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If you Could
October 03 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think i would share it with some one i feel safe with..otherwise yes it stays in the masturbation bank !
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RHP User
12 years ago
i shared mine with my wife..... so we explored it together...turns out it wasnt so dark, nor so kinky..... since then we have set out to explore some 'mutual' fantasies..... so far, every ones ended up with its box ticked....lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im sure if you met me Mike Ide push those boundaries.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wouldn't mention it to anyone, unless I knew they were already into it.Don't ask I aint telling. Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't have any deep dark kinks. Mybad
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RHP User
12 years ago
Carpe Diem - Sieze the day, remember! Most of the people I connect with are on the same wavelength, generally not shy LOL So any new adventures that pop into mind tend to be done with someone. Only thing is I tend to find that men dont keep up with being adventurous and tend to want to keep doing the same things all the time. Need to find me a constant kinky man who at least understands variety! I dont enjoy having to be the one with the new moves all the time, I do expect the man to take the lead in the bedroom. I will admit to having 1-2 taboo fantasies that so far have only been either verbal or just mental due to not having found someone I trust enough to actually take the step with. For now the verbalisation during sex of such an act keeps the eroticism there.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Halcyon, your not bad..i think we all have different levels of horny thoughts ..whether they are classified as kink well thats in the darkroom !!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well sometimes turning dreams into reality doesn't always meet expectations... Then you are left without your kink or your wank bank thoughts :( I don't think I have really unusual or particilarly dark kinks and I would speak about them with people I trust... That I know are on the same wavelength as me. Would I turn them all into reality... Yes I probably would under the right circumstances. :D
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
I would only share with the person I felt I could trust 110% .......
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wouldn't be feeling bad or inadequate about it. Takes all kinds, thats a good thing.Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
12 years ago
Then rinse and repeat with a new idea.... gotta keep dreaming
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Im sure if you met me Mike Ide push those boundaries.no..... i dont think you could...as others have said...some things are best left unspoken....lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have a few toe curling fantasies I'd like to explore. As others have said - I'd only feel comfortable sharing these with someone I trust enough to confide in.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Europeanbliss Thanks for the topic:) The Darkest kink I have in my Fantasies will remain there for I'd never want to Participate or be the recipient of this in reality..So in reply No I wouldn't ..Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
What then happens AFTER you've fulfilled it?? Ticking boxes are all well and good until there's nothing left, then what do you do?? Sometimes leaving sleeping dogs lie can better. Call me prudish if you will, and forgive the poor analogy on this one, but SOME serial killers have been born by this very skewing of the boundaries of enjoying a fantasy for what it is, and living it out.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, some fantasies may be best left as such but Jennylee and I are still determined to explore most of them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'What then happens AFTER you've fulfilled it?? Ticking boxes are all well and good until there's nothing left, then what do you do?? Sometimes leaving sleeping dogs lie can better. Call me prudish if you will, and forgive the poor analogy on this one, but SOME serial killers have been born by this very skewing of the boundaries of enjoying a fantasy for what it is, and living it out. Personal journey for myself. Boundaries do change but they are more about what you are willing to accept after pushing the previous ones. The ones Im talking about are those that have been with you for a very long time and nver thought you would meet some one who could make it happen. My body. I can do what I like with it.
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LemonDance
12 years ago
Yes I would.... Not sure if it will ever happen though!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't know about prudish but I think that is a completely irresponsible thing to say. I hope you don't have kids and say that to them. There is absolutely nothing wrong with pushing your boundaries. It is the way that we learn and grow as people after all. To equate someone who is exploring their sexual side to a serial killer is really poor. People should be encouraged not put down for their sexual desires. It does fascinate me though. Why are some people happy with missionary position most of their lives with out ever wondering what else is out there? So hardtruckin? Why do you find sexual exploration so threatening? Why is it so bad? Quoting 'hardtruckin2011' What then happens AFTER you've fulfilled it?? Ticking boxes are all well and good until there's nothing left, then what do you do?? Sometimes leaving sleeping dogs lie can better. Call me prudish if you will, and forgive the poor analogy on this one, but SOME serial killers have been born by this very skewing of the boundaries of enjoying a fantasy for what it is, and living it out.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Fantasies are great but living the fantasy is better. Ok, some doesn't quite live up to what I have thought it would be but the fun is in the making of the fantasy into reality. And I try to do it a few times just to make sure Once a fantasy is done, its amazing how the mind can conjure other possibilities or variations to that one fantasy. It's amazingly endless
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are so many different perceptions of what is too risque and what is not, I think it is up to the individual or couple to decide what is what and if it feels comfortable for them, the problem is if one wants to push the boundaries and the other doesn't then there should be respect for the one that is not quite ready to go that far.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I tend to agree with Lollypop_NSW in that some kinky fantasies are best not said to all but to someone who you know that both you and they would find it fascinating. I am so lucky to have found a woman who is my equal in that we both love to try somewhat kinky things when we meet. I mean, having sweetened condensed milk licked off a certain part of my body was just so damn erotic!!!! Yes, I do have one or two kinky ones myself that I have yet to fulfill but, who knows, maybe soon, maybe not.........
