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Identity theft or identity shift? Is a change as good as a holiday?

April 21 2014

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As we regular forumites know, many of our regulars ebb & flow with their profile. For many reasons, and most I agree with, are valid. Some of us keep up, most don't. It matters little. Those representing themselves remain comfortable and that is all that matters. For those with successful alias's, have you been happy floating your new alias? I still chuckle at my recent faux paus apologising to Ralf with the wrong profile :-) (My non forum profile) She thought she'd pissed off more people than she knew;-) In the real world, identity theft is a scary truth that I have had severe real experiences with. Horrifying stuff! But the question I am posing is can I 'adjust' my current profile without you all feeling I'm being deceitful? The reason I ask is that all of my real life experiences with wonderful RHP souls say that my profile doesn't reflect me. Rather than starting from scratch, I'd like to realign me to me. Even my pretend name of 'Kay' can put people off. Should I start from scratch or change my current profile? What would you do?

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  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    11 years ago

    That is, what do you feel like doing most.......change your current profile or start from the scratch? I often get my answer crystal clear when I consult with my first instinct :-) I have always kept the same username since day 1 I signed up, but have changed about 95% of my profile content as I cruise along. What my profile reads today isn't the same as what it read before. I also change it every so often to reflect the change in my needs and wants. So, to answer your very last question on "what would you do?"........I would just change my profile content to reflect who I am and what I seek at this stage of my life, if I were you :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    So being ME and yapping too much honesty on here is not a good idea due to possible ID Theft? I'm pretty much like this on FB too lol Mrs_AJ - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've changed my profile and username quite a few times as I discovered more and and my needs changed. My profile has always been a true representation of who I am at the time.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think I interpreted this thread wrong lol, now I look like a dork hahaha. Mrs_AJ - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    I have no idea who is who on here at the best of times. My profile changes occasionally to my desires at the time, tho my name never has.. I don't see the point in that.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hello. Hmmm the way I see the topic of change is how the profile reflects the change you make. People are not stagnant....because we have developed a complex brain and a heart that feels....our world that is constantly changing can affect us. I don't believe people can say they never change. So in saying all this Miss Kay...I say change is healthy...as for your profile, I say the same...as long it it reflects you.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    People do seem to get het up over what other members are doing for them - complaints about responding, about not responding, long profiles, short profiles, sounding pompous, having poor grammar, detailed profiles, too much information in profiles, profiles that are continuously changing, profiles that never change, people being online, people being invisible, blah blah blah. Can you imagine anyone having the nerve to hold you to account for any of these so-called failings in the real world? Not a chance. Because you don't owe them anything, and the same is true here. I'd go with evolution. It's the same you, but evolved. And if that means a name change, then go for it. You'll then still be associated with your old posts in the forum I guess, for that sense of who you were/are... Just 2c worth.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I closed my account a few months ago and started from scratch. This was mainly to leave my three hundred or so posts behind me.But I think I'm still a stalker's dream. I disclose far too much.

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  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Reinvention of the wheel is as good as a new tyre - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Reading this has made me contemplate a re vamp of my profile, does it honestly reflect where I am right now and is it worded to project that.

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  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    MissKay, only YOU know that answer, no one can answer it for you or tell you what to do with your profile. However, people do like honesty. Why, are people telling you that your profile does not reflect you?? What is their reasoning behind it?? I have changed my profile so many times, but kept the same name! I own my name and I own me. Stuff changing for anyone else! I only change for me, no one else. How many X's can one have in their name before it becomes X-rated? LOL... Ms.Foxxxy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Kermit_The_Trogg' I'd go with evolution. It's the same you, but evolved. And if that means a name change, then go for it. You'll then still be associated with your old posts in the forum I guess, for that sense of who you were/are... I like that, a lot. I want to change my name but still be associated with my past posts. Mea - you start new profiles but your username is always similar, I want to do a complete turn around, hence me liking Kermit's idea. Foxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxy - I think I'm telling myself it's less like me than others are, but so many who meet me, men and woman alike, say they expected a far different persona. I guess like most when setting up your profile you are in a rush and can get lazy. I've been here for nearly 18 months now (where is the shocked smiley face) and I've also grown tremendously. Exactly Shy - and PFFT!!! "But I've not been around long enough for my opinion to matter much" sod off, I adore your opinion, especially if you spell something wrong

