disagree with the said statement. I only just want to see if it actually works, if people will start viewing me simply because I posted on a forum. I have no friends, but that’s because I choose not to. Assuming that people have had interrelations with all their friends, some have over 500 plus, would make for one busy life, and to assume I am not busy because I have none, once again, misled.
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Socsio
11 years ago
Id like a.flirt that says "your an idiot" To the flirtee's that send ......"your are hot what do you think of me.". and don't have photos, Or did everyone else get a crystal ball when the signed up? Mine must still be in the mail. Freo let them perve I say.....it is a nice pool, and pretty wank worthy. Xxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
if I get repeat flirts or messages, from people that I've already said 'thanks but no thanks ' to, and they still send them. No problem with them looking, as many times as they like. Had a guy look at my profile everyday for a couple of months, yes he is a paid member, wondered if he would ever send a message or flirt, then one day he did. I did ask why he looked at my profile daily and why he took so long to make contact. Work kept him out of state and didn't want to waste my time and he liked my profile pic lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '3s_a_party'I agree, its a little pet peeve of mine too, some ppl look and look and look, could be over weeks/months, and they never contact you, so whats the point? If your not going to contact someone then stop deriving some sort of pleasure from their profile, obviously u like something about it, and if u r that indecisive about contacting someone, maybe this isnt the right place for u, we need more ppl of action!!- Posted from rhpmobile 3's, maybe, just maybe the person looked at your profile, liked what they saw, i.e. you pics but doesn't meet your criteria. Out of respect they won't contact you (because they don't meet your criteria) but do like viewing your pics. Seriously if you are that worried about people viewing your pics, put all bar one in a PG and only give out access to those you deem worthy. Otherwise, a profile is for PUBLIC viewing and unless someone has been rejected I can't see any harm in multiple views. If someone does view too often and that annoys you, block them, that is what the function is for right.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Socsio'Id like a.flirt that says "your an idiot" To the flirtee's that send ......"your are hot what do you think of me.". and don't have photos, Or did everyone else get a crystal ball when the signed up? Mine must still be in the mail. Freo let them perve I say.....it is a nice pool, and pretty wank worthy. Xxx ... that flirt is a result of someone rating your profile as hot in the Hot or Not section. Would you prefer they don't rate you as hot? lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
And you look fine Girll LOL
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'BrightBubbly' I totally get where you are coming from.I have guys that look at my profile 2-3 times a day.There is obviously something that has caught there eye about me. my pic or my profile but they never drop a flirt or a message.Why bother looking if you aren't going to do anything.It makes me feel like I have got a peeping tom watching me !!! The multiple views is the flirt ? Maybe he is waiting for some indication you are are at least receptive .. perhaps via few returned views ... or if you really want to lash out perhaps you could send the first message ?Maybe it is because he knows that a large percentage of unsolicited first messages he sends are never even read and regularly earn you an instant block ?In relation to the OPThis place is a gold mine of some crazy F&!%'d up sh!t but this has got to take the cake .. Pay for a membership on an adult dating site (I use the term loosely) put a picture of a swimming pool in place of yourself and then get upset enough to write a forum post about it when people look at it.Perhaps they're looking for the boiled bunny they know is there somewhere ? You know kinda like that "Where's Wally" game .. you never can find them all on the first look.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I discovered with the mobile app that when you swipe the members main profile picture that displays basic information it gets recorded as a view. Even though you have not viewed their profile. I discovered this after receiving a nasty Fuck Off message from a member I had not viewed. I decided to reply to suggest she was off her chops after the fact that I had not even viewed her profile. After a few tests that is the only thing that we could work. After apologies and some common sense all is good. Maybe this is the case before you abuse or block some poor sap.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just a short note to make people aware that when flicking through profiles on the phone app even if your flicking past them it appears like you have viewed them :) And really why are you on here if you have an issue with people just looking ? How is it different from being checked out by people when your out and them not making contact ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Aussie_Fella_24' I just clicked on your profile 10 times....Just cause I can? :P :P :PIf you really did, I'd probably squirt :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'gcfree' I discovered with the mobile app that when you swipe the members main profile picture that displays basic information it gets recorded as a view. Even though you have not viewed their profile. I discovered this after receiving a nasty Fuck Off message from a member I had not viewed. I decided to reply to suggest she was off her chops after the fact that I had not even viewed her profile. After a few tests that is the only thing that we could work. After apologies and some common sense all is good. Maybe this is the case before you abuse or block some poor sap.- Posted from rhpmobileThose who know me well know the story of the swimming pool. I have some amazing genuine friends on here. I choose to keep my personal photos in my private galleries. The main offenders are surprisingly cross dressers...I have no idea why :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '3s_a_party' I agree, its a little pet peeve of mine too, some ppl look and look and look, could be over weeks/months, and they never contact you, so whats the point? If your not going to contact someone then stop deriving some sort of pleasure from their profile, obviously u like something about it, and if u r that indecisive about contacting someone, maybe this isnt the right place for u, we need more ppl of action!!- Posted from rhpmobile someone who "gets it" x
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RHP User
11 years ago
One day nobody will be interested in you at all, you will drop completely off the radar and you will yearn for the days when people lusted after you.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I find it interesting to look at profiles; I have only been back on the dating scene for the last year. So many things have changed since I last dated. By reading the posts I am not only learning how to sell myself again. (Still doing a shit job, I might add too LOL). Forums this is new to me as well, maybe I won’t just procrastinate and I should start to leave flirts.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Stop checking the checkers - checkmate ;) power of the thumb
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