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm threatened by pushing ones boundaries at all, but at some point we must exhaust ALL of those fantasies, if we live them out and I wonder to myself where to now?? Where does one go in their mind to find that buzz that a fantasy gives, if indeed we've exhausted them all?? Which was my original point, not to put anyone down.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011' I'm threatened by pushing ones boundaries at all, but at some point we must exhaust ALL of those fantasies, if we live them out and I wonder to myself where to now?? Where does one go in their mind to find that buzz that a fantasy gives, if indeed we've exhausted them all?? Which was my original point, not to put anyone down. But still... so what is the alternative? To not fulfil your fantasies because you might run out? Go hard dude! You only live once.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I suppose you are only limited by your imagination.
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I do pose the question, at what point do we draw the line and say to ourselves "you know what, that's something that's nice to think about, but it would be best left there."?? Is there such a point in time that that becomes the reality?? Or do we continue as its been suggested to twist the fantasy to deeper, darker depths?? Which is where my poor analogy then came to play, in the sense then we open another can of worms as to "what is an acceptable form of darkness that we bestow on our fantasies??" Or have I ran a slightly different road of defining "dark"?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'I'm threatened by pushing ones boundaries at all, but at some point we must exhaust ALL of those fantasies, if we live them out and I wonder to myself where to now?? Where does one go in their mind to find that buzz that a fantasy gives, if indeed we've exhausted them all?? Which was my original point, not to put anyone down. And some can be revisited with a twist. Sory trucking your logic is somewhat disturbing to me. If you were a dom I stay so far away from you as possible.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I suppose you are only limited by your imagination. Exactly - so once you have made your first a reality, other kinky thoughts must follow, which need fulfilling :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why do we have to twist anything into deep darker depths? Such as what? Nobody is talking about doing anything illegal. We are talking about fantasies with consenting adults. Okay maybe some people don't know where to stop and if it is physically or mentally harmful to them then obviously that isn't good. It is interesting that you think that pushing your boundaries has to be become sordid or dark and depraved. Are you worried about what lies beneath your thoughts Hardtruckin?Europianbliss I think Hardtruckin has taken your use of the word "dark' to mean something bad whereas I think you meant that more as something a person keeps hidden or secret within themselves. Am I right in assuming that?
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RHP User
12 years ago
But it happens in reality, fantasies that ARE acted out can take a very tragic and very much an unexpected twist if we don't have a point within ourselves to know when to respect it as a fantasy, and when to act it out. While it maybe taboo, one of the examples that could better describe my point are "rape fantasies." There ARE some women with whom I know that HAVE fantasised about this particular role play fantasy, and the point I'm attempting to draw focus on, is the potential then for some people to take things too far and having it spill outside the confines of our bedrooms, when it probably should've been respected as simply a fantasy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Acceptable form of darkness? You must really have some very depraved fantasies!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am probably more vanilla than you think.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I always find it intersting that when people step away from the mainstream, be it vanilla sex into kink, or kink into the extremes, peoples minds always tend to suddenly jump into overload and suddenly thing we are sticking plastic bags on our heads, hanging from cielings with meat hooks in our flesh or some other way extreme ideas we have seen or heard about. Use the MIND! I love to test the waters. Lets be out there and consider the meat hook scenario. Would I do that, god no! But you know sometimes those things we woulldnt physically do, are what our fantasies are about. Fantasy to reality, hmmm well I aint about to jump to that extreme in the blink of an eye. Maybe this is where hardtruckins way of thinking of dark is? I am twisted and perverted so no judgement here LOL So during your sexual activities, play with the mind, whisper scenarios to your partner, build on that with each sexual session. You will find that today you talk about the bondage, tomorrow the sterlisation of hooks, the next week your inserting them into the flesh and POW mentally we stop and go, oh no, not going there! Has anyone been hurt? NO, but you have found a limit, you have 'tested the waters' on a fantasy before you jump into doing something stupid! Play with the mind, use the mind fuck, you will still react and find your limits without any danger. Then you can start with the feather before you use the whole chook! hahahaha
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dubbadeez
12 years ago
Can anyone suggest anything? I am not the most imaginative women in the world but I am sure if I heard of something (like 50 Shades) I'd be ok with performing. I doubt I would hold on to the fantasy and keep it as a fastasy only.Like I said, I can't think of anything that I find kinky that can't (or I wont) be performed . If anyone wants to message me with their kinky act, then they might make it my new, never to be performed kink!!!!!!Mrs DUBB xxxxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I think you meant that more as something a person keeps hidden or secret within themselves. Am I right in assuming that?
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RHP User
12 years ago
the new black,now referred to as mummy porn.I do wonder how many women or men have read that book and said''I want what she is having''....and then have actually gone through the menu with a current partner or found a lover to do just that. One person's dark fantasy is another persons just a day at the orrifice in my opinion.I have lived out some of my fantasies and participated in helping others fulfill theirs,some I would definitely do again if I found the right person, it was the right time and we were in the right place and yes I do still have a list,not a long one I must admit,but I would love to make it even shorter
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RHP User
12 years ago
Has exactly the point, and the concern I have.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'dubbadeez'Can anyone suggest anything? I am not the most imaginative women in the world but I am sure if I heard of something (like 50 Shades) I'd be ok with performing. I doubt I would hold on to the fantasy and keep it as a fastasy only.Like I said, I can't think of anything that I find kinky that can't (or I wont) be performed . If anyone wants to message me with their kinky act, then they might make it my new, never to be performed kink!!!!!!Mrs DUBB xxxxx If you do a google search for bdsm checklist, fetish or kink checklist, you will find masses of kinky ideas for you to work through, from mild to extreme. Everyone has limits and there is no possible way in a persons lifetyle you can do everything possibly out there. Keep in mind yourcomment 'my new, never to be performed kink' is exactly that, yours... I am sure there is many people who could suggest things that they like, have done, or fantasize about, but your tastes are different so finding something that you or someone else may never perform, is not impossible. As I have recently made mention to someone in conversation, I hate people who say they will try ANYTHING. Say anything to me and I guarantee that you will back down with your tail between your legs and say no. Beware when saying anything, you are likely to end up in trouble and you need to be responsible for that flippant word used without consideration of the consequences. Have fun searching the checklists, I know they have always gotten me salivating with ideas without much effort ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'But it happens in reality, fantasies that ARE acted out can take a very tragic and very much an unexpected twist if we don't have a point within ourselves to know when to respect it as a fantasy, and when to act it out. While it maybe taboo, one of the examples that could better describe my point are "rape fantasies." There ARE some women with whom I know that HAVE fantasised about this particular role play fantasy, and the point I'm attempting to draw focus on, is the potential then for some people to take things too far and having it spill outside the confines of our bedrooms, when it probably should've been respected as simply a fantasy. Ok, I think 'making your deepest darkets kink a reality' like with all topics, is very broad and open to interpretation. hardtruckin is obviously concerned about peoples common sense with taking a fantasy into a reality and the possible rammification of something bad happening. Most people dont go to extremes, thats why we have fantasies, but some of us do want them lived and problems can arise. EXPERIENCE I had a guy once with a kidnapping rape fantasy. He often spoke of all the details, what he wanted to happen, the scenario from start to finish, and often would push the point of begging me to do it so he could live out the fantasy. This guy had almost 2 decades of experience with kinky activites, so I thought ok, why not give him his wish. PROBLEM In his fantasy, and with all his actual experience, one can never tell how you will react in situations. I gave him his fantasy, with some safe twists so he couldnt predict and it was still exciting. BUT after a short drive blindfolded, driven back home and guided into my garage to be thrown down and hogtied on a mattress he still freaked out! HINDSIGHT After having ended up stopping the roleplaying abruptly and giving him time to pull himself together, after a few hours he did say he loved what I did, he wanted to try it again, he had no regrets other than panicing and needing it to be stopped. OUTCOME He learnt that even with all his experience in role playing, some fantasies involving being caught off guard like kidnapping, you cant, no matter how much you want or prepare, you can never know how you will actually react, mentally, emotionally or physically. I LEARN'T When someone wants to live a fantasy, start with a blindfold but take it off early in the peace if its an extreme fantasy, let them get their bearings and catch some reality with a familiar face for trust and to enjoy the experience. I am all for doing fantasies, but put some serious thought into them and always have down time after, talk and cuddle, feel safe with the person you just shared an amazing experience with. Good or bad, life is full of experiences, just gives you the chance to do it again to make it better ;) ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I met the right person and there was absolute trust and she was very very very kinky and very very very open minded? I would do it in a heartbeat. The big wait would be 1. Finding that person and 2. Building up the courage to tell her.
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RHP User
12 years ago
serial killers don't really push boundaries, they are born sociopaths and therefore have no part in this topic. Since leaving my ex a yr ago, i have definately fullfilled some kinky fantasies! but what is kinky or new for some is old hat for others!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why over complicate things? Give it a red hot go! At least u won't die wondering :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
ive lived out all of my kinks exept the one about being gangbanged by 7 people o no its out of the mind bank now bugger
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bugger is right sneakypete. Try the gay spas and I guarantee you will have a continuous gang bang... All night long. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
withTHE ONE YOU trust....do it....fantasies are part of a well balanced hot sex live.....have done a few and then go to the next.....and everytime its another WOW factor...talk about it...or write about it.....and then DO IT but it takes two to tango...so make sure you trust THE ONE.... have fun
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RHP User
12 years ago
my deepest, darkest fantasies, would have to remain just that...a fantasy..they are just too dark!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bringing kinks to reality is a wonderful way of exploring sexually with your partner, pushing boundaries, keeping things exciting. Discussing likes and dislikes, limitations and planning together is half the fun.Been in the BDSM lifestyle a while now and have been fortunate enough to have shared in some amazing kinks with some amazing ladies and cpls.I have also spoken to a lot of women within the lifestyle who have told me horror stories where kinks have gone horribly wrong.Just keep it safe and sane (keep risks to a minimum) and above all else make sure your limits are respected.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well Hun that makes 2 of us with deep dark Fantasies and not sharing for the same reason ..So does that make us warped or very imaginative he!he! Enjoy it to the Max with your Fantasy Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MadamDragonfly' Well Hun that makes 2 of us with deep dark Fantasies and not sharing for the same reason ..So does that make us warped or very imaginative he!he! Enjoy it to the Max with your Fantasy Cheers Lu :) haha...mine will remain fantasies only, cause i don't think i'd ever be brave enough, to go through with them!(like 3 or 4 guys....or hardcore BDSM...etc...)
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RHP User
12 years ago
You only live once ! Life is short so why not have fun ! Do it or you may one day regret it, it could just be a 3some or something kinkier, some people are getting way too serious on this topic. just live life and have fun.
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RHP User
12 years ago
EuropeanBliss - Can I get back to you on this? I may have the opportunity to explore one of my darker / deeper desires and Im not sure how Im going to go with that so I will raincheck my answer for a little while Kisses Focus
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would definately go for it if the chance were to arrise.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lost_Focus' EuropeanBliss - Can I get back to you on this? I may have the opportunity to explore one of my darker / deeper desires and Im not sure how Im going to go with that so I will raincheck my answer for a little while Kisses Focus
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RHP User
12 years ago
Envious of those whose life partner encourages that level of intimacy and honesty. I could NEVER discuss my deepest, darkest fantasies with my husband - he would be horrified! If someone puts you up on a pedestal, then discovers you're not their 'princess' and actually have filthy, depraved ideas that totally get your rocks off, you have an awfully long way to plummet from your lofty perch! I guess I'm just lucky I found a lover who loves all that kinkiness about me instead! Sometimes you just click with someone and know you can trust them even with the depths of your depravity. The filthier I am, the more he enjoys it! Problem is - I'm running out of fantasies - need more ideas and suggestions!