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    even remember all my different profile names.....Hesione,Freya,Eskimo Nell,Aunty Edna,Lystrata,Ariachne....and a few more...the names represented different aspects of my persona...or how I was feeling at the time....I assume Miss Kay you are here for you,who cares what others think....it's all' subjective anyway....my profile atm is totally trutthful and accurate:-) :-) :-) of course tomorrow I might be someone completely different....reinvention is the mother of necessity xxx Q

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' I closed my account a few months ago and started from scratch. This was mainly to leave my three hundred or so posts behind me. 300 Pages of posts, that is. And MissKay,yes, but any new members joining won't find my old posts. I was smart enough to change Mes to something completely different right before deleting my account. Only those who know me will recognise my old stuff.

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  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Qefenta2' even remember all my different profile names.....Hesione,Freya,Eskimo Nell,Aunty Edna,Lystrata,Ariachne....and a few more...the names represented different aspects of my persona...or how I was feeling at the time....I assume Miss Kay you are here for you,who cares what others think....it's all' subjective anyway....my profile atm is totally trutthful and accurate:-) :-) :-) of course tomorrow I might be someone completely different....reinvention is the mother of necessity xxx Q We just knew that was you Miss Freya Oh and MissKay, change what you want, but we shall know who you are, just by how you have that unique style about you. xx Mado Tara xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ShyPrincess74' Whenever I post a typo now I'm not going to correct it or apologise for it, as much as if annoys me, just for you! :-) I don't believe you. Wow Q that is some number of profiles, but you are easy to spot despite what your name choice is at the time. Mea - and I know why you chose to do it that way. 300pages! Sheesh! That's quite a storm in a teacup. That's what I thought too Mado. Miss Kay signing off.

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  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ShyPrincess74' Whenever I post a typo now I'm not going to correct it or apologise for it, as much as if annoys me, just for you! :-) That must have had you biting the nails, nice to help relieve some of that tension, he he.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    as good as a holiday they say :) Do what think is best for you. Just give me a heads up, hehe.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    you'll be the first to know

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Miss Kay....just had a change of name....again xx BC:-) :-) :-)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've been waiting hours and you get instant privileges??? I'm dark & angry about this... I want my new nemesis NOW! Who do I have to sleep with to rectify this?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Go to your profile and change your user name.....don't close down your profile xx BC

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Coriander:-) :-) xxBC

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  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Rectumfy* Should do it Miss who ever it shall be.

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  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    it worked fast all right.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'BarefootContessa' There you go. Coriander:-) :-) xxBC Takes a deep drag of her fag.... aargh & sigh. If anyone is curious, it was the rooster, he came first!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks for the shag,it was awesome :-) :-) :-) xxBC

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'll be Cormorant whenever you're ready...

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  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Coriander' Quoting 'BarefootContessa' There you go. Coriander:-) :-) xxBC Takes a deep drag of her fag.... aargh & sigh. If anyone is curious, it was the rooster, he came first! What an entrance, first post and you have answered one of the most sought after answers, how no one has ever come up with the rooster is astounding.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I nearly wet myself! Thanks for your warm welcome babe. Us newbies really appreciate the love. So do the Roosters.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    guys stop changing things its hard enough keeping up with who's who changing profile pics now your changing names man I'm lost I'll keep mine as is. It might not be much to look at or read, but its mine that's who I am. If there is one thing I have learnt being on RHP is that you don't change for any one be yourself.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I was MissKay for 18 months, but felt the need to realign to the progressed me. (Not that it has changed much except a name change & a nasty dig at Bob Dylan fans *losers) Hence me starting this post. Glad I didn't start with a new profile and happy with the result. Still being myself xxx

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  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Coriander' I nearly wet myself! Thanks for your warm welcome babe. Us newbies really appreciate the love. So do the Roosters. Lots of ladies wet themselves, gee you are getting the hang of things real quick

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Coriander' I was MissKay for 18 months, but felt the need to realign to the progressed me. (Not that it has changed much except a name change & a nasty dig at Bob Dylan fans *losers) Hence me starting this post. Glad I didn't start with a new profile and happy with the result. Still being myself xxx no dramas MissKay you still look hot

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