If swinging is easy, can people complicate it?

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  OkeyDoke45

  7 years ago

  You've been having a rough time late?

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Combine ingredients, apply heat. Which doesn't sound so dissimilar to swinging...? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  swingalingson

  7 years ago

  Just leaving this open to forum to get an outlook on things.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I don't think swinging as a couple is ever easy. It takes alot of trust, respect and communication! Pusscat xxx

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  "Complicate things" ? here is a question for you -"What number follows number 1?" Whilst the Obvious answer to the average person may be 2, the correct answer is.."Not enough information to answer that question correctly" If Logic can complicate a simple math question, an "Already complicated" human can TOTALLY fuck up in a swinging environment... I will step away from my computer now though...

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  ReyandJean

  7 years ago

  Swinging by definition means partners in a committed relationship. Relationships take work. Swinging simplifies things for us because there's less tiptoeing around and more open communication about desires and needs. What Woody_P said, " trust, respect and communication!"

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  aussian43

  7 years ago

  Every time another person gets involved the complexity jumps. Getting everyone desires, expectations, requirements and emotions to all line up, it is a miracle anything happens. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  horneycouplewa

  7 years ago

  I believe once you have already established the trust and friendships it will be easier if everyone can get the timing right........ Sigh....... Getting to meet new swingers is definitely not easy, sometimes it's a process and we definitely don't do complicated. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  7 years ago

  It is not just about (at least for us) jumping into bed with anyone, or the first person that comes along. For us there needs to be a connection, and understanding, an attraction. There need to be common likes and values , desires and understandings. We prefer to get to know the other person/people fairly well first. It is an opportunity to see if they share the same values and passions. It is an opportunity to be able to discuss their likes & dislikes and to lay down any boundaries & ground rules. After all, one is about to share ones body ( and sometimes ones mind) with them, in an intimate way. So yes humans / the human mind /psyche & personality, does make swinging complicated , at least for us it requires lots of effort and personal screening. For others it may purely be a physical / biological act, like two dogs copulating on the sidewalk. We prefer it to be more in depth and complicated. Nothing should be too easy. If everything was "too easy" (yes a pun on the popular Aussie phrase) then every Tom, Dick & Harry would jump on the bandwagon and just do it. We like people to make the effort, not just to meet us, but to get to know us. Just like we feel it is important to shower, shave and dress up for the occasion.

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