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RHP User
12 years ago
yea finding someone you trust toexplore these,,, am working on fulfilling one of mine shortly ,,,,,, this is a personal choice we all make,,, to dream or make it a reality,,, but do it
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RHP User
12 years ago
wow how do i find women like you lol. How hot would love a woman to do what she wants and feel comfortable doing it do me and i would love to return the favour i have a few mmmmmmmm where are you ladies
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hell no! Spank bank (or the female version of it anyway, ha ha ) all the way ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wow... I would love to have mine fulfilled....
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RHP User
12 years ago
3.2.1... go.. do this and make fantasy come true
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RHP User
12 years ago
... this becomes a debate about what is kinky anyway! And the truth is very subjective - there are things that I don't like doing that some people would think are barely kinky...and then things I have or would do that most people would think very depraved!
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RHP User
12 years ago
yes i would tell someone or else i may never come true
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RHP User
12 years ago
The one fantasy I always thought might be good in reality was MFM. I didn't want to engineer it though, I wanted it to be natural. I came close twice but other circumstances intervened. And now I'm in a monogamous relationship, so the fantasy will stay that way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
but EB I would say yes! yes! and yes! I got to experience my deepest darkest fantasy over the weekend and I would definately do it again!! Kisses Focus
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jamiematherson'Mine is to be tied to a bed for the day, with the woman coming and and using me at her leisure. Making me lick suck and fuck...especially the licking bit. ...or is that more of a wish 😊 Just stopping off to get some petrol... a bourbon, coke, no ice - ready when I get there, would be much appreciated. Ill do the Japanese rope tying ....ok ? Good thats Settled Love Sunday nites !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lost_Focus' but EB I would say yes! yes! and yes! I got to experience my deepest darkest fantasy over the weekend and I would definately do it again!! Kisses FocusIm still frantically masterbating everytime I think of doing it.
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inspirit
12 years ago
keep moving on. I full fill one then my mind gets more devious. At the moment I would share with some one I trusted with my life and had a real deep sexual connection with me....Otherwise forget it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Fulfilled my deepest and darkest a long time ago. Happy now to keep exploring and experimenting and finding new possibilities. If you get the chance - do it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
id love to make it happen if i can find a woman who wants to experience hers aswell then lets experience it .
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accessss
12 years ago
EuropianBliss u r my fantasy no 1. No 2 is..... No 3 is..... . . . . . .No 11 258 899 is a maid in high heels and strapon.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mine is staying right where it is now, in my dark secret corner in my head.... It isn't overly shocking or anything, and it will be there until some lucky day some very nice girl will propose it... If I don't then die of excitement, we would make each other both very very happy :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'accessss'EuropianBliss u r my fantasy no 1. No 2 is..... No 3 is..... . . . . . .No 11 258 899 is a maid in high heels and strapon. We may have to make it a reality.
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mvagusta9
12 years ago
europeanbliss i love bi parties mix of bodies liking suking every one yum yum.mvagusta9.- Posted from rhpmobile
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accessss
12 years ago
Sure hun. Msg me....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes!! Got a few ideas that could happen - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Im still learning how deep and how dark it might be.To be advised...lolDG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Id love to make my deepest darkest kink a reality then once done come up with another then once I have done that, come up with another...... and on and on it goes. Push the boundaries of your own limits ( assuming who ever is involved is also comfortable) After all you only get one life so make the most of it. Have no regrets :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have some deep and dark kinks in my mind. Some I know I will never try and will keep them in my mind and on occasion drag them out while communicating with a friend or as an background in the mind during a private wank. But there are some that I have not had the chance to explore and I leave them ready to explore with the right person/s. Finding the person of trust that will not judge is the difficult part. Some say they are open, but when it comes down to it then there is a no thanks. Sometimes the person is right but the environment is wrong.Yet i must say since I joined the swinging lifestyle there are many "If i coulds" that I never imagined would or can become reality that have happened. Also love that there are some that can with imagination expand my dark side. Oh they are so rare.Is there a limit to the diversity to lustful sexual experiences? I am very much thinking that there is none. Now I am to remain healthy so I can have time to explore all that lust can give. Never had regrets so far so look forward to the next step down (or up) the road of kink.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would share a guy or guys with a lady who set the pace and told me, and watched me do her bidding.
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RHP User
12 years ago